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| Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 12:50am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Good morning people. I pray that the lord takes my life tonight and grants me paradise.. I dont understand whats going on with me. I can no longer go for lectures, church programmes etc Its so bad now that i do not talk with anyone in my family anymore. I do not choose to be like this but i just get so silent in public places. Its like my whole being is no longer paying attention to Earthly things. This is good for the spirit but has very adverse effects on my carnal mind and body.I always feel so low as a person to talk. Please, what do i do. I have been praying for so long all to no avail. Its breaking me off all my meaningful relationships and i am so lonely now. I am tired of life. 1 Like |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 12:55am On Feb 25, 2020 |
I do wish that too .if I had a choice not to come to this world. I wouldn't 1 Like |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 12:57am On Feb 25, 2020 |
More christians are complaining about this:: nastykid: I do not know if its a good thing o but during a prayer session i underwent in which my prayer point was for God to take my life, i had a dream some hours later in which i was with Jesus and then, he told me that for me to enter paradise after he takes my life, i have to pass a very difficult task and love him till the very end. |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 12:59am On Feb 25, 2020 |
biGDhAp:exactly! I just don't want to take my life |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by MickzyDonald: 12:59am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli:Bro God loves you Just give urself time while u pray also if I'm to think of what's happening to me i won't be typing here in nairaland today so just cool down and pray |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 1:04am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli:.. you should not bro.. I feel your pain.. you're here already and you cant change things.. who knows things could still change for the better.. you just need to hold on for a little bit longer |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 1:11am On Feb 25, 2020 |
MickzyDonald:I know that he loves me very dearly, but i have been rejected by the world. Its just like i am not finding succour in anything. Please can you imagine sitting down with six friends from childhood and watching them chatting and laughing but you just know you dont fit in. Only his love has kept me till now sef. But i cant go on in my life anymore. I cant pretend to be something else when in reality, am a shadow of my old glorified self. |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 1:13am On Feb 25, 2020 |
biGDhAp:left for me, i would love ti hang on, but i might've lost control. God please help |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by hisgrace090: 1:22am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli: Jesus the comforter will never leave nor forsake you don't give up for He is right there with you. |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by etrange: 1:23am On Feb 25, 2020 |
The fact that you've not always been like this simply means you'll not always be like this. It's a phase. You'll come out of it brand new with a better knowledge of self. 1 Like |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 1:26am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli:.. you just gotta hang on bro. alot of people are probably in your situation right or have been there and they survived and things turned out fine later, even in worst situation than yours. why should yours be any different.. have hope and believe. you'd scale through eventually.. no problem last forever remember |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 1:31am On Feb 25, 2020 |
hisgrace090:Nice words. Thanks even though i don't know what am doing anymore. I never imagined i'd be this low in life. Jesus is with me sha 1 Like |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 1:40am On Feb 25, 2020 |
biGDhAp:Damn. I know that i will be very great one day,but i need the strength to get there. I found strength in my friends once, but i am alone in the world now,even in church. Who am i to tell all these things to? Family is very f*cked up too. Why me na eh! I don't have a job sef. I just want to let all these out somehow and be gone from the world. |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 1:45am On Feb 25, 2020 |
