People, my girlfriend called me and said "we need a break". Don't you guys think she wants a stop. Please I need advice from you guys.
Thanks.

yes she wants to break it off. maybe she is afraid to tell u or she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but sooner or later its going to come to 'the breakup'

text u? waste their credit? why will they text u when they can leave u a message in here?

i think if i am u, i will take that time to run my escapades until my boyfriend says otherwise.

Kill ya self, no problem.

from Ross and Rachel in Friends. . . . . . .  its licence to temporarily sow ya wild oats 

Before you say yes ask her why she wants a break. . . . is it something that can be resolved with a 'break'

holythug:

"that is 1/4 to its over"

fantastic. . . . .

"A Break", is a fancy word for,, . . . . . . . . . . . GOOD-BYE

on second thots . . . . . .  this was all the way in may 2007. I wonder what happened

I dont think its that risky, maybe she just wants some time alone. Maybe u r choking her, give her space so that she can realiase what she really wants. They say if u love a bird, let it fly, if it loves u, u'll come back to it.

I needed a little space from mr ex he tot i wanted to dis him and held on for soo long, I just lost it. The way I see it, if I had gotten the space I needed, I'd have had the time to really make up my mind on what I actually wanted.

To tell u the truth, when a girl says that, its either she's found someone else, or u r choking her. So poster, give her the space she wants, if she's found some1 els, then u r better off without her, if not, the she REALLY does need the space to clear her head. She's not leaving u.

oh my guy just wait till she's ready, maybe in 20 years time

Bros, its a pity that you can't read the handwriting on the wall. It simply means that she has gotten another man and it is all over between you and her.

pls listen not to all this Nairalanders (especially ujujoan)
what in the world does she mean, how can she say something that sensitive on the phone (its not even call self na text)
or is it that she has been watching too many american films and wants to try something new?
abeg bro, if u really want to be a gentleman arrange a meeting and speak to her face to face, find out the problem.
i strong believe she has found somebody else either richer, finer/sexier or better in bed, TRUST ME!!

solidicon:

People, my girlfriend [u]called[/ub] me and said "we need a break". Don't you guys think she wants a stop. Please I need advice from you guys.
Thanks.

slavia:

please listen not to all this Nairalanders (especially ujujoan)
what in the world does she mean, how can she say something that sensitive on the phone (its not even call self na text)
or is it that she has been watching too many american films and wants to try something new?
abeg bro, if u really want to be a gentleman arrange a meeting and speak to her face to face, find out the problem.
i strong believe she has found somebody else either richer, finer/sexier or better in bed, TRUST ME!!

Where do y'all get your stories from? She's called him and said she wanted a break.

@poster, She probably just wants you to get off her back for a while. I still have reason to doubt she cheating on you. But then, it depends her tone when she said it.

old thread

tommyex:

old thread

some jobless fellow keeps digging em out.

lol

how u doing?been quiet some time.
I am trying,kinda happy with life

Oga o.
All i can say is that thats what happened when Ross and Rachel from 'Friends' 'were taking a break'. There was too much stress around it - if she aint saying she is breaking up. Then u need to know what exactly she wants.

For ur sake and hers - cause u need to know about boundaries etc - like what u could do when u are on the break, if u are still able to see other people etc.

@ post
Just a sign, i bet u she wants to call it off cos the break cud be forever.

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