I think sometimes context matters, but it's always advisable to clarify further before assuming.

I know the general consensus here is Nigerian females are after a man's money and prefer he carries all expenses.

It's possible people don't realise women work just as hard as men and also have expenses of their own which they attend to.

So, discussing money or finances is not only a man's domain.

My opinion.

Most of the males here do give the impression they are not used to seeing females who work and have their own money. They say all the women they meet ask them for cash.

When a guy also is not that financially buoyant, he would have money worries of his own. This could lead to an unwitting or inadverdent reaction when a female mentions something pertaining to money.

Not everyone who goes to the bank withdraws.

Robert1da:
Not everyone who goes to the bank withdraws.

Explain in clearer language please, just so we know what you're saying.

I don't believe asking for further clarification on a post means the asker is a troll.

It simply means they dont understand and would like it explained.

Also, just for the record (and offtopic), if you sound like someone else here and I ask if you are the other moniker, a simple yes or no is ok.

I am not asking in order to besmirch you, I'm asking because I want to know if you are that person.

Please take note, @ the supporters et al.

If I am called another moniker, I make the effort to let people know if it is or isn't me.

Shouldn't be a big deal unless I'm missing something.

Sometimes it's very hard to interact with Nigerians or perhaps nairalanders, they take offence at just about everything if you arent in their clique.

Permanent "fight" mode.

@ topic

Clarify further if a girl mentions money, so you can actually know if she is asking you for money or not.

tpiar:
Most of the males here do give the impression they are not used to seeing females who work and have their own money. They say all the women they meet ask them for cash.

That's because a woman working and her spending her own money.... are 2 very separate things.

So long as magas are born everyday, this shall continue.

You could always try to apologize if you read a woman wrongly.

As long as that's all it was.