TheRedpillguy:

I appreciate your honest opinion. This came from some whare deep filled with true concern. If humans are evolving pass marriage then it will hurt women more. No institution to bring up children in and the people in the future will be mindless drones controlled by the government. Life is complicated, especially in a city. sure women manipulate men. The thing is. Men are growing wiser now seeing women for what they are.

TheRedpillguy:

I appreciate your honest opinion. This came from some whare deep filled with true concern. If humans are evolving pass marriage then it will hurt women more. No institution to bring up children in and the people in the future will be mindless drones controlled by the government. Life is complicated, especially in a city. sure women manipulate men. The thing is. Men are growing wiser now seeing women for what they are.

MiddleDimension:


i lived there several years but didn't see that

iCauseTrouble:
Hoping to see my ex marriage on the list

olusma23:
90% of Nairaland members believe in whatever news that got to front page.

If Abuja has 4,000, then Lagos should have nothing less than 80,000 divorce application.

Iranu news (Nonsense news).

MissGodOwn:

It's not only women who manipulate men, men manipulate woman too, stop making men always look like the victims here.

MissGodOwn:

It's not only women who manipulate men, men manipulate woman too, stop making men always look like the victims here.

yeyeosoronga:


Why are you so concerned about women?
Women would be just fine, if there were no marriages anymore. They would be absolutely fine, as there are many married women who live less fulfilling lives than their single counterparts.
Infact, it will help many senseless ones sit up and take control of their own lives and future.
Women have shown time and time again that they are easy adaptable to prevailing circumstances around them. Over and over again they have shown this adaptability and resilience despite tough situations.
They have continued to show strength in their financial capability (yes, more women are achieving financial independence now, compared to previously).
They have been single handedly raising their children since time immemorial, so that's nothing new to them.
They have also been taking care of their households and running it even while they were still children- yes, they wake up daily to clean, cook, look after younger ones even while they were teenagers or even younger.
They have also learnt that the world is a jungle, and there is no paddy anywhere. Put trust on anyone, and you will end up dissapointed.
Even sex has been replaced with vibrators and dildos. Infact, those ones have gained ground tey tey,. Yet sex dolls have gone out of fashion quick quick, just like that.

The question should be , what would happen to men if there were no marriages anymore? Are they equipped for that eventuality?

AuwalYusuf812:
what are u really trying to say.

Amarabae:
Lack of attraction and affection is one of the main causes,
Many married people don't love their spouse, they just marry for the sake of "breaking free from the societal pressure of getting married "

Olatara:
Wetin go be your gain? Bitter ex .

Omar09:


I couldn't agree more. A lot of men engage in manipulation but they don't know about it. But remember manipulation is a two way street. You can't be manipulated if you don't have the intention and or wants to manipulate anyone.

OceanOfJoy:
Yup. Nigerians in Nigeria today marry for the wrong reasons

TheRedpillguy:

I agree. I have realized that. There are bad people in the world and people who have standered and are willing to help and understand. I feel like the problem is, we are full of expectations from our partners instead of learning and understanding with each other through life. Life shouldn't be complicated the scales are balanced out. Men provide cus thy have more time to invest n achieve why women sacrifice their youthful age for an older man with experience and accomplishement because nature balanced it out like that. We should be patient understanding and always work together as a team to achaive our goals.

Rozaytee:
I wonder y...but y

Bola146:

Read it again

Ranks007:
Oceanofjoy.....I am deeply in love with your moniker...long ago having thought about stuffs I have left myself resolving for a strong hearted fellow in woman as a life partner asides that I doubt marriage to work for me.

OceanOfJoy:
Coming from a male disguised as a female, you should know all about that.

This is my sister I'm talking about, if i can't speak for her, you can? . She went to Abuja for work for some months, didn't grow up in Naija and not your typical Naija woman chasing married men. One was honest enough to tell her his wife and kids live in the U.S and wanted to date her but she still said hell nah . She's married to a great guy now but the stories I heard about the manhos in Abuja, smh.

J111333:
This is just your sister's version of the story.

iCauseTrouble:

You won't understand

MissGodOwn:
I couldn't agree more with everything u wrote but as for a woman sacrificing her youthful age for an older man I don't agree coz it doesn't apply to all women. U really made sense here.

GreatResearcher:
Ishilove faithfull18
Coming from a lady. We weren't wrong anyway! Thanks oceanofjoy for always calling a pot, pot.

Olatara:
Make me understand.

StarUp:
That figure isn't even correct...

It should be more than that...some people marry in Abuja just because of lack of accommodation. Once they get someone that has a good accommodation, they get married to the person and once they finally stand on their feet financially they divorce because they can now afford to rent theirs.

ManuelHim:


Guys patronise this guy...is 101% legit.

iCauseTrouble:
Send me a pm

BORN2RULE20:
HE THAT FALLS INTO SIN IS A HUMAN; THAT GRIEVES AT IT IS A SAINT; THAT BOASTETH OF IT, IS A DEVIL...!!!

Mayhem999:
It is 4001 as we speak..
My neighbor filed his own application yesterday.
That his wife is too beautiful and won't stop attracting men like flies.

Exodora:
I don't understand what is wrong with this generation .Why can't men lock up once they marry.
That is how one man ruined his home. Has a beautiful wife and kids. The wife loves him more than her own life , she has enough money and yet this man just deliberately decided to be stupid by going out with one useless girl , not until he was caught in the act by his kids home teacher who has been trying to seduce the man uses that as an excuse to deal with him.She insisted is either he sleeps with her or she report him to his wife that was how the stupid man fall a pre to her demand the girl now had opportunity to kill his wife and get married to him.She did end there but went on to his child and was looking forward to kill the other one.
Don't know what makes some men this stupid.

TheRedpillguy:

You don't have to agree with everything I say, or me to agree with all that you say. The most important thing is, we are on the same team and we are happy with the outcome. Everybody deserves happinesses.