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Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by kcjazz(m): 6:19pm On Nov 22, 2010
Specialist900:

if he agrees to stop bombings and killing i think they can work it out.

Well the truth is he is a world fugitive. He can't even attend his kids PTA meeting. 1 Cor. 7: 12-15 also gives another perspective that serves ground for divorce. Like I said, it is a last resort, I don't support it but if endangering a person life is involved then I think a separation first and then divorce later if the person is adamant in his/her ways. Even adultery can be forgiven if they can sort things out.
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by MrsEve1: 9:12pm On Nov 22, 2010
Poster,

Traditionally divorce is not encouraged in traditional families, however the modernized society encouraging divorce because it have became monopolized and capitalized, it cost more to divorce than it cost to get married, AINT THAT SOME ISH?

I am from a traditional family and we do not believe in divorce so is my husband's family, we believe in making IT WORK, and people do not have that value nowadays if they do not come from traditional families that is,

Biblically speaking Divorce is a no no and if you divorce your spouse, you are to remain single because if you have sex with someone that is not your spouse, you have committed adultery. Now if you are divorced due to sexual immortality then there a loophole out of the marriage however, it is encouraged to stay married and work it out,

I know most people ASSUMED ALL AMERICANS are divorce hungry but that why ASSUMPTION is deadly because you assume what you don't know and lose out even worse die,
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 4:25pm On Nov 23, 2010
thanks mrs Eve. grin grin
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by MrsEve1: 4:46pm On Nov 23, 2010
You welcome suga cheesy
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 8:29am On Nov 25, 2010
but women can cause man to comit o
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by Tinksh(f): 8:57am On Nov 25, 2010
Why do you want to divorce??
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 5:44pm On Nov 25, 2010
@tink.just want to know if it is forbidden
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by Tinksh(f): 1:36am On Nov 26, 2010
Well it depends on the reason. If you just tired of being married thats not enough of a reason. The if your spouse physically beats you thats a reason for divorce, for your safety. See, it depends. Where i am from it is not forbidden but you would of grown up in a different culture. It also depends on your beliefs. Are you a christian and follow God or not as that would have a bearing on a thing like divorce. You havent given enough info. You know yourself.
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 5:47am On Nov 26, 2010
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by Ranoscky(m): 5:48am On Nov 26, 2010
Forbidden ko, forsakin ni. Send the mutha effin biatch out of the house if she misbehaves jare.
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 1:39pm On Nov 26, 2010
:p :p :p
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 10:47am On Nov 27, 2010
;d ;d ;d
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 5:45pm On Nov 27, 2010
shocked shocked shocked
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 6:30am On Nov 28, 2010
thinking o
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by MrsEve1: 8:20am On Nov 28, 2010
Bored huh?^^^
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 11:49am On Nov 28, 2010
wat of from the muslim point of view? is divorce forbidden?
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 28, 2010
Ranoscky (m) Re: Is Divorce Forbidden
« #31 on: November 22, 2010, 11:39 AM »

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^^

And are you tryin to say that you have not expirienced a married woman that commited fornication before?

Married women dont commit fornication but Adultery
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 6:05pm On Nov 28, 2010
shocked shocked shocked
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 1:16pm On Nov 29, 2010
Ranoscky:

Forbidden ko, forsakin ni. Send the mutha effin biatch out of the house if she misbehaves jare.

you dey vex o
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by maingate1(m): 8:01am On Nov 30, 2010
thinking
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by ShyOne(f): 5:56pm On Dec 12, 2010
I agree with Yoris B.

This NL forum has opened my eyes to alot of things that I wasn't previously aware.

Mrs. Eve - I thank you for you thoughts as I thank others as well.

Marriage is a spiritual connection that is MUCH DEEPER THAN THE PHYSICAL.  My fiancee who is Yoruba is teaching me many, many things that I was previously unaware.

I am very grateful for this forum and it's existence - the threads are extremely helpful.
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by soreola(f): 9:49pm On Dec 12, 2010
i also agree with YorisB,

Marriage is much more than a contract, it is a covenant, I have a question, why say "till death do us part" if you really do not mean it,
If you really meant it then you would fight through all the different storms u face as a couple,
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by keyne(f): 2:13pm On Dec 13, 2010
hard question
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by NYWM1(m): 4:49am On Dec 21, 2010
Mrs. Eve:

Poster,

Traditionally divorce is not encouraged in traditional families, however the modernized society encouraging divorce because it have became monopolized and capitalized, it cost more to divorce than it cost to get married, AINT THAT SOME ISH? 

I am from a traditional family and we do not believe in divorce so is my husband's family, we believe in making IT WORK, and people do not have that value nowadays if they do not come from traditional families that is,

Biblically speaking Divorce is a no no and if you divorce your spouse, you are to remain single because if you have intimacy with someone that is not your spouse, you have committed adultery.  Now if you are divorced due to sexual immortality then there a loophole out of the marriage however, it is encouraged to stay married and work it out,

I know most people ASSUMED ALL AMERICANS are divorce hungry but that why ASSUMPTION is deadly because you assume what you don't know and lose out even worse die,
Amen Mrs. Eve. You are so right!
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by ebonyvibe(f): 5:25pm On Dec 21, 2010
I dont think for the sake of religion family or any external pressures you should stay in a loveless marriage. You are the one in the marriage and know if it can be worked out or not.

Dont get cancer or depression o God didnt say you should be unhappy. Many things can be worked out in my view but only if both parties are willing.
Re: Is Divorce Forbidden by MrCork3: 5:32pm On Dec 21, 2010
Well said by Agony Aunt wink

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