Mobree:


And any man that doesn't believe in sharing chores should f off

we can always get a maid. I married a wife not domestic staff

ahnie:
Mr op kindly mind your business!
The man has told you his part...did upu ever take your time to heat the wife's side?

Your ve turned yourself to family Oracle in that family!

Manner of approach matters a lot when addressing such issues!
Maybe the man spoke harshly to her Asin been authoritative base on say he was the one that set her up!

If am the wife...I would kindly pay the fees
Cox they're also my kids...so no biggie.

So the man should prostrate or kneel down for her in order to soften her mind to pay for her kids school fees?

Anyway, the man is not a man sha

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rain21:
Rubbish!
let's hear from the woman first

I wonder how it's your problem.
you even had to put the kids names and their classes here
respect people's privacy

Mizwisdom:
Which person's surname are the children answering?

Let the person who they are bearing his/her surname, pay the school fees na.

Seriously, I will pay the fees but the man should know that it's his full responsibility.

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Kekereekun123:
we can always get a maid. I married a wife not domestic staff

Good then.. I rest my case.

TheArchangel:
Same for all men who refuse to share chores. To hell to all of them

I'm sure you're burning in hell right now. Anuofia.

Guy it depends on the way you ask her the stuff, is it in an authoritative,commanding,arrogant or in a humble way,! Did you assist her in her own responsibility(chores)? Or re you not helping out! I must tell you is your responsibility to pay your children school fees and other financial responsibility in the house unless two of you are mutually helping each other. So check yourself because there is no woman that will marry a mutual lovely husband and fail to help him. Marriage is all about companionship so the your company with her

engrelvis:
I dnt understand what u mean training dem to b d best dey can.of course u want d best for dem.I repeat one of d reasons u train ur kids is for dem to take care of u at old.taking care of u doesn't means finances only.when am old n sick is my children I will call to drive me to d hospital even tough I will b paying d bill. Abroad structures n institutions v been laid out to take care of d old.even at DAT children still care for their age parents. Vulnerability or nt a man DAT use his youthful age to sweat n take of u shud nt b relegated because of one vulnerability excuse.D point am trying to make is our women r always saying men shud b alive to their financial responsibilities of their kids but when the table turn due to old age ,sickness or whatever d same man is relegated to d dustbin

A good man is never relegated to the background. What you are describing are the signatures of dead-beat dads.
If you are still depending on your child to take care of you in this age without retirement plans then you are opening yourself to disappointments.

proclinician:


I'm sure you're burning in hell right now. Anuofia.

Kids.

Theyoungmatron:
A good man is never relegated to the background. What you are describing are the signatures of dead-beat dads.
If you are still depending on your child to take care of you in this age without retirement plans then you are opening yourself to disappointments.

good man kor,good man kini.my dear just pray for God help n a good wife.l do alot of counselling in my church so am talking from what I seen n nt hearsay. No matter how good ur if marry a bad woman ur finish.am nt a small boy .A lot of so called good men v been send to their early grave while d so call dead beats dad r still enjoying.Nobody is saying we shud depend on our children in our retirement.u dnt seem to b getting my reasoning. Dis na naija n nt overseas.