Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself.
It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.

However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.

A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.


Please help a couple and other to learn.

I don't see any reason why I can't as a woman when I feel like it. I mean... We are now married. He's my property and I can use him anyhow and any time I like.

As a woman, if you need your man, just start playing some kind " rough" play with him or touch him in places that will suggest what you want and if he's a sharp guy he'll understand. You don't need to tell him you want it. Just play with him.

The only time you should respect yourself is when you touch him and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care.

Unless the relationship is not that close, women demanding for it make more sense than pretending.

EriMma1:
I don't see any reason why I shouldn't as a woman when I feel like it. I mean... We are now married. He's my property and I can use him anyhow and any time I like.

As a woman, if you need your man, just start playing some kind " rough" play with him or touch him in places that will suggest what you want and if he's a sharp guy he'll understand. You don't need to tell him you want it. Just play with him.

The only time me you should respect yourself is if you touch and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care.

Hmmm ok
From your comment it seems you can't just go straight and ask except by forming rough play

Is it?

robosky02:


Hmmm ok
From your comment it seems you can't just go straight and ask except by forming rough play

It it?

Why will I ask? Even men don't ask, they start by touching or playing with sensitive parts of the womans body. In fact, I find it annoying when a man verbally asks for it. So I believe a woman too shouldn't ask but go for it romantically.

EriMma1:


Why will I and ask? Even men don't ask, they start by touching or playing with sensitive parts of the womans body. In fact, I find it annoying when a man verbally asks for it. So I believe a woman too shouldn't ask but go for it romantically.

Ok

That means there is verbal asking
And NON VERBAL ASKING?

And any Sharp guy or woman wio decode

TemplarLandry:
Not wrong.

Why

Rokiat abeg show

Noted.

Absolutely no! The libido or urge varies. It can come from both sides. My wife occasionally initiates the love making.

As far as Nigerian law, there's no rape after wedding!

Initiate am!
Start your engines!
Put on your sit belts!
Drive and ride on!
Use as much style as you like!
Change gear as you like!

No shyness after Nikah within the confines of our closed doors!!

No Anals and Orals!

All Vag styles permitted!
Missionary, Cowgirl, Cowboy, Doggy, reverse cowgirl, Pretzel Dip, corkscrew, face-off, flatiron, G-whiz, cowgirl's helper, Wheel barrow, leap frog, Ballet dancer, etc!

Me and my legal wives only!
No Concubinage or Baby Mama/Papa!

“A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making”

Op I guess that man is you😁

There’s nothing wrong in a woman asking for it from her husband. As the husband, you should read her body language too. Don’t wait to be asked directly. If na code she Dey use ask, just switch on your decoder & decode the signals on the frequency she is ‘broadcasting’ on at that moment.

Ok

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Not at all..
It's not wrong.
It is even sweeter when the woman starts the seduction.

(Even in relationships sef,, not just marriage alone)

robosky02:
Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself.
It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.

However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.

A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.


Please help a couple and other to learn.

It's normal

Whoever needs it can ask for it

No rules, no timetable

As a man, you should be worried if you're the one demanding for it every time.

It's either you are not doing a good job or she doesn't find you appealing sexually.

Ain’t nothing wrong with it IMHO 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Damnnn niggar

Hmmmm

...it can never be wrong..infact any wife that has never initiated sex with her husband should please start doing so....its boring wen it is only the man initiating it....

Try to initiate wen the man is not expecting
...unplanned sex is sweeter

You have no business knowing this. This generation sef. Why would a married man air his wife like this? Kai.

Make konji kill her then

No it's not wrong relationship is mutual.

I no even undersTand wetin dey happen these days

LegallyBlunt:
You have no business knowing this. This generation sef. Why would a married man air his wife like this? Kai.

What your advice

That woman must be one of all this pretender back then

Many wives would rather die than initiate it. And in the unlikely event that they do, and you dare decline, just know say e don be. Whereas men have consistently initiated it and been declined without the world falling. They will try again another day despite the rejection. But not women

Nothing wrong. They also have hormones running in their bodies

Nna mehnnn


No
Next...

phemmyfour:
It's normal

Whoever needs it can ask for it

No rules, no timetable

So how do you ask?

Hmmm..

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robosky02:
This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?[b][/b]
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.


Please help a couple and other to learn.

Is it only the man that has sexual needs? So then why must it be a one way traffic.