I have never been in a relationship where I had to beg my girlfriend for sex, in fact they always did the asking.. So when I got married I told my wife, I don't know to beg, and that if she says no, I won't disturb her..

So for almost 2 weeks in June last year, she kept saying no, no, no.. So one day I told her.. "if you hear say I get girlfriend for outside no jealous oh".. She said no she won't " husband wey no get girlfriend, nah man e be?.. So I told her thank you.. I met a lovely girl at the ATM in uniben campus two days later, she did not mind, I was married, we meet at a guest house close to oluku, for regular sex, her riding nah die..

I just stopped picking her call this year, when she told me last December she has fallen in love with me..
My wife saw our chat and was upset, so I told her she was the one who pushed me...
How do I make things right with my wife..?

What will G-D say about you Oga jew

sonmvayina:
I have never been in a relationship where I had to beg my girlfriend for sex, in fact they always did the asking.. So when I got married I told my wife, I don't know to beg, and that if she says no, I won't disturb her..

So for almost 2 weeks in June last year, she kept saying no, no, no.. So one day I told her.. "if you hear say I get girlfriend for outside no jealous oh".. She said no she won't " husband wey no get girlfriend, nah man e be?.. So I told her thank you.. I met a lovely girl at the ATM in uniben campus two days later, she did not mind, I was married, we meet at a guest house close to oluku, for regular sex, her riding nah die..

I just stopped picking her call this year, when she told me last December she has fallen in love with me..
My wife saw our chat and was upset, so I told her she was the one who pushed me...
How do I make things right with my wife..?

Benin men and sex are twins.

You have ruined your home. The girl may use jazz to get you to keep satisfying her.

Your deek could have been kept under control if you were a godly man. Now you come here looking for advice.


Who advised you to get a side chick? We didn't, so don't expect much here. If your wife reports to relatives would it be good? People can post about side chicks online but no one posts about the torment it brings and the lack of peace it creates.


I feel you should stop totally and start afresh with your wife else marry a second wife

sonmvayina:
I have never been in a relationship where I had to beg my girlfriend for sex, in fact they always did the asking.. So when I got married I told my wife, I don't know to beg, and that if she says no, I won't disturb her..

This is really the worst place to post movie scripts like this. Try posting it on a producers wall.

Omar09:


This is really the worst place to post movie scripts like this. Try posting it on a producers wall.

I wish it were..

Just look at the reply your wife gave you when you told her you will cheat. According to her, a real man should cheat, she is shameless and has low self esteem. Her reply shows that you can continue to cheat, so why are you worried? Maybe she will also give you a go ahead to marry a second wife.

sonmvayina:
"if you hear say I get girlfriend for outside no jealous oh".. She said no she won't " husband wey no get girlfriend, nah man e be?.. So I told her thank you.

1Sharon:
What will G-D say about you Oga jew

My son you need to be having sex like 15-21 times a week to prevent prostate cancer... If she says no.. Loo k for another one provided you obey my rule in leviticus 15-18

LilMissFavvy:
Just look at the reply your wife gave you when you told her you will cheat. According to her, a real man should cheat, she is shameless and has low self esteem. Her reply shows that you can continue to cheat, so why are you worried? Maybe she will also give you a go ahead to marry a second wife.

I don't plan to do that, I already have one baby mama

Pls I am not saying you are planning to do that, neither am I blaming you.

sonmvayina:


I don't plan to do that, I already have one baby mama

remind her of what she told you.... aka " husband wey no get girlfriend, nah man e be?" and therefore tell her to keep quiet!

Na man you be.

Ignore that woman you call your wife. If she cheat, marry another wife.

I wish most men had the kind of sense you have

sonmvayina:


I wish it were..

Trying to make things right with her will mean you own up to her fault of pushing you to look outside.

This is what she gets pushing you outside. She caused it. Get a new wife.

Oh n BTW you should expect same from her.

Omar09:


Trying to make things right with her will mean you own up to her fault of pushing you to look outside.

This is what she gets pushing you outside. She caused it. Get a new wife.

Oh n BTW you should expect same from her.

Nah, I know the woman I married....

Instead of yhu to man up and take responsibilities for yhur wrong doings ....yhure here shifting blames like a sissy...

Yhu better apologize and cut contact with yhur side chick....

You did well bro. Don't chase that sidechick away for any reason, even if ur wife goes back to giving u regular sex. A woman's attraction to her man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having her man. That's how you keep her on her toes.

Ladylite:


Benin men and sex are twins.

You have ruined your home. The girl may use jazz to get you to keep satisfying her.

Your deek could have been kept under control if you were a godly man. Now you come here looking for advice.


Who advised you to get a side chick? We didn't, so don't expect much here. If your wife reports to relatives would it be good? People can post about side chicks online but no one posts about the torment it brings and the lack of peace it creates.


I feel you should stop totally and start afresh with your wife else marry a second wife

can u expantiate on the issue of the girl using jazz so that man could keep satisfying her?

there's this uniben girl I found myself so obsessed with her, she's a typical real Benin girl, I found myself always calling her and sending her all sorts of messages that I can't do without her.
It got so worse that I couldn't go a day without hearing her voice and before u know it she started requesting for financial help from me and I even went as far as paying her tuition fees, settling her hostel accommodation, giving her monthly upkeep and feeding and even with that she still couldn't show any appreciation.
Ubunja's REDPILL finally opened my eyes.
But I think I was jazzed by that girl though I didn't use to believe in charms.

