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Relationship Or Situationship by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Re: Relationship Or Situationship by olabrinks(f): 6:10pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
If he won’t let you go then let yourself go please. This man is not interested in you. He is keeping you on the ropes until he finds his real wife to settle down with. It’s not hard to understand men, they’re very very straight forward. It’s women that like to use their emotions to cloud their judgements. A man that doesn’t call you, a man that has told you blatantly that he doesn’t want marriage, a man that is confusing your brain and soul, is that one your husband? It doesn’t matter how much money he has spent, a man can spend thousands on a woman he is just sleeping with, nothing more nothing less. Kindly leave this man alone, God will give you your husband. 4 Likes |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by donbachi(m): 6:26pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Destructionship...dat guy wan destroy ur life. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by Amanee(f): 6:40pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Absolute situationship dear, no two ways about it |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by popsy2(m): 6:40pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Chai |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by nlPoster: 6:46pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Now, he says he isn't promising me marriage What advice do you need? |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by frenchtoast(f): 7:01pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Something happened during your first meet up that caused the spark to fizzle out, I don't know what exactly but according to you things went downhill from there. Since it was the first time you met up, do you think it's a physical attraction issue? Or your energies just didn't mesh? Interactions in real life can have a completely different dynamic to online communications Now as for why he appears to have lost interest but STILL wants to continue with the relationship, please let us know which countries you are based in. Is there a possibility that he may be trying to gain some sort of citizenship out of you All of the above aside, for the sake of your sanity and self-respect, I think it's best you end the relationship |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
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Re: Relationship Or Situationship by frenchtoast(f): 7:50pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Magnifiq:Ok thanks for the clarification Questionable behaviour traits aside, when it comes down to it, the writings are on the wall that he is showing signs of losing interest, and rather than be honest about what his issue is, he's frustrating you emotionally and stringing you along. Please fashi this guy asap, this not a healthy relationship |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:52pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Sis, it is very clear you both are not attracted to each other, not even a bit, you need to let him be, there are some relationships that wouldn't work out no matter how much you try, sometimes online attraction may turn out to be just an online thing, when you both meet physically, it's no more there, yours is like that, forget him, he isn't the ONE. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by Ameboperoo(m): 8:57pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Magnifiq:He might be the humourous type who jokes with everything but you didnt understand. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by havilla(f): 9:07pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
How old is he? How long has he been single? He sounds like he is used to being on his own or he is emotionally unavailable. I advice next time dont travel to meet a man, a man should travel to meet you, you made it too easy for him. Give him a lot of space, dont call, dont text just leave him alone, he might come around, I think most men fall in love in our absence. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by efewizey(m): 1:30am On Jan 06, 2020 |
havilla: You are pretty I must say |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by Fortissimo502: 3:04am On Jan 06, 2020 |
efewizey: Oga face your work. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by baby124: 3:57am On Jan 06, 2020 |
Hmmm...hope you didn’t catfish him with photoshop and other tools. Anyways, you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. Give him the opportunity to bare his mind so you can reevaluate the relationship. Be very honest with yourself and do not be desperate. If you are satisfied with his response and, you know his response matches his future actions then you can consider the relationship. Also, please, both of you go for blood tests to remove questions or suspicions of STDs. Most guys who have tasted sex before lie about being celibate. . That means he told you what you wanted to hear for you to pursue a relationship with him. You fell for it, fell in love and even travelled by yourself to see him. I agree with the poster on his making the effort to come and see you. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Or Situationship by efewizey(m): 7:26am On Jan 06, 2020 |
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