My wife has stopped sweeping the floor and stopped frying my favorites, giving excuses Everytime.
It's either I sweep or the house remains dirty she's always complaining that I'm not doing enough to keep the house in order neither do I support her.

I'm tired of her nagging attitudes I told her I can tolerate everyother of her bullshit that any day she naggs again in my house, I'll purposefully frustrate her life before castrating her,.... She has locked me out of the house for 2 nights now!

I have an outside work I'll be going on 13th I plan telling her I don't want to see her in my house on my return from Ibadan, I just want her to stop nagging it threatens my sanity she was never like this

My neighbor said I'm in directly telling her & the marriage to pack out on my return. That I'm giving up so soon on my marital vows, She's making me feel like the devil in details
I love my wife, I don't want a divorce or separation just want my space and sanity

I know I have my flaws too
Nairalanders; how do I tame this growing madness in my house without hurting my marriage

Wait, she locked you out of the house for 2 nights?!
Landlord Landlady things o





Guys, should we tell him?

Oga, women are problematic in nature.
If you really wanna go far, you must conquer that woman by proving you're a man.
You must dominate her not only by mouth and material things also on bed.
DOMINATE..

Lol... Fuji house of commotion

emeijeh:
Wait, she locked you out of the house for 2 nights?!


Guys, should we tell him?

There is nothing to tell!

They have marital issues, just like many other couples. Advise him if you can, if you can't, then waka-pass. It's not so hard.

@op, I hope you find answers. But you should have taken it to the family section.

All the best

She locked you outside for two nights?

You're a weakling.

czarina:
There is nothing to tell!

They have marital issues, just like many other couples. Advice him if you can, if you can't, then waka-pass. It's not so hard.

@op, I hope you find answers. But you should have taken it to the family section.

All the best

Jon Snow you are,
Massage only you know. sabi

Lavisha:
Oga, women are problematic in nature.
If you really wanna go far, you must conquer that woman by proving you're a man.
You must dominate her not only by mouth and material things also on bed.
DOMINATE..

Must I go violent to dominate, she's my friend and partner,... Just trying to dialogue with her

PointZerom:
She locked you outside for two nights?


You're a weakling.

I'm not, I don't want to create scene instead.
Handling it diplomatically.
But I want her at her parents place on my return

Bros, do you know what marriage or even love means?

Lavisha:
Oga, women are problematic in nature.
If you really wanna go far, you must conquer that woman by proving you're a man.
You must dominate her not only by mouth and material things also on bed.
DOMINATE..

I refuse to take this. Women are not problematic in Nature. God created the woman to be a help meet for the man, God will not give any child of his a Problem in the guise of a woman.

I am not problematic. Let's stop saying this abeg.

@Op, you might be surprised at why your wife is acting this way. It is very irrational for a woman to wake up and start misbehaving. Find out why.

What is the recurring issue that makes your wife "nag"?

Op you sure say na you be the husband at all She nags at you when you don't do the chores then eventually ended up locking you outside for 2days now. Na she dey pay rent for house I guess.

Lavisha:
Oga, women are problematic in nature.
If you really wanna go far, you must conquer that woman by proving you're a man.
You must dominate her not only by mouth and material things also on bed.
DOMINATE..

seconded! There's a whole length of madness a man curbs when he's tapping it real!

DankemzI:


I'm not, I don't want to create scene instead.
Handling it diplomatically.
But I want her at her parents place on my return

that was in those days, she could park to else where, that's d truth.

Ops, u need a lot of patient which u don't have by ur wrote up. U can help her with the house chores time to time not necessarily when the house is unkept

Someone would lock me out of my house? that I built with my own money? even before she thinks of it she'll get a knock on her head. Disregard the last part I'm not a violent person, Op just ask her what the problem is Tell her to say what she wants expressly. People who nag are like infants and they Cry when something is up but can't say it.

If my wife dares lock me out of the house for which I pay the rent I will break down the door!

