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Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by luluosas(m): 3:39pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
You think so? I pray you don't fall a victim of satanic manipulations in your entire life. But if you ever do, Jesus is waiting to deliver you right there. Pavore9: |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Komu1048(m): 3:40pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[quote author=bukatyne post=85319900] @bold: true. Most married men however were cared for by their wives. [/quote May God save you, u guys always find ways to derail men every little opportunity. I have seen men who solely stood by their wives in trouble times e.g mental, blindness, accident etc 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by wany(f): 4:03pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
pocohantas:Sis, You fall my hand for this your write up.how many women leave their sick husband to his misfortune, please tell me.mean while she developed this illness giving birth to their second child. @op your husband is insensitive and inconsiderate, and it also shows there is no love between you two.follow your heart if your heart says stay then stay and endure but if not then move.God please save women from inconsiderate and loveless union ijn. |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Judybash93(m): 4:05pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
LegendaryLover:
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Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Pavore9: 4:12pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
luluosas: In this given case, it is irrational thinking that is at play and leave satan out of it. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by pocohantas(f): 4:19pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
wany: Lol, babe no vex- but your post is my exact point. It is how it is most times, I am not endorsing it, only stated the reality of a Nigerian wife. |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by somziency: 4:19pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Marriage is no child's play. Be ready for bools**ts before you jump in. |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Azeeztaophic(m): 4:25pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Huunn, don't leave him, all you have to do is to discuss it with your pastor or any marriage counselor |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by pawn89(m): 4:37pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Am confused, if its due to child birthing, why would the husband be upset ? If anything, he is the one that triggered her illness by impregnating her and possibly not providing enough help and support she needs before,during and after her birthing the baby. This is the time to show support, encourage her and do all that a loving husband will do to help her heal, not causing her to be even more depressed. Discuss with him, let him know that the nature of the illness will surface only after childbearing, and no way to know prior to birthing a child. |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Youngsage: Sòpido is what we call high heels When I'm 100% sure I don't give birth again,I will do that. There is so much involved and I want to correct all once and for all 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by XklusivGistBlog(m): 4:49pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
bukatyne: Wise ladies springing up daily. You just gave me hope |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
wany: Where is your hand Sister? I can't even see it.
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Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Holuwathoby(m): 5:32pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
start a nursing program - a more rewarding career. you will be happy helping people to get well |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by mechanics(m): 5:44pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Don't leave him, still call him to know how's doing. |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
bukatyne: This statement is 50/50 & doesn't guarantee women, but it's still a good risk to take. Although If I had a daughter, I would still advice her to pick an already financially stable man, but also make sure she is financially stable as well. For her to be financially stable, it means she probably won't marry early because It takes time to build wealth. I rather let her invest her youth on her career instead please, while having safe sex ofcourse. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Legendguru: 6:41pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Leave |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by skyplustk(f): 6:46pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
This happened to my step sister as well her husband was just misbehaving he now has a new wife, he even beats her. We asked her to come back home but she declined. During DT stage her husband will abandon her at our place for month when she gets better she will run back to her husband house. She's now stable but her husband still maltreat her. Am so fed up 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Youngsage: 6:57pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
sassysure: Haha and I went seriously searching my dictionary for the meaning! Now I know. Okayy... Thanks for satisfying my inquisitiveness and I wish you all the very best in good health |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Surfacebaba: 7:04pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
go back to ur husband, marriage is for better for worst,hope u no |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by LegendaryLover(m): 7:28pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[quote author=Judybash93 post=85350710][/quote] douchbag |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by appreciate001: 8:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Follow your heart dear. From your write up, it is possible the man is the type that loves his children only. Cease this opportunity to think deeply on what you really want because this is your life - leave it well. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by alexola20(m): 9:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by aysugar: 9:20pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
]Your husband is only being human. Not everyone can handle a mentally ill partner, even though we all hope to have a partner who can do that for us. Most times I have seen sick married women- they were always shipped back to their parents house for proper care. The ones with elderly kids were moved to their sons house. Nothing new there. How it changed the dynamics of their marriage is what I don't know. However, they never ended their marriages.[/quote] |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by richPHAROAH: 9:31pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
LegendaryLover:shut up, dont talk shit publicly. say it in your house to your family |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by luluosas(m): 9:51pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Okay oh! Continue Pavore9: |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by LegendaryLover(m): 9:53pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
richPHAROAH: if the over 200 people on a thread all say the same thing, don't u think 199 submissions will be unneccesary? diverse thoughts = more options to reason thru with. But u don't seem to know that. I guess that's why u've shown ur stupidity up there. Everyman is entitled to his own say. or i guess NL is now full of insultive boys like the silly one i quoted up there. |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Icon79(m): 9:59pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
KPOM! I was gonna respond but, after reading your comments, I think you've covered all the angles. OP, below is the best response you'll get on this question. You may have felt abandoned and even betrayed by the man you love, but don't rush into a divorce. Divorce is not always the solution especially when children are involved. O pari bukatyne: |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Sprumbaba: 10:16pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
pocohantas: Which Nigerian man has time to be packing urine of a sick wife, cleaning poo, reminding her to take drugs, preparing special meals for her failing health, washing her clothes and pants? Meeeeeeeeeeeee. Being there done that. That Man does not love her. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by lereinter(m): 10:52pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
This is tough Let your parents call him for a talk He didn't behave humanly |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Doktajay5: 6:50am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Cutehector: Did u read this post @ all? A condition that afflict some women after delivery and u r asking why she kept it from him? Does ur brain use NEPA? haven seen the name of the condition, can't use Google if u r confused... Mtcheww... |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by vinceobe: 8:58am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Madam, let him go. Any man that cannot stand with wife in times of trouble, sickness etc, is not worth a husband. After all it was for better and for worse. Move with your life. As far as he is concerned, you do not exist anymore. He only cares about his kids. Get more education and get marry to another man who will cherish and adore you. Make you sure you are well enough and prayerfully, all these are achievable. Good luck. |
Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Rozaytee: 12:28pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
onegig:mtcheeeeeeeeew...this is d reason why u can never be a woman |
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