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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Nobody: 12:46pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Why would you think it wise to give someone a live chicken? |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by mastermaestro(m): 12:48pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
nairalee: I don't know why I find your comment very funny. The 'small goat' part cracked me up. 1 Like |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Kaybaba5(m): 12:49pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Slawormir:Even if it's bird, she suppose to dash it out secretly and she should have been a blessing to another soul. Not wasting it. This is bad |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by femicyrus(m): 12:49pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
what religion will cause in this country eh! 1 Like |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by edoairways: 12:50pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
lilwetdick:There is no point hating or disassociating from them rather maintain a limit |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by mastermaestro(m): 12:50pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
caprini1: Another angle to the story. But sincerely, was the op monitoring her to make sure she ate it? He needs to amend his ways. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by koxi: 12:50pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Charleys: My guy, whatever you do, don’t confront her... I know it’s not easy, but try to let it slide. At least, now you know her true character. I’d rather you continue like nothing happened and keep up with your kindness BUT mind what you do and/or say around her cos she’s clearly not on the same page as you. Happy holidays |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by West2019(m): 12:51pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Charleys:you have done the good thing by giving her the chicken , but even since you never knw she hate you in this way , you have to thank your God by exposing her to you, you have to been extremely carful wit her from today henceforth .dnt confront her . |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by D1zion: 12:54pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
She's insecure, I believe is all those people that claim born again born again. Some of this people if you're not in same church with them anything you give them is unclean,or maybe she'll say you don do juju with the chicken. & maybe she has been suspecting you to be diabolical that's why.sometimes is all those poor people that cannot afford one killo of beef that does that,thinking youre laughing them. As for me ooo,o think you should let her know what she did.so it won't repeat itself with anyone else again. If not you'll harbour grudges & it'll make you ease whatever hatred you have towards her. Tell her she should have returned it back as she was not going to eat it.confront her jare,she dey craze. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by mastermaestro(m): 12:56pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Just learn your lesson and move on. Op, you didn't tell us about your relationship with the said neighbour. Had you guys shared anything eatable before this? Trust has gone south dude. Nobody wakes up to eat anything from anyone nowadays. I am sure you guys didn't not have a warm enough relationship that would make her consume food coming from you. Don't tell me you didn't know her well enough. You did. You chose to ignore in the spirit of Christmas. In fact, the new advice in vogue is do not consume gifts from 'overnight friends' all in the name of Christmas. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Juliearth(f): 12:57pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Charleys: If asking her would give you closure, please do! |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by tonysunkan: 12:57pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
You don't need to get angry. It is true that what your neighbor did was painful, but don't get overtly angry about it. That should not stop you from giving too. You have done your own part. Leave the rest. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Ladycewhy(f): 12:59pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Let me get this straight, you have your neighbor a live chicken ,not cooked one and she killed it and threw it away? That neighbor is evil . I can understand people not accepting cooked food but a live chicken ,nah ,run from such a person. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by emmaitive(m): 1:00pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
hisgrace090:becos dey lack faith,so dey live in fear |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by saniby: 1:02pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
..just Imagine the pain. On the other hand, just imagine the feelings of HE who provided you with everything to make you live comfortably on earth - Air, food, wealth, health etc, and clearly warned YOU and those before YOU, to never associate partners with HIM. But alas..here you are saying 'there are other GODs equal to Him and HE has a begotten SON.? The heaven shakes due to such bad words. But in any case, the woman shouldn't have collected your chicken in the first instance. Sorry about that my brother. Charleys: |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by deebrain(m): 1:04pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
It might not be personal but rather superstitious quality of your said neighbor. Could be a mindset that anyone that nice to her must be an evil person. Don't take it personal. But learn your lesson. Avoid giving gifts to the person. Allow courtesy (greeting and good vibe) continue though 1 Like |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by HARYOMIDE1994: 1:05pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Mac2016: God bless you for this unparalleled analysis. You used psychological inference to deduce what might have transpired between the duo. I truly see to this your perspective. Once again, kudos to you for this knowledge-laden post. 1 Like |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by StrikeBack(m): 1:07pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
authenticman:Nothing special. Chill and grill..eat and have fun |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Nairaballers94(m): 1:07pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Charleys:You have done your part as a person,just pretend as if it means nothing to you;she will be hurt in silence.But just know you are having a very toxic neighbour |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Josh44s(m): 1:08pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Charleys: I will advice you stay far away from such neighbor. If you live in a rented apartment, give yourself quit notice next month, if you own the house, give that neighbor quit notice because I can bet my hard earned savings that meiosis planning what font or color to use at your obituary poster. Run ooo! Run for your dear life bro. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Myself2(m): 1:08pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
uboma: Look at you, bloody hypocrite. You are worse than an infidel. How do you know the chicken did not bleed out. Did the OP specify the mode of killing by the neighbor, or did he say it was strangulated,,, indeed the Bible is referring to modern day Pharisees and Sadducees like you when it says "You have left the weightier matters of the law and concentrated on the less weightier ones" |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Juliearth(f): 1:10pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
post=85203719: You think there has to be rift between two people for things like this to happen? Some years ago, my neighbour lost her husband and my mum took out extra time to prepare a nice meal....the food ended up in the dustbin. Note that our families were cordial so it wasn't a case of "I don't trust you," but they belong to that denomination of christiandom that see themselves as the holiest and should not be equally yoked with those who do not belong to the same denomination. 3 Likes |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by uboma(m): 1:11pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Myself2: It is because of people like you that has made others turn down offerings of food. To think that you will pick up a dead chicken from the wastebin and cook, marinate it like you described earlier and offer it to unsuspecting less privileged ones makes you very disgusting. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Godsonkemz(m): 1:13pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
It depends on your real motive of giving. Did you gift her that chicken for friendship or rather let me put it this way 'have you ever asked her out or made an advancement towards her' since she's an opposite sex. Maybe she holds grudges against you or against the chicken if its defective. I can't see a reason such an offer should be rejected. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by crazycrypto710: 1:13pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Don't react, you have learnt of the type of neighbour you have. 4 Likes |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Myself2(m): 1:15pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
uboma: Taaaa let me hear word, live chicken that was killed in a matter of a few hours, it 's like you don't know it's a sin to be wasteful, even to waste food. Be deceiving yourself there, if the OP has psychological reasons not to eat it, then he should go ahead and offer it to people outside who don't have psychological reasons. Personally, I will dress that chicken and grub it down with my favorite grape wine |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by agyo(m): 1:16pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Your rewards has been jotted cos of your sincere heart. Let go no need of the confrontation. Do as it u no see anything. Charleys: |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by magilou: 1:17pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Charleys: My advice to you is to call the other neighbors you gave chicken to and show them what the woman did. Ask them what you should do while suggesting that they follow you to go confront the woman for what she did. If none of them is willing to go with you to confront the woman, then you should go by yourself just tell her what you saw, what you believe she did, that you think it is wrong and why you think it's wrong. That you think she should have rejected it instead of accept it and throw it away or give it out considering the cost the fowl. |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by ogorwyne(f): 1:19pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:See talk o. You know you can politely reject gifts right? |
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Bahddo: As a teenager , I learnt people care about these things a lot. I rejected a birthday cake because I just didn't have any appetite. O boy the reaction I got was as good as what I would have gotten if I slapped someone's mum. 1 Like |
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