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What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by ecozie: 10:43am On Nov 26, 2010
What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships is all about
Tips on what's really on men's minds when it comes to love.
I have heard some people say,
What do men want in a woman?is not the question but
"what men really want in modern relationships"


I will give you a few key points as I said is the question of understanding what the modern man is looking for.
Okay so what is a man seeking?
First of all a man is seeking a love-interest.
Men are seeking a woman who is attractive to them.
Men are looking for a trustworthy girl, someone they can have faith in and someone who will be there for them.
Men want to make a home eventually and are looking for a woman who will be a willing sharer in home life
Men want women with a great sense of humor.
Men love a challenging woman, someone who keeps them on their toes.
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Dyt(f): 10:48am On Nov 26, 2010
Sezx n moni
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Nobody: 12:37pm On Nov 26, 2010
Dyt:

Sezx n moni

true!
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by cnnnigeria: 12:54pm On Nov 26, 2010
yeah right ecozie
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:01pm On Nov 26, 2010
the moment you say MEN then you wont find anything useful to your relationship


you should say WHAT MY MAN WANT IN MODERN RELATIONSHIP

i might be hash or you might say i didnt get the question

but why would i bother with what WOMEN want instead of WHAT MY WOMAN WANT (this is my angle as man)
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by 190: 1:03pm On Nov 26, 2010
sex

sex

and

more sex!!
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Nobody: 1:16pm On Nov 26, 2010
As if they know . . .
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by marychi18: 1:20pm On Nov 26, 2010
@ 190 i totally agree wit u 100%. men love sex more than their lives and when u r giving,they move on d next. speaking from experience.
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by marychi18: 1:25pm On Nov 26, 2010
typo errors on d 1st.

@ 190 i totally agree wit u 100%. men love sex more than their lives and when u r not giving,they move on to d next. speaking from experience.
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:29pm On Nov 26, 2010
marychi18:

typo errors on d 1st.

@ 190 i totally agree wit u 100%. men love sex more than their lives and when u r not giving,they move on to d next. speaking from experience.

say your man loved sex dont paint all men with the same brush


if you are a b.itch does it mean your mum,sister aunt is a bitch too?
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by 190: 1:30pm On Nov 26, 2010
marychi18:

typo errors on d 1st.

@ 190 i totally agree wit u 100%. men love sex more than their lives and when u r not giving,they move on to d next. speaking from experience.

are u speaking from xperience!!  shocked  shocked
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:32pm On Nov 26, 2010
190:

are u speaking from xperience!!  shocked  shocked

she is speaking from sexexprience
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by olaridwan(m): 1:35pm On Nov 26, 2010
i think mostly wat men want is sex. smiley
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Coretalk(m): 1:38pm On Nov 26, 2010
correct wink
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:42pm On Nov 26, 2010
olaridwan:

i think mostly wat men want is sex. smiley

who doesnt want sex ?

the problem with woman is this you are programmed to marriage hence you want a relationship to lead to marriage

when the relationship fails before marriage you rush to say man wanted  sex -------------------  for me sex is part of a relationship

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Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Oxygenmayo(m): 2:33pm On Nov 26, 2010
who doesnt want sex ?

Most men love sex but that shouldn't be the "principal" thing in a relationship, even though you are married. There are other more important issues than sex in a relationship,

Men want women that are financially independent
" " " " " 99.999% faithful, though it kinda difficult these days
" " " " '' virtuous women, you know what I mean? see proverbs 31
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by MrCork26: 2:36pm On Nov 26, 2010
mordern punny tongue
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by swiftycool(m): 2:38pm On Nov 26, 2010
A lady who has something more solid to offer besides her looks n body,
an intelligent lady who has her own true personality which wont get lost becos she met me.
A lady with real good sense of humour can laff wit me and mek me laff
a lady who has real career goals and is focused on gettin em
a lady who doesnt see u as her or her family's meal ticket or route 2 fortune
A self reliant and sexually confident lady dat wont belittle her standards n beliefs due to traditions
A lady whose idea of an ideal date is not food, shopping, lavish/stupid spending in exchange 4 sex (as common in many Naija girls) but is excited just at d chance of spending time together n doing some fun activity, learning and catching lots of laffs.
A lady who accepts a guy 4 who he is, NOT WHAT HE HAS
they are out dere somewhere. . .
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Pennywise(m): 2:39pm On Nov 26, 2010
Oxygenmayo:


Men want women that are financially independent
  "      "          "        "     "   99.999% faithful, though it kinda difficult these days
 
Not sure what you mean bro. But my woman has to be 100% faithfull. Unless if its the other kind of relationship where she doesnt need to be faithfull at all
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by bolafex(f): 2:53pm On Nov 26, 2010
I think more than anything,men want women who are intellectually sound;women who allow them play boys pranks once in a while;women who are emotionally stable and women who are financially independent.
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Ranoscky(m): 3:08pm On Nov 26, 2010
OP, the title of your thread is surpose to be "What does men and women want from each other in a relationship"

All men needs from women is s3x right?. . .GOOD! Then what does women want from men, Love right? undecided
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by chylind5: 3:28pm On Nov 26, 2010
sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by MUZBO(m): 3:29pm On Nov 26, 2010
I just want a woman 2 hold her side and let me hold her side when neccessary
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Gentlebabs(m): 3:30pm On Nov 26, 2010
Please, someone educate me, WHAT IS SEX?
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by johndavid1(m): 3:34pm On Nov 26, 2010
Gentlebabs:

SEX?
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked undecided undecided undecided cry cry cry cry
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by sizzlers(m): 3:42pm On Nov 26, 2010
i kinda like this thread
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by opribo(m): 3:52pm On Nov 26, 2010
We want real down to earth women not all this psychedelic ladies, synthetic and fake ladies that act as if they dont sh.t.
You we want the woman that will go under the car with you if need be not the type that will leave you in the rain when your car broke down. We dont want girls loving one man and many others at the same time. Men dont like women who control their men simply becos the rod outside is bigger than the one in the house.
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by marychi18: 3:55pm On Nov 26, 2010
@ Zim or Zimbabwe drill, i know it is a hard pill 4 u 2 swallow but its d truth. most of u guys are D.O.G.S.S  Even d married ones chase after single girls 4 d same reason intimacy like they dont have wives 2 go home to. men are simply insatiable and they have a H.S.A (Huge sexual appetite) well, its natural. hate me or love me. dats d truth,guys wink
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by ladyF(f): 4:00pm On Nov 26, 2010
Its actually a 50-50 thing. Men want the Bleep, we want the XxxxX   And every one's happy
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by Nobody: 4:24pm On Nov 26, 2010
Whatever
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by teskyg: 4:28pm On Nov 26, 2010
pussy pusssy pussss undecidedy
Re: What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships by ngohcam(m): 4:34pm On Nov 26, 2010
That is question most women are not getting the ans . I think the top ans from a list of ten is : hot lookng fellow.Attraction is the key.

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