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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Trojan8(m): 8:50am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:Which stupid mood is that? You claimed to be an introvert and you were rejected twice yet you still went on to touch the girl. A normal human being without any hidden agenda would have moved on after two advances but because something else is controlling you, you just had to try again. You should be thanking your stars it didn't involve police. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 8:50am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:have your boss been giving signs that she is interested in you in the past? If yes then you were setup. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by jaxxy(m): 8:50am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Ok Im sorry all thesame, it’s not like what u did was a crime bt it’s suggested Smtn not comfortable with ur boss and maybe she hasn’t seen ur behavior working with any female staff b4 to be able to know or judge ur good character in that regard so she assumed or believes the househelp more. If there’s anybody who can vouche for ur credibility that wud help u out here. Cheers |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 8:51am On Jan 18, 2020 |
*Why will a gal u don have any form of confrontation with before suddenly start screaming that u want to rape her?. Although some ladies are devils. *Another question is why go close to her in a bid to convince her to eat or rest, with ur hands on her shoulders. I mean u guys don't know before and aren't friends. * If ur intents are not to have sex with her why beg ur boss for forgiveness. Like You did something wrong. I believe ur intention might not be to rape her but maybe lure her to have sex with her. Maybe u feel as at her level (a maid) she will fall easily. Which ever the case is just learn from it and move on with ur life. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Openbusiness: 8:51am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Too many dumb people live on this forum. You think his boss was stupid? No, she wasn't and being a lawyer too, you could see her legal wisdom in play. She gave him 2 options: A) I invite the police (in other words, call for a police investigation) B) I fire you This guy chose B straight up. Because he knows he's not innocent, he knows a police investigation would find him guilty, so he jumps ship before things get too messy for him. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Babara1994(m): 8:52am On Jan 18, 2020 |
virgoquin:The bress was his next destination na. If the maid had just laughed or smiled, he would go straight to her bress. I better stop here, cos I'm already feeling somehow mentioning 'bress'. How are you doing baiby? I need ur advice on an issue. How do we discuss? |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by DAVE5(m): 8:53am On Jan 18, 2020 |
DGoldenJenny: You made so much sense bro... In as much as I feel for the op, who knows the girl's story too like u rightly said, this days no one can be trusted ohh, he obliged her to rest, she declined, he told her again to rest after an hour again, she declined yet again, then his conscience told him to stand up and touch her shoulder to convince her to eat or rest, wetin be him concern for the girl matter sef Like someone else said "na from clap dance dey take start" My advice: ask for forgiveness from your boss and the girl, because the girl in question got scared I guess, move on... When you keep on going back to plead it might be perceived as him having other new motives 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by swissobed: 8:53am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Either they tested you or had intention to relieve you of the work |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 8:54am On Jan 18, 2020 |
MezieFresh:pray if u are also an extrovert not to be transfered to the North bcoz dem go dey give u general beating every day. No jokes. Is this how u will be tapping Hajiyas shoulders due to familiarity? 3 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Kingsean(m): 8:54am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: when you told her to rest and she declined, you should have just left her. sometimes caring too much can put u in trouble. she knew what her madam brought her to do. your madam never trusted you and u gave her the perfect chance to sack u. she could be a deep feminist i suspect. it's a pity u fell victim to false accusation. next time, watch before u leap. when u speak to someone and the person is not interested, just stop to avoid embarrassment 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nwaonyishi69: 8:54am On Jan 18, 2020 |
You may not have rape in mind but why get unnecessarily close to her, to convince her to rest or eat? Eating or resting na by force, or are you an Enoch who weeps louder than the bereaved? If it is a set up, you fall mugu. If it was due to any form of naivety from her, you caused it. And who knows her past, how her last rape experience started and ended, perhaps another man used soft and persuasive ways to take her by force, and you are a man, so she was right in guarding against being fooled the second time. So, you are guilty. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Avast(m): 8:55am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Just like that.... That is why I don't give a damn about all these cleaners in my workplace. Somebody can not spoil the life am just starting.... 3 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Mayflowa(m): 8:55am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: You asked someone to rest and eat and the person said no. Why would you continue to bother her? Can't you face your business? A maid ought to be the one to bother you. Forget about the job and the rape. Learn. Don't bother or show care to a woman when she doesn't come to you. