AwkaetitiBabe:
Digging it for 8 months and they not compatible huh?

Digging it for ten years doesn't mean compatibility. Sex doesn't define union.

Thank you all for the advice.. I really appreciate it.. Yes, we actually did the test today and it came out NEGATIVE. The doctor adviced her to come back next weekend for a proper test if she doesn't see her period..well, i have zipped up my John Thomas till after marriage.. . Aunty nifeseun , be rest assured that we will buy baby things from you next year

IamPlato:
Is It Just Me Or Is This Place Full Of Women supporting The Unknown Pregnant Girl.

Hail The Sisterhood!

Women can say they support it, but the bitterness and anger would remain no matter what. For Nigerian women especially.

Imagine the boyfriend marries someone else later after all this , how do you think that would make the current girlfriend feel about him?

Graxie:
Digging it for ten years doesn't mean compatibility. Sex doesn't define union.

ok

sonsolo:
Thank you all for the advice.. I really appreciate it.. Yes, we actually did the test today and it came out NEGATIVE. The doctor adviced her to come back next weekend for a proper test if she doesn't see her period..well, i have zipped up my John Thomas till after marriage.. . Aunty nifeseun , be rest assured that we will buy baby things from you next year

Yimu. I guess it's a sacrilege to use a condom in ur village huh

sonsolo:
thanks very much for your input. The child will really be a blessing but not at this time..

Na was o. It's interesting you're giving thought to how the baby will affect your plan and not how it will affect the lady's career/health or the implication of prematurely terminating a soul.

Relationships of now a days are something else, very transactional in nature

You are not ready for baby ,but u are ready for sex ba ?May the Lord have mercy on you,shey u think its easy for a girl to abort abi, if she loses her life,u would just jump to the next girl,u beta man up and start preparing for your unborn child,at least you are a salary earner of 19800,start buying baby things sharparly

The baby will block your path to working for offshore company? How? You didnt think of this before having unprotected sex with the girl? After you used sweet words to entice her into your bed and taste what you have to give her?

Son - go get a job so you can take care of your future child. Who knows - he/she may be the saviour of Nigeria..

jidamsel43:
Go and marry her legally . before it becomes obvious that she is pregnant , tell your mum about it. women know how to handle situation like this . Never doubt statement unless you are ready to face the consequence. You are too young to die now.
if you can not work in offshore company as your uncle as promised, you can onshore if you are alive.
keep the pregnancy to avoid weeping and crying in 2020. I'm not a prophet but that child is a blessing

@Bold:

Hahahahaha

Resurgent2016:


Na was o. It's interesting you're giving thought to how the baby will affect your plan and not how it will affect the lady's career/health or the implication of prematurely terminating a soul.

Relationships of now a days are something else, very transactional in nature

Very very

sonsolo:
don't blame any girl if they refuse my brother.. The fault is from me, I should have used protection. Probably withdrawal method is not a good idea

do you use to cum insyd her during sex?

aro1:
do you use to cum insyd her during sex?

not really but it may have failed to some extent.. You know how these things works nah

sonsolo:
Thank you all for the advice.. I really appreciate it.. Yes, we actually did the test today and it came out NEGATIVE. The doctor adviced her to come back next weekend for a proper test if she doesn't see her period..well, i have zipped up my John Thomas till after marriage.. . Aunty nifeseun , be rest assured that we will buy baby things from you next year

Amen

Shebi to knack raw dey sweet
Na d aftermath be dat.
Lucky you, you got a baby so many people contracted an incurable disease.

sonsolo:
Good morning landers.. I would go straight to the point and don't mind any typos..

I've been going out with my girlfriend for like 8months now and everything have been great all along. Then suddenly, I jokingly asked her if she has seen her period which she told me "NO".. She said she's supposed to see it last week and she's surprised nothing came. She's been sleeping carelessly these days and always complain of being tired..

We would be going to the hospital today for a check up but I still have my fears.. I had jokingly suggested we remove the pregnancy if its positive but she came up with her village culture thing that when you abort a pregnancy out of wedlock, that the father will die and any other person in her household and I was like " that's a superstition and doesn't hold any ground in 21st century" but she wouldn't listen..

I will be rounding up nysc by Feb/march while she's a 200L student in unical.. We are not ready for this baby and the news will shatter the both families, our church and friends around and notwithstanding, the news will definitely block my way as I already have my uncle working out a place for me to work in an offshore company immediately I finish my nysc...

Those from the ibo part of Nigeria, how true is this culture?? and what do you suggest we do at this point??. Though I'm praying it shouldn't be what we are thinking

She is already pregnant

You would have thought of these worries a d get a condom of 100 and save both of you from unwanted tension

Besides there is nothing like abortion and father death it's her own opinion

She wants to keep the baby then go ahead and give her the emotional support she will need

If you are not ready and she damages her womb in the process, do you think you will ever be allowed to have another woman ❓

Pregnancy is not a guarantee that you guys will marry

If it works our fine and of it doesn't work out, both of you will learn your lesson

Once you ha e accepted the responsibility that you are the owner of the pregnancy, all you need is each others support

What will be will definitely beif your uncle doesn't want to help you because of it, it means he never wanted to help you in the first place

nlPoster:
Marry please.

You people should stop promoting ungodly lifestyles.

Dear poster
Do not get married just because your girlfriend is pregnant
If she decides to have the baby? Just be sure to provide for it and absolutely love the baby who didn’t ask for any of it
I rephrase, a great many people are unhappy from getting into marriages because of pregnancy
I type this for the sake of both of you
You can get married after the baby, or not. Whichever works better for you guys

The person I quoted- ungodly lifestyles kwa!?
Sex is a primal need and people must do it whether we manufacture marriage or not. And human beings can make mistakes (especially when they get too comfortable)
Let’s not crucify people for living and sinning differently.

Graxie:
Don't marry a lady because of baby, be sure you guys are compatible. You can decide to raise the child as Co parents.

You said it more succinctly than I did
Thank you!

sonsolo:
Thank you all for the advice.. I really appreciate it.. Yes, we actually did the test today and it came out NEGATIVE. The doctor adviced her to come back next weekend for a proper test if she doesn't see her period..well, i have zipped up my John Thomas till after marriage.. . Aunty nifeseun , be rest assured that we will buy baby things from you next year

Yay
Nobody should be blackmailed into marriage
And a baby should never be a bargaining weapon but a child born out of love and want
Now is the time for you both to watch and work on your relationship
Do you want to spend the rest of your lives together?
Is it too early to get tied up with anyone? (I think so )
Enjoy your lives, together or separately

Psalms 14:1 The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.

http://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=kjvstudybible.bible.kjv.bibleverses.bibleoffline

1. You engage in sex outside marriage (fornication)
2. You conspire to commit murder (by contemplating abortion)
3. The wages of sin is death.