As Patrick Dominic II would rightly say,

You can never love carefully. If you do, it's not love, it's just you trying and testing a new experiment. Love takes away your senses and replaces them with emotions and thoughts. It makes you want the other person to be so happy that you atimes forget what you want. Love is sweet when it's new and sweeter when it's true.

Dear women,

Its okay if you look at that struggling man who gave out all just to build you from nothing to something just to name his price because you believed you have found your Mr right who suits your class now.

Its okay if you start measuring your present academic height with his low life all because he walked the way of love by depriving himself of a personal development just to make you achieve the height you are now.

Its okay if you look at him and tell him to his faces that your people are against you both getting married because of his state, tribe or religion.

Its okay if you start feeling uncomfortable answering his calls whenever you are with your new found Mr right.

But I have this for you today;

Remember those days you felt dejected with no hope, he gave you a roof and settled your bills.

Remember those periods you would go a day with little or nothing to feed from, he took care of you.

Remember those periods you lost your strength and breath to an illness, you weren't convinced within you that giving your parents a call would be an option, he became you parents paid your hospital bills and kept awake all night to make sure you get better.

Remember those periods you barely hang out with your girl friends just because you had no appreciating wears to put on nor a wig to shade your head, he actually said No to his parents that he has no money to help his younger ones just so he can keep you in a match with your friends.

Remember those nights you would call him out to come buy you some pain relief to help calm your menstrual pain, he ignored the odds and dangers of risking his life just to get you feel better.

These are priceless but yet, you got all with no qualifications.
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Love may had taken away his senses and replaced them with emotions and thoughts about you alone that made him placed you first before his own very life.

He may look classless to you all because he built his class in you.

He deserves the best from you and not a stab at the back.

Replicate this blessings and not denying them or telling him to name his price.

Paschal C Akabuogu