We have been dating since 2014 and just last month, we called it quits because the relationship will not lead to marriage.
Now, I just discovered that she went back and reconnected with one of her ex and is already having se* with him.
Ordinarily, I am not supposed to bother but my heart keeps skipping whenever I remember that. Who has gone through this painful path? I need an idea on how best to 'offload' my heart because it feels like Olumo rock is hitting my chest. How best do I handle this painful feeling??
Honestly, I can't focus on anything again. I can't even eat. Oh my gosh!
Mods pls, push this to the front page so that I can get laudable tips on how to beat this ugly feeling...you may be saving a soul for doing so.

No worry guy.. With time, you will be grateful you dumped her ass or she dumped you, it hurt initially....

I hate when u guys use the word "ex"...she went back to ur assistant.

just go back to ur ex as well.

or is anyone stopping u?

Girls are 'outsmarting' guys now in relationships...they always have plan B and C, they keep a close friend somewhere whom they tell almost all secrets including about their relationship, they maintain communication with their exes so incase, they just jump on the next available train and continue their journey.
While the guy starts the search all over.

donbachi:
I hate when u guys use the word "ex"...she went back to ur assistant.

Jeez! You mean they were seeing behind my back ...fooling me for this long?

illiteratepmb:
We have been dating since 2014 and just last month, we called it quits because the relationship will not lead to marriage.
Now, I just discovered that she went back and reconnected with one of her ex and is already having se* with him.
Ordinarily, I am not supposed to bother but my heart keeps skipping whenever I remember that. Who has gone through this painful path? I need an idea on how best to 'offload' my heart because it feels like Olumo rock is hitting my chest. How best do I handle this painful feeling??
Honestly, I can't focus on anything again. I can't even eat. Oh my gosh!
Mods pls, push this to the front page so that I can get laudable tips on how to beat this ugly feeling...you may be saving a soul for doing so.

Sorry guy, i know how you're feeling, cos I've been in ur situation b4, it will take months for you to be healed and fucking forget about her


Now my advice

Anytime your mind crosses her, just think about all the bad things she has done to you, cheating, rudeness, Genotype barrier, etc i bet in no time soon, you will definately stop thinking abt her, u just said u called it quit cos d relationship wasn't gonna lead to marriage, nice move, its better to breakup in courtship than in marriage...


Goodluck bro

ekene247:

just go back to ur ex as well.

or is anyone stopping u?

My ex's are the last I will ever go back to. Even as I grieve, it doesn't cross my mind!

Elvinho2244:


Sorry guy

I don't need your sorry. I need info on how to deal with the hurt.

Macsjebs:
Girls are 'outsmarting' guys now in relationships...they always have plan B and C, they keep a close friend somewhere whom they tell almost all secrets including about their relationship, they maintain communication with their exes so incase, they just jump on the next available train and continue their journey.
While the guy starts the search all over.


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My dear, what if the next available train also crash? For how long are they gonna keep jumping?

2special:
No worry guy.. With time, you will be grateful you dumped her ass or she dumped you, it hurt initially....

I think you make sense but the initial pain no be beans o

Oh God!another 'baby wailer'.

illiteratepmb:

I don't need your sorry. I need info on how to deal with the hurt.

Okay i have modified it and given you my own little tip

Elvinho2244:


Sorry guy, i know how you're feeling, cos I've been in ur situation b4, it will take months for you to be healed and fucking forget about her


Now my advice

Anytime your mind crosses her, just think about all the bad things she has done to you, cheating, rudeness, Genotype barrier, etc i bet in no time soon, you will definately stop thinking abt her, u just said u called it quit cos d relationship wasn't gonna lead to marriage, nice move, its better to breakup in courtship than in marriage...


Goodluck bro

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate. Thanks once more.

Delete all the chats you have with her, the pictures you have with her... the pain will still be there but with time you will get over it

Elvinho2244:


Okay i have modified it and given you my own little tip

Thank you.

2special:
Delete all the chats you have with her, the pictures you have with her... the pain will still be there but with time you will get over it

OK. I will do that cos I keep going back to look at our pictures and chats over and over again. Sh*t!

illiteratepmb:

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate. Thanks once more.

You welcome big man, in addition anything that will make you always think abt her, do away with it

She might even come back begging,dont be a weakling cuz 85% of guys will accept a cheating girlfriend back all in the name of love and she has been crying and begging or that she has realized her mistakes

Elvinho2244:



You welcome big man, in addition anything that will make you always think abt her, do away with it

Ooook

You need to cheer up... Take a walk....take a drink and sleep soundly and enjoy yourself.

illiteratepmb:

Jeez! You mean they were seeing behind my back ...fooling me for this long?

yes.

Monkey branching at its finest

illiteratepmb:

My dear, what if the next available train also crash? For how long are they gonna keep jumping?

But that's what they do, when so many guys are all over them, they are never short of demand, only temporarily unavailable when they find themselves in a somewhat serious relationship and maybe unavailable when it leads to marriage which isn't always applicable

Let her be. Life must go on. Avoid the places you use to hang out with her. Delete her pictures and chats. Make up your mind not to call her again. Time is a healer. You will get over it with time.

2special:
You need to cheer up... Take a walk....take a drink and sleep soundly and enjoy yourself.

Easy to say

illiteratepmb:
We have been dating since 2014 and just last month, we called it quits because the relationship will not lead to marriage.
Now, I just discovered that she went back and reconnected with one of her ex and is already having se* with him.
Ordinarily, I am not supposed to bother but my heart keeps skipping whenever I remember that. Who has gone through this painful path? I need an idea on how best to 'offload' my heart because it feels like Olumo rock is hitting my chest. How best do I handle this painful feeling??
Honestly, I can't focus on anything again. I can't even eat. Oh my gosh!
Mods pls, push this to the front page so that I can get laudable tips on how to beat this ugly feeling...you may be saving a soul for doing so.

A whole 5 yrs. That's much.

I'm in your situation right now. These are my advice...

Look for a girl around you or a female friend temporarily just for the main time to keep your company. You'll get over it in a month time.

Also, think about what breaks you guys apart or those flaws in her. Use the flaws as your strengths to move on.

Each time you remember her, just regard her as a low budget Tacha ..

Go out there and bleep 2 different pussies, u go forget her forever. Use CD

Bros, My Advice is that u should control ur feelings...I know its not easy to do that.But jux try and feel as if u have never meet such a lady like dat. Clear UR emotions bruh!!!