Okeytus:

You type like a financially dependent one that has never spent on a relationship. As a man, Satisfying your partner's selfish extravagant desires is what you call "a responsibility" to show care.
May what you wish for befall you.

Westernization no reach 9ja women money � o.
If na women empowerment n kicking against patriarchy na so everybody go show face. Or if na say make man de assist her do house chores na so all of them go show face. Most women are naturally selfish.
She told u de Truth . If u are not ready don't go into marriage bcus of their selfish nature will make u to die b4 ur tym. Just give two gal Belle n rest (make sure no be Igbo gal). De pikin go come back for u

Rukkydelta:
Hard core man on nairaland
But chasing girls up and down in real life

If I need 20 girls now, only one phone call but fucking ladies aint my thing because they add more sorrow than joy.
I am after my peace of mind and not love or whatever.

[b][/b]

vickydevoka:

Westernization no reach 9ja women money � o.
If na women empowerment n kicking against patriarchy na so everybody go show face. Or if na say make man de assist her do house chores na so all of them go show face. [b]Most[b] women are naturally selfish.
She told u de Truth . If u are not ready don't go into marriage bcus of their selfish nature will make u to die b4 ur tym. Just give two gal Belle n rest (make sure no be Igbo gal). De pikin go come back for u

"Most women" which means there are still some reasonable ones that understand what it means to be virtuous.
Men will need to sieve them to get their desired ones and not the opposite, so that their (men)mantle in the family can be retained peacefully.

Okeytus:
[b][/b]

"Most women" which means there are still some reasonable ones that understand what it means to be virtuous.
Men will need to sieve them to get their desired ones and not the opposite, so that their (men)mantle in the family can be retained peacefully.

It can never be all. Efficiency can never be 100%

Ikio:
if you can't provide for your family then don't have one

Do you wonder why I guy will consider giving a lady money but not to a guy

Because as a guy if you can't do what you should do then you are not suppose to be a guy

You don't seem to understand my post. That's why you've been typing off point.
There is no problem giving your wife. But before marriage, her family poverty is not your problem, let them sort themselves out.

After marriage, if you feel you are the Nelson Mandela of poverty and you want to spend your entire life serving the whims and caprices of your wife's family, that is your unfortunate luck.

Ikio:

Even the Bible thinks you are talking shit

Well continue...... If you can't provide for your family then don't have one.

Don't use the Bible to justify your stupidity.

Where in the Bible does it say a woman shouldn't contribute to the financial preparations of her wedding? Did Rachel's father not contribute to her wedding? What of Rebekah's father? Were they waiting for their husband to do everything?

You people read the Bible ignorantly and that's why many of you are poor.

vickydevoka:

Sister abeg no vex. Him mean say if Dem don pay for dowry. De church wedding una two go hustle de money. By so doing u self go value ur home n de man go value u

Oh OK, thanks

Rukkydelta:
Hard core man on nairaland
But chasing girls up and down in real life

Men can do without chasing after ladies . Unless him no get ba

I laugh in Latin Which lady, in her right mind, would beg a guy to marry her? No guy who isn't barking mad would think that's normal behaviour.

XhosaNostra:
I laugh in Latin Which lady, in her right mind, would beg a guy to marry her? No guy who isn't barking mad would think that's normal behaviour.

Haba!

Petyprincess:
You never ready when you reach dicknopause we go see your post seeking for a lady to marry on nairaland!

Haba! You get sharp mouth fa

nisai:
Haba!

Am I wrong? Would you think it's cute or just desperate pleas of a psycho? I'd never do that lol. Seems demeaning.

RisenPhoenix:


Agreed, except for the outdated 50:50 clause. Just contribute what is comfortably affordable to you and insist that if she and her family are not satisfied and want more lavishness, they can put in all the rest.

Naso jare. Oil dey your head.

XhosaNostra:


Am I wrong? Would you think it's cute or just desperate pleas of a psycho? I'd never do that lol. Seems demeaning.

Looool. I will never do that.

#If we no get money weytin we gain?

Ikio:
You wanna contribute 50/50 for a girl you want to marry........ Sense no common

Loool

nisai:
Looool. I will never do that.

#If we no get money weytin we gain?

So you wouldn't find that a little scary one bit?

XhosaNostra:


So you wouldn't find that a little scary one bit?

What baby?

nisai:
What baby?

A woman begging you to marry her.

XhosaNostra:


A woman begging you to marry her.

It depends my lady. Some women do that when they have been in dating relationship with a guy they much love for too long. But it's weird on a norms.

nisai:
It depends my lady. Some women do that when they have been in dating relationship with a guy they much love for too long. But it's weird on a norms.

Oh, I see.

XhosaNostra:


Oh, I see.

Na so my prof

Just spend the money and marry them, then sacrifice them for a bigger returns.

All these girls saying, no girl will beg a guy for marriage, I laugh like it’s not happening already everywhere, wasted sperms everywhere.