Ebenezar2020:
can u expantiate on the issue of the girl using jazz so that man could keep satisfying her?

there's this uniben girl I found myself so obsessed with her, she's a typical real Benin girl, I found myself always calling her and sending her all sorts of messages that I can't do without her.
It got so worse that I couldn't go a day without hearing her voice and before u know it she started requesting for financial help from me and I even went as far as paying her tuition fees, settling her hostel accommodation, giving her monthly upkeep and feeding and even with that she still couldn't show any appreciation.
Ubunja's REDPILL finally opened my eyes.
But I think I was jazzed by that girl though I didn't use to believe in charms.

Please visit the following pages on instagram

Jaruma
Purityoils
Harmlesscharms


And you will see many more with sure testimonies o.


Believe and run from them. Especially the ones with funny rings, leg chains, pubic tattoos, waist beads etc

You are already making things right, this is not good but some women just need be dealt with in a wrong way to restore their factory settings

1Sharon:
What will G-D say about you Oga jew

Nawa oooo!

1Sharon:
What will G-D say about you Oga jew

And what ll G-D sat about her?? Aunty jew

Jodha:
Instead of yhu to man up and take responsibilities for yhur wrong doings ....yhure here shifting blames like a sissy...

Yhu better apologize and cut contact with yhur side chick....

Shut up bitch.
did you read the story, his wife is at fault, she advised him to cheat and he did full stop. she should man up too. typical bitches always supporting useless women when you know you are wrong, thinking you are one hot cake, I see all of you as pieces of shit worse than how I look at pigs

LilMissFavvy:
Just look at the reply your wife gave you when you told her you will cheat. According to her, a real man should cheat, she is shameless and has low self esteem. Her reply shows that you can continue to cheat, so why are you worried? Maybe she will also give you a go ahead to marry a second wife.

shey na woman him marry abi?

Hin own don finish.

His wife told him to go and cheat and he jejely went ahead.

With a bini babe


Op, pls update us when your wife treats your fuckup with your gateman.

Also report yourself to the nearest church for deliverance.

Unpussified:
You did well bro. Don't chase that sidechick away for any reason, even if ur wife goes back to giving u regular sex. A woman's attraction to her man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having her man. That's how you keep her on her toes.

ßwhats wrong with this one?

Rada rada

Omar09:


Trying to make things right with her will mean you own up to her fault of pushing you to look outside.

This is what she gets pushing you outside. She caused it. Get a new wife.

Oh n BTW you should expect same from her.

if reverse were the case, you guys will come for my head.
Michellekabod2 hope you are taking note.

It's OK

It's OK

Unpussified:
You did well bro. Don't chase that sidechick away for any reason, even if ur wife goes back to giving u regular sex. A woman's attraction to her man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having her man. That's how you keep her on her toes.

if I was in this situation, open marriage is sure.

Do me I do you, man no go vex.

No time for games.

sonmvayina:
I have never been in a relationship where I had to beg my girlfriend for sex, in fact they always did the asking.. So when I got married I told my wife, I don't know to beg, and that if she says no, I won't disturb her..

So for almost 2 weeks in June last year, she kept saying no, no, no.. So one day I told her.. "if you hear say I get girlfriend for outside no jealous oh".. She said no she won't " husband wey no get girlfriend, nah man e be?.. So I told her thank you.. I met a lovely girl at the ATM in uniben campus two days later, she did not mind, I was married, we meet at a guest house close to oluku, for regular sex, her riding nah die..

I just stopped picking her call this year, when she told me last December she has fallen in love with me..
My wife saw our chat and was upset, so I told her she was the one who pushed me...
How do I make things right with my wife..?

so if they ask you to dip your hands in fire you will dip? You took heed to her permission because you seemed to gain from it .
Let the side chick go and fight to win back your wife love and trust

Omar09:


Trying to make things right with her will mean you own up to her fault of pushing you to look outside.

This is what she gets pushing you outside. She caused it. Get a new wife.

Oh n BTW you should expect same from her.

If a man tells his wife "a married woman who isn't dating out is not a real woman" and she cheats on him will you not blame the woman still?
Let's be fair na

All the silly nairaland women don assemble here with prejudice and bias. A married women told her husband "a man without side chick is less of a man" and to u clowns it's beautiful. I tire

Michellekabod2:

If a man tells his wife "a married woman who isn't dating out is not a real woman" and she cheats on him will you not blame the woman still?
Let's be fair na

I would blame the man, but then he has the money and he holds the power,

No remorse brother. Remind her of her exact words she said to you. Make her understand, you have needs as a man. And if she would oblige to meet your needs just as you fulfill your role as a man in the house (providing and paying the bills), then you getting rid of her assistant in Oluku.

If she doesnt accept to it then, keep doing your thing with CAUTION and PROTECTION and don't disrespect her by bringing any lady to your home or flaunting your affair at her face.

Do NOT fall in love with whomever your wife assitant is. It's only sex.

Michellekabod2:

If a man tells his wife "a married woman who isn't dating out is not a real woman" and she cheats on him will you not blame the woman still?
Let's be fair na

First off, if the man tells his wife same thing, he is very stupid. And I won't blame the woman for acting accordingly. This is marriage, people shouldn't go spilling things like they can take it back.

Now let's focus on the woman because she spilled it. She might have done it to spite the man, but it backfired. I'm not saying cheating is good, but she asked for it.