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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Analysiscorner: 5:33pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
You might not have intended to rape her, but it's apparent that you like her ; not necessarily sexual likeness, but maybe her being dutifully inclined, her dressing etc. You will not die but learn from your mistakes and mind your business next time. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Bahddo(m): 6:13pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
If you are saying the truth, it's quite sad. Sorry man. I don't understand why people feel the need to become fast friends with others just because they are occupying the same space at the time. Heaven wouldn't fall if you had faced your business. She isn't your child that you need to nag into eating. Next time don't touch people unless you have the green light to do so. Even if they flirt with you, be wise. If you give a lady some distance, it would be difficult for her to frame you for rape. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Finchmgh: 6:21pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Carinaflo: Madam why you carry this matter for your head like say na government work. The OP bleeped up and we all know that but take it easy and mind your business just as you advised the OP. Face your problem madam because you are not better of than the OP. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Lorenzop: 6:22pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: I want to believe your story but then....why will you even put your hand on a girl you just saw for the first time?....first it is disrespectful and trust a lot of stupid feminist out there will view such as sexual harrasment, please learn to keep a distance with the opposite sex bro except na your babe or wife...u fit even kiss for public...no one will care but to a total stranger to you is a no no....Meanwhile....stop begging your boss, crying made you weak and guilty, you could have stood your ground without a drop of tear.....Best of luck 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by AfroKnight: 6:22pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
bamasite2: Correct.
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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 6:24pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Lorenzop: tanx guy stay blessed |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Enemyofpeace: 6:36pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
You don't have to worry yourself if you didn't did it, relax your mind. God will george boat of you |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Dinieoj(f): 7:09pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
One was stab to death for playfully touching a female neighbor while yours is sack. Thank your head you weren't stab.our African culture have really affected the way some guys sees the opposite sex,when next you see a lady put your hands to yourself. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Vega100: 7:14pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
virgoquin:My sister, I just tire for the guy, him preek just stand him dey find where to chook am, u asked someone to rest and join you to eat, she no agree... u asked again, she no agree... u still ask again, she no gree!!! And u proceeded to grab her to join u, someone u don't know, seeing for the first time, no relationship whatsoever!!!! Haba, even person when dey sell mama put no dey force people to come chop like that. See wahala... sex starved nigga, got served and he came to Naira land to cry!!! Hahahaha yeye man 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by themanderon: 7:27pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
U self what is your business with her ? You asked her to rest and eat she refused, you still went ahead to touch her to convince her to rest is it your rest ni? I don't believe you never had any bad intentions towards her. Why didn't you face your work? why were you so concerned about whether she ate or not? Na you go find trouble and you got burnt period. Lesson: Learn to always mind your business dammit. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 7:29pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Dinieoj:eheeeen no wonder, it seems like this is one of the major reasons why guys usually fight Mortal Kombat over of ladies |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by nnamdiosu(m): 7:32pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
livebyday: Hi bro. In as much as I'll love to appreciate you because you supported me, let's not be harsh on him. Its not every time that when bad things happen to people it'd karma. Most times, it'd actually to make them wiser and stronger. I'm very sure he won't make this same mistake in the future. Thats why I said, let's leave it for God. God knows how to vindicate the innocent. No offense meant sir. One love |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by masam(m): 7:40pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
OP you are lucky this did not happen in a sharia country, must u cuddle her to come eat or rest? She has declined your offer twice, yet u insisted on persuading her, a lady u re meeting for the first time, why didnt u mind your business and carry out the instructions left by your boss, instead ur major interest is being a nice guy to ur boss maid. In UAE where i live, ur action wont only attract immediate sack, it has a jail term and deportion with life ban. So next time mind your business because you dont know the lady past experience with men. 4 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by alexmakaay(m): 7:44pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Brother, I will tell you the blunt truth. you are very stupid for touching her shoulder JUST to convince her to eat. I wasn't there, but me and you Knows that you must have talked or asked her something, or some eye movements that made her raise an alarm which according to you was false. Also, why will you be Soo caring to this strange girl, a grown-up too whom you don't even know and before that, you must have known that the girl isn't friendly, so why going extra mile to please. my brother you get plan..you wanted to test the waters but the girl wise pass you. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by maasoap(m): 7:45pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
