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Re: Am I Wrong? by midnighter(f): 7:41pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
faithfull18: Yeah, most people didnt see that part. At the same time she should have taken her time to explain the situation in the OP very well so that people could get where she was coming from and advise her appropriately. What she wrote originally just made her sound like a monster which is why everybody blasted her. Her complaints were reasonable anyway; if care is not taken the children will leave the house having never spent Christmas with their father. The husband is just emotional because of the strain of his dad being chronically ill so he just jumps to obey whatever message they send him without thinking of the effect on his immediate family. I can understand both of them sha. Its tough on all the family when somebody is sick. |
Re: Am I Wrong? by eyinjuege: 8:08pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
All of you should be ready to manage the hunger for January. Let him go and see his aged parents. Just get enough food for your children for January, and insist he drops enough for you guy before he travels. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am I Wrong? by eyinjuege: 8:16pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: He will have time to work his uber job during the holidays, I guess. The little the man has made so far will be spent in the village, and he will come home broke. The OP is tired of bearing January's expenses alone, and also scared of the 'no money mantra' , as the Landlord will not accept abeg sir 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Wrong? by cococandy(f): 8:41pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
bryanarchie: He might die. Your husband should go visit. Never mind other things. This could be the last time they see face to face before he passes. Those kinds of situations can’t be made up for once lost. Just shelve whatever the issue is at this time and let him go see his dad. You guys can settle later. It’s important. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong? by cococandy(f): 8:47pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Glad it’s resolved. Wish you guys the best. And strength to your father-in-law bryanarchie: 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Wrong? by ednut1(m): 8:52pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Make person no go marry wrong wife. What did i just read |
Re: Am I Wrong? by bryanarchie: 8:56pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
please matter has been settled, close the thread please... thank you
I've learnt s lot, and the issue has been resolved... |
Re: Am I Wrong? by Ginaz(f): 9:24am On Dec 22, 2019 |
bryanarchie: I understand you perfectly dear, I’m a memory freak too. I love good memories and like making one. Thank God the issue has been resolved. You really love your husband and family for fighting for a chance to create a happy home and family memories for your household . Extend my good wishes to your family. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:32pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
eyinjuege: ... and you think that this will solve the issue at hand (aka fix all the unpaid bills) The little the man has made so far will be spent in the village, and he will come home broke. yes sometimes you have to spend money on "emergencies of life".... The OP is tired of bearing January's expenses alone, and also scared of the 'no money mantra' , as the Landlord will not accept abeg sir this man has all the right to use his money however he sees fit... if he wants to spend the little money he has (in December) on his dying father, then he has all the rights to do so. if OP does not like the way this man has been running their household all these years, she can either A) divorce him or B) join him to spend the holidays at his father's bedside too. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong? by bryanarchie: 6:10pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
my father in law passed away today...
.... thank you all for your advice... I'm so happy that hubby made the trip... I truly have s different orientation about life today... |
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