She will land in her father's house that night and never return

DankemzI:


I'm not, I don't want to create scene instead.
Handling it diplomatically.
But I want her at her parents place on my return

Mr man better put your foot down and show her who's boss.

Stop whining like a little boy

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BravoDe:
Y'all should check this thread



https://www.nairaland.com/4603221/tattoos-mom-thinks-married-prostitute

so?

Op access yourself,it seems that you stopped doing most if not all the things you normally do when you guys were dating before getting married.

Men are logical beings while women are emotional beings.

I'm sure that before now that she has been subtly complaining in one way or the other in your ears about how you have been depriving her of your prensence,actions that demonstrates your love for her,verbal assurance of your love for her and other things but you weren't listening to her attentively.

Play with her always, even when you both quarell still play with her.Be a man,stand your ground... Women don't like men that they can push around. Tease her... Playfully ask her what the problem is, if she resist.. Continue to playfully pressure her to know what the problem is.when she finally starts talking.. Don't interfere,allow her to pour her whole heart out.Tell her that you are sorry and also make up your mind within yourself to amend your ways... Draw her close to you,hug her and kiss her on the forehead.Tell her sweet things in her ears.Before you even notice it.. She's already smiling and playing with you.

See ehn...everybody likes happiness,nobody just wakes up and decides to be unhappy on their own.Take things easy... Enjoy every moment, remember to always add fun to the mix.

Goodluck.

I don't know what to tell you.

Spectre007:
Op access yourself,it seems that you stopped doing most if not all the things you normally do when you guys were dating before getting married.

Men are logical beings while women are emotional beings.

I'm sure that before now that she has been subtly complaining in one way or the other in your ears about how you have been depriving her of your prensence,actions that demonstrates your love for her,verbal assurance of your love for her and other things but you weren't listening to her attentively.

Play with her always, even when you both quarell still play with her.Be a man,stand your ground... Women don't like men that they can push around. Tease her... Playfully ask her what the problem is, if she resist.. Continue to playfully pressure her to know what the problem is.when she finally starts talking.. Don't interfere,allow her to pour her whole heart out.Tell her that you are sorry and also make up your mind within yourself to amend your ways... Draw her close to you,hug her and kiss her on the forehead.Tell her sweet things in her ears.Before you even notice it.. She's already smiling and playing with you.

See ehn...everybody likes happiness,nobody just wakes up and decides to be unhappy on their own.Take things easy... Enjoy every moment, remember to always add fun to the mix.

Goodluck.

I've talked to her even involved her people, I told her the other day I'd like my noodles fried as I was attending to my baby she bluntly refused. Telling me she'll have attack, but the young one won't follow her mom.... Crying if she carry her,
Wetin I see for marriage don humble me.
She even threatened to lock me up, that she ain't naive and all that.

Femilekan233:
that was in those days, she could park to else where, that's d truth.

I for sure that woman I swear
I paid her bride price in her father's house with family members, if she's leaving my house she must report to her father's house first and famous

Hmm

Are you cheating on her?

You people only tell one side of the story. This looks like a woman who is tired of trying.

You want your space? As a married man? That's technically impossible. The day you got married,you lost that space privilege.
About nagging,most married women nag as a way to vent their anger about their frustrations, either as a result of work, children or because they tired of their marriage.
My advice, nagging is bad but not the worst attitude in the world,try to find out why she started nagging and work towards making amends. God hates divorce.

generationz:
Are you cheating on her?

You people only tell one side of the story. This looks like a woman who is tired of trying.

Cheating? Technically no.

Greatzeus:
You want your space? As a married man? That's technically impossible. The day you got married,you lost that space privilege.
About nagging,most married women nag as a way to vent their anger about their frustrations, either as a result of work, children or because they tired of their marriage.
My advice, nagging is bad but not the worst attitude in the world,try to find out why she started nagging and work towards making amends. God hates divorce.

I told her to get a nanny or house help but somebody of legal age, she started ranting that she doesn't want third party in the house.