Davash222:
Mumu man still want the marriage after the ashawo wife confess of being a prostitute.

Davash222:
Mumu man still want the marriage after the ashawo wife confess of being a prostitute.

dayo229:


“I make sure that I provide for her and my three children. For the sake of the children, please don’t separate us."

dayo229:
Opeyemi Bakare, on Wednesday, told a Customary Court in Mapo, Ibadan that her husband of 13 years, Olawale, pushed her into committing adultery with his behaviour.

Opeyemi, a fashion designer who resides in Olunde area in Ibadan, says Olawale beats her and nags too much.

“I confess that I flirt with different men. At first, whenever men ask for my number, I give them my husband’s mobile phone number so that they will not approach me again.

“However, when Olawale’s attitude became aggressive, I had to look for another man who could take good care of me and who would not expose me to hunger and thirst.

“When he got to know that I was dating another man, Olawale poured petrol on me with the intention to burn me alive but he couldn’t lay his hands on matches at that time, maybe I would have been dead by now.

“Besides, he doesn’t respect my mother,” Opeyemi alleged.

On his part, Olawale, who objected to the divorce, denied all the allegations saying, “She also nags and insults me, using unprintable names. I also informed her parents about her waywardness.

“I make sure that I provide for her and my three children. For the sake of the children, please don’t separate us."

However, Chief Ademola Odunade, the President of the court, dissolved the marriage citing threat to life as the reason.

Opeyemi was awarded custody of the three children and Olawale was ordered to pay N15,000 as monthly feeding allowance for the children in addition to being responsible for their education and other welfare. (NAN)

Source:
https://www.denland.site/2020/01/my-husband-pushed-me-into-adultery-wife.html

bukatyne:


What right does the court have to dissolve the marriage when both parties still want it or have not indicated interest in dissolving the union?

Nowhere the wife indicated she wanted a divorce. She only said her husband pushed her to adultery with his aggressive behavior and disrespect of her mother.

The husband said he was still willing to stay married for his kids.

Lawyers please help me here.

crackhaus:

Well one of them took the case to a customary court right?

bukatyne:


Right

Going back and forth might have helped them both put their issues in perspective and seek resolution instead.

crackhaus:

Only if the feeling were mutual would this be the goal.

bukatyne:


None of them mentioned divorce according to the OP

PointZerom:



Maybe he wants to use her for money ritual.

Davash222:
Mumu man still want the marriage after the ashawo wife confess of being a prostitute.

MrBrownJay1:
if the hubby didnt treat her well then she should have DIVORCE HIM 1st and then look for another man....and certainly not cheat. no wonder he tried to kill her.

bukatyne:


What right does the court have to dissolve the marriage when both parties still want it or have not indicated interest in dissolving the union?

Nowhere the wife indicated she wanted a divorce. She only said her husband pushed her to adultery with his aggressive behavior and disrespect of her mother.

The husband said he was still willing to stay married for his kids.

Lawyers please help me here.

bukatyne:


What right does the court have to dissolve the marriage when both parties still want it or have not indicated interest in dissolving the union?

Nowhere the wife indicated she wanted a divorce. She only said her husband pushed her to adultery with his aggressive behavior and disrespect of her mother.

The husband said he was still willing to stay married for his kids.

Lawyers please help me here.

bukatyne:


None of them mentioned divorce according to the OP

izzou:




Actually, I think he's wise.

They have both made mistakes. The woman cheated on him, and maybe he did cheat(or not). But for him to still want her, means he acknowledges he is/was part of the problem.

But he wants to fix his marriage, because of his children. Most societal problems stem from faulty marriages, which lead to broken homes... And then kids who were not corrected or have no moral roots are raised.

The man is wise.

CAPSLOCKED:


HIS WISDOM WON'T SAVE HIM FROM INFECTIONS WHEN SHE BRINGS THEM HOME.

izzou:


So who took the case to court?

Everything must not be written in ink before it can be understood

The wife obviously filed for a divorce. And the husband is objecting.

eyinjuege:


It's a customary court, and someone must have asked for a divorce for them to be there. Obviously the wife asked for the divorce, as it states the husband still wants the marriage.
The customary court isn't going to settle the- attempted murder/'trying to burn her alive matter'. The courts dissolved the union not just because the wife wanted it, but because there is a genuine threat to her life.

frozen70:


Divorce doesn't come automatic

It takes a while and in between the timing anything can happen

Either from the man or from the woman

crackhaus:

Lol, I hate being part of an echo chamber given that some posters already corrected you...but yea, if it got to the customary court, then someone initiated a divorce.
Obviously, this would be the wife since it's the man who is against it in the OP.

bukatyne:


Ok,

Lemme stop drinking panadol for someone's headache.

Cc: frozen70

MrBrownJay1:


then separate from the demon until divorce, but you certainly shouldnt stay living with that man and cheat on him.

crackhaus:

Lol, even worse when the 'someone' is not having headache anymore and you're still drinking the panadol for them.