midnighter: That's what almost everyone is saying. She overreacted, the boss did too. We knew that op went far with the placing of hand on her shoulder. But the reaction was overkill 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by deavicky(m): 7:48pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:relax there has been a plot to sack you. U will find another job. She did not even trust u, how can u be her PA. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by midnighter(f): 8:13pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
maasoap: Lol the person should just be very careful because the next guy who comes may actually try to sleep with her...will you keep screaming and screaming until Madam sacks all her staff apart from you? Are you the only Househelp on the planet The boss too should be ashamed of herself, as if nobody in her family has ever touched somebodys shoulder before. If all the men in her life are rapists we dont know anything about it, rubbish A simple warning or suspension would have sufficed instead of all this kangaroo court conviction 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by CiciBaller: 8:35pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
I really don't know why my body, spirit and soul doesn't believe this story or write up. You said u were trying to persuade her to eat and rest and she insisted she isnt, must u stand up and move closer for u to convince her the more.. Who knows whether you have been making passes earlier...Anyway, sorry bruh 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 8:39pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
nnamdiosu: Okay bro Have a pleasant evening 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by stonecoldcafe: 8:56pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Dust your CV and get back to the grinding mill. Your last job with the lawyer/politician is a common one where they are always in need of employees so hopefully, you get something pretty soon. In the future, when someone tells you no, you should respect them and move on. In Nigeria, we are used to walking up to total strangers, tapping them (sometimes on their arm, shoulder) walking up to strangers on the street, bank, offices and whispering close to their ear all in a bid to get their attention. We do not really understand boundary with strangers and unfortunately, you have learnt the hard way. Chin up and cheer up. Soon, you will testify and even encourage others who may have found themselves in similar position 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Kooldon(f): 9:11pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
2 Females vs 1 Male with Rape been the case? Bro, you can't escape this. Forget and let go. But don't forget the lessons |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:13pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
stonecoldcafe: noted, thank you sir |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by dnawah(m): 9:19pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
koyyes:u can not jail a shadow.na my mate them dey there,I no fear even death. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by AMOTEKUN2023: 9:42pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
The story doesn't add up,there is more to it...Someone is lying |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by AMOTEKUN2023: 9:44pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: You are still deceiving yourself and sounding childish 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by maasoap(m): 9:49pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
alexmakaay: It depends on what you meant by testing the water. To be close to her, to woo her or to rape her. The first two is not a crime, a stern warning would have done the job. The third one is a no. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Op, Why did you get close to her to convince her to take a break? Such an adult? And which part of the "NO" she said you didn't understand? The "N" or the "O"? You are lucky you only got sacked, next time learn how to mind your business and respect people's space. And don't forget to be more professional and ethical in your next job, if you manage to find another one #nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by harbarzzy(m): 10:11pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:I smell your boss is part of this..She planned everything..I once worked with a cafe and when it's time to pay after 2 months of working without pay..My boss called us all and planned with one of us a lady who during the meeting claimed that she could not find the gold chain her aunty gave her to deliver to a customer before she came for the meeting..That was how he sacked everyone..I can never work for a one man business..I will rather setup my own biz |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by donjobill: 10:42pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Bluepink: . |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by MezieFresh: 10:54pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: �� Sounds funny... I get y'all... But the way ladies terrorize guys with allegation is not fair... This scenario for example.. Some acquaintance must have been established.. Since they are both madam's staff.. Not some completely strange person on the street |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by MezieFresh: 10:59pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
DAVE5: Like I said... It depends on the peculiarity of the situation. This scenario for example.. Some acquaintance must have been established.. Since they are both madam's staff... And have been working together since morning. Not some completely strange person on the street. If the tables are turned do you think... He will accuse her of sexual harassment |
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