When someone wants to become a medical doctor or a lawyer, he spends time, energy and resources for 6 to 10 years studying and preparing in order to be qualified to practice effectively.
These individuals comes out qualified and also succeeds in his practice because overtime, he had prepared well for it. We succeed in those things we prepare for.
But we have many people entering into marriage without a single preparation yet they want to succeed. It's not possible. We fail in those things we don't prepare for.
Marital success and fulfillment is not by accident, chance or luck, it is a product of solid preparation. If you want to succeed in marriage, then you have got to prepare for it just like you go to school to get trained and prepared for a particular course.
The importance of preparation to the success of anything is non-negotiable.
Below are 7 preparations you need to make before you marry.
1) Spiritual Preparation.
God is the Inventor of marriage and if you want to succeed in it, then you must be close to the Inventor.
Many marriages have crashed because they lack divine coverage. When your marriage is not under God's watch and authority, the devil can do anything he wants with it. So, get prepared spiritually by making sure you are a true child of God and that you have a divine coverage over your marriage.
2) Emotional Preparation.
This is another important preparation you must make if you must succeed in marriage. Many people have ended their marriages because of their inability to control and manage their emotions. Some have destroyed properties, others have turned their partners to punching bags.
Therefore, before you marry learn how to control and manage your emotions. Read books on emotional intelligence, anger management and emotional outburst.
3) Character Development.
Cultivating good character now is another good preparation you need to make before you marry. Bad character destroys marriage. Character will either make you enjoy your Marriage or make you get a divorce in your marriage.
Eliminate every bad character that can destroy your marriage. Accept selfless life, it's for greatness. Unpleasant words to your partner should stop because it leads to regret in Marriage. Your character either shortens or..https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/7-things-you-must-prepare-for-before.html