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by uchyno123: 8:55am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Bro it is sad that you lost your job. But my guy, if truth is to be told, you ask for it tho. Even if you take up this matter, based on your explanation, it is only logical that you actions has proven other wise eventhough your intentions might be honest. You said you ask her to come and eat, she declined, after an hour, you ask her to at least take a break since she has been working all along, she declined again. Thereafter you stood up, walk to her and rest your hand on her shoulder. My brother, in civilised country I no think say you go get the time dey this forum dey explain all these. In as much as it hurts bro, you called for it. I will advise that you allow sleeping dog lie. Truth is no one accuse you of rape but your actions was what prompted the decision your boss took. Another job will come your way and this event will definitely shaped you to be a more gentleman in the future. LESSON: DO NOT PUT YOUR HANDS ON A WOMAN YOU ARE NOT FAMILIAR WITH TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH. USE YOUR MOUTH AND NOT YOUR HANDS. Peace. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ghettochild4u(m): 8:55am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Some of you here accusing The OP no nothing of psychology.. How do u console or try to make someone reason with u.. Putting hands on one's shoulder is a way of telling someone u r helping or trying to convince dem to do something or listen to u.. Maybe the maid has been a victim of any sort of sexual abuse hence the reason she shouted immediately.. Well ur boss sef Bleep up sha.. And u say she be lawyer.. Awon lawyer oriburuku.. So she cant even get the truth outta her maid or ask simple questions like Did he grab ur waist, did he grab ur boobs, did he push to the wall or to the floor, did he grab ur clothes? Anyways my guy... Move on... I pray u find something better... Per adventure the truth comes out... Do not work for her again cos she has shown in time of situations like this.. She Wil never have ur back or reason with u 3 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by lasheun: 8:56am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:. Ashawo house dey dia to go nah.... |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ostarlink: 8:56am On Jan 18, 2020 |
We're u employed to feed her? if she didn't eat for the whole day how does that affect the food on your table? Well, it s a lesson you learnt in a hard way so that you will mind your business in your next endeavour. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 8:56am On Jan 18, 2020 |
SmileDance:lol I thought as much as well ..but let's give him small benefit of doubt |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by nnamdiosu(m): 8:57am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: its fine bro. Just chin up and move on. This isnt thr end of the road. Its just an experience. Its well |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Tolu121: 8:57am On Jan 18, 2020 |
emperorzz:guy you be porn addict oo |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 8:57am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Freehuman:you are a big disgrace 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ikevictor: 8:57am On Jan 18, 2020 |
My brother, leave this thing and move forward with your life... As an old man I tell you, the issue here is laying hands on a woman you are not friends or close to in the first place. Your intent does not matter JUST DONT LAY HANDS ON A WOMAN YOURE NOT FAMILY OR FRIENDS WITH! PERIOD! 4 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ostarlink: 8:58am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Were u employed to feed her? if she didn't eat for the whole day how does that affect the food on your table? Well, it s a lesson you learnt in a hard way so that you will mind your business in your next endeavour. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Snapchat: 9:00am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Alphafeezay: Funny enough, ladies use the word "dear" mostly for men. Why don't men see this as overstepping boundary?. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Fivepercent: 9:00am On Jan 18, 2020 |
OP you went too far if you ask me....Back in secondary school...I was moody one certain day and this friend kept asking me what was wrong, i kept telling him it was nothing....he kept pressing. He must have asked atleast 4 more times when i flipped and screamed at him to leave me alone...He got agressive and push me in the chest and we began fighting....My point is after telling the maid to eat and to rest....You should've just let it be. There's no way it couldve gone wrong at that point....but going as far as puting hands on her was a line you shouldn't have crossed for your own justification. You have learnt the hard way....chin up and press through.. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 9:01am On Jan 18, 2020 |
StrongandMighty:You harsh |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:02am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Kotika: u are right in a way, tanx 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Hypocrit: 9:03am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Freehuman:You dont have to announce that you are a fool, we already know you are a big fool. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Ebenezar2020(m): 9:03am On Jan 18, 2020 |
StrongandMighty:it's utterly impossible for a girl u met for the first time to start shouting of rape when u got close to pat and comfort her to eat. it's either the guy has been asking the said house maid out or there is something he isn't telling us. no be kids dey this forum 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by iamarealman(m): 9:03am On Jan 18, 2020 |
StrongandMighty: I swear, why would you force someone’s housemaid to come and eat your food. Fool and liar. Just tell us you liked. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by iamarealman(m): 9:04am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Ebenezar2020: He still had the guts to tell us about it |
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