Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,428 members, 7,954,670 topics. Date: Saturday, 21 September 2024 at 06:34 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Why Is No One Talking About The Boy In The Babcock University Sex Video? (2646 Views)
Meet Parents Of Boy In Calm Down Viral Video (photos) / How To Prevent The Boy Child From Sexual Abuse / 17-Year-Old Girl Weds 18-Year-Old Boy In Abia (Photos) (2) (3) (4)
Re: Why Is No One Talking About The Boy In The Babcock University Sex Video? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:21pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Mindfulness: yes the law is 33% part of the solution, as nobody should be filmed against their will (or have their intimacy violated)... but we also have to also be realistic here: many of the people who put such material online, do so "knowingly" for trending/likes/cheap fame purposes etc, not seeing the big picture. so 33% of the solution is making sure these clueless kids dont make these mistakes. the final solution rests on PARENTS. this is the new social media era where its seen as "cool" to broadcast your everyday life, down to every single details. some are willing to walk outside butt nekkid, thanks to the Kim Ks and Mercy/Tacha of this world, who make it seem like nudity is synonymous with femininity. you have to be seriously lacking, as a person, if you think that showing your body (to get attention from total strangers) is something remotely positive. so the hard work starts at home, as parents, its our duty to teach and raise our kids properly to make sure that they dont make such foolish mistakes. you have to be on top of your kids social media profiles (as well as their closed friends), and turn into some type of James Bond, making them understand that, if they are ashamed at their parents reading/seeing what they are posting online, then maybe it aint right to post it. |
Re: Why Is No One Talking About The Boy In The Babcock University Sex Video? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Certainly! But you can also make mistakes when you are 20. You know how love and passion can make a young person go gaga. How would you monitor an 18/19/20 years old boy or girl? I know you will say that at this age they should know better but again love/passion can make you lose your reasoning abilities. I know how foolish I was at 19. When I was in love at this age, I believed it would last forever and that there has never been greater love on this earth before. I thought I was Romeo and Juliet, just better and with a happy ending. Anyway ... I am derailing ... I agree with you, we have to monitor kids and teach them media literacy, discuss such topics, the risks and benefits and trust they will make the right decisions. And law makers will hopefully do their part too. Well said but even we as adults post things sometimes that we shouldn't. Technology has developed at such a pace that we have trouble catching up and adapting to new realities. There are parallels between the industrial revolution and the digital age, one of them is the fact that these are insecure times. People lack orientation. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is No One Talking About The Boy In The Babcock University Sex Video? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:46pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Mindfulness: i fully agree... our job as parents is to raise our kids and instill in them the values needed for them to become law abiding rightful intelligent individuals. our jobs is about 12 to 16 yrs long because, if by the time your child reaches that age you havent done the proper work, then nothing can be done from that point on.... and school/friend/bad influences etc will take over and raise your child for you. even if you have raised your child the best, and given them the proper values, somebody can just come into their lives and erase all your hard work within a few months and turn your child into a stranger/zombie. by the time that child has reached 18yr old, although my love for them will never change, if/when you fukc up, thats your cross to carry, not mine any longer. there is nothing i could tell a young adult child that will change anything anyway. oh dont get me started on all this technology....but we have to be on top of it all and catch up with it, if we dont then we can simply call ourselves out of touch (out of time). i'd rather look silly but educated on the foolishness that these kids get into (apps, tech gears, even slang etc) instead of me being completely clueless about it... especially with younger ones going online. with all the HIGHLY stoopid "online challenge" trend that they get into, some normal kid can act a damn fool (or die), just because of trending purposes. i wont even dwell on the Condom snorting challenge, the fire challenge, the boiling water madness..... or even the blue whale thingy (slightly different and more real than the momo challenge). yes we all have made mistakes or post something very silly, but as adults we fully take responsibility for the consequences of our action...something these young adults are not yet familiar with. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is No One Talking About The Boy In The Babcock University Sex Video? by crackhaus: 8:48pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
crackhaus: Fvck it... Deji Yusufu has stolen & used my unique perspective on social psychology to come up with one of his writeups. Intellectual theft VBCampaign: |
Re: Why Is No One Talking About The Boy In The Babcock University Sex Video? by Teerach: 8:58pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
The boy had been expelled a long time ago from the school for drugs. She visited him in the hospital while he was sick and that's the sex tape video thingy. Sources said the sex video was a long time matter but the boy slept with his friends gf, the friend started sharing the video to the guys as pay back. The video entered the victim's enemies hand(the phone of a gal who doesn't like the gal in the sex video). That's the end 1 Like |
Re: Why Is No One Talking About The Boy In The Babcock University Sex Video? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: The list with the challenges cracked me up. How do you know all of them? Are you participating? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is No One Talking About The Boy In The Babcock University Sex Video? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:50pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
Mindfulness: lol... you MUST know and educate yourself about all of them, so you can either warn them about such stoopidity and/or see the sign if they fall into such trend. but even if you remove the internet from the equation, then they could just go to a friends place and get high on some weed etc look him/her dead in their eyes as they come back home to see if their pupils are dilated, thats the main sign for you to become James bond again. lol! it aint easy but has to be done! 2 Likes |
Guys Please Can You Help Me Interprete This Cos I Don't Understand / Seven Year Old Gets Plastic Surgery To Prevent Bullying (would You Allow It) / Schooling And Living On Campus: The Nigerian Experience...
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 49 |