etrange:Amen!! |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by mayor02(m): 2:05am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli: Try to be more outspoken. When you are alone sing loud praises and dance. it will help. Get busy too, like try playing football. You have a purpose on earth bro, happily fullfil it on earth. |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by ikh777: 2:57am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli: lol when I read such posts like this and comments that peeps like biGDhAp dropped.... I LAUGH HARD.... So you are praying to a God who abandoned his very own son and allowed Him DIE? For people who didnt even LOVE HIM.... people like you whom never really loved or cared to know him? YET GOD ALLOWED HIS ONLY SON TO DIE FOR YOU.... His son JESUS cried out just like you and GOD didnt answer. If you were really tired then why have you not GONE TO HERBALISTS or OCCULTIST or JOINED A ROBBERY GANG ? Stop foooooling yourself, you are scared of going to hell. You are like people watching a horror feem and quickly skip to the end then come back to the middle to continue. YOUR MIND IS LAZY and your SPIRIT is dying fast. Fasting and Prayer will not work for your case. Your case is NOT the devil's fault either, IF YOU BEGGED THE DEVIL TO KILL YOU... HE MIGHT ACTUALLY GRANT YOU YOUR WISH....(chuckles) Go and join a true church and get to be a novice again and do not go out to be born again unless you genuinely have fallen in LOVE with Jesus. But even if you genuinely get born again YOUR PROBLEM WILL NOT SOLVE  . SEE, am a very very practical christian. Next thing is to meet someone who can MENTOR YOU IN LIFE and the PERSON MUST ALSO BE A PRAYER MACHINE, SOMEONE WHO HAS RESULTS IN PRAYER AND CAN SEE PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS FOR ISSUES... not the one that only sees ENEMIES FROM THE VILLAGE OR DEATH OR ATTACKS FROM THE PAPA AND MAMA LINEAGE.... No a very sound christian mentor with intellectual prowess. THAT IS WHAT WILL SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM. You are like a BLIND person trying to walk without stick or guidance... you will only always get HURT. GET A MENTOR AND BE FREE FROM TORMENTORS. God didn't give you your kind of LIFE.... so begging Him won't work because You do not know him and He may NOT really know you. Stop seeking God for solutions. 1Peter 3:10 = The holy writings say,`A man who wants to live to the full and have good days must not say wrong things(about himself or people or anything). He must not say anything that is not true. wow... I bet you never read that in your bible before. DO NOT SAY WHAT IS NOT TRUE EVEN ABOUT YOURSELF. I see you always post things that happen to you but the fact that you experience someone calling you a bad name or some hurtful thing does not mean you are useless or condemned or have no hope. EXPERIENCES LIE, yes believe it NOW.... many experiences people have or feelings are LIES. But if you do not share it out, you would not know what is true or lies and you would begin to think you are the only one going through it.... WHICH IS ANOTHER LIE. So stop wallowing in your self pity and coming only to find pity party, GET YOUR ARSE UP AND GO GET A MENTOR, join a VIBRANT CHURCH THAT TEACHES BALANCED GOSPEL. SEEK GOD FOR WHO HE IS AND NOT FOR SOLUTION. It is when you do these things you will find that YOU ARE ACTUALLY A GREAT MAN AND YOU ARE CARRYING BLESSINGS TO OUR WORLD. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by LordReed(m): 9:10am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli: My advice to you is to find a professional counsellor right now. Mental health issues are taken for granted too much in this country. You are on the verge of a breakdown and you need professional help. Please find one. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 9:13am On Feb 25, 2020 |
ikh777:I smiled on reading this. I don't have much of an option than to practicalise this. |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 9:18am On Feb 25, 2020 |
mayor02:I cant seem to do that anymore. I tend to lock myself in my room, thinking. |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 9:19am On Feb 25, 2020 |
mayor02:I get bored, trying to fake it |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by An2elect2(f): 12:16pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli:Jesus Christ is not called Lord for nothing, but many of us don't understand this because we have been taught wrongly all our lives. Lord implies that he has the power to save us from every trouble, every stress, worry, anxiety, depression, every sin and even from yourself but we don't know how to access this power in Christ. Even if you have the holy spirit in you, you won't be free from the troubles of this world until you come to understand why Christ is called the saviour and all the power God has put in Christ to deliver His own not just from the wrath to come but from the power of sin and the troubles of the flesh. This same Christ told his disciples that he would give them peace not as the world gives peace. This same Christ is our rest. Which implies that we have ceased from our works or efforts in pleasing God. You can't please God by worrying or trying your best or keeping the law. One person has done these perfectly and has borne our troubles through his wounds, and death. You can only please God by believing on Jesus Christ and then the joy, peace, wisdom, life, health, fruits of the Spirit would be poured on you. However, you must believe in Jesus Christ, the only begotten of God the right way, the bible way. Many believe wrongly so they remain fruitless or unsaved. So how do you believe rightly in order to be saved and to receive all the spiritual blessings in Christ and to have all your needs in this world met without having to be anxious anymore like the people in the world? It is by hearing the gospel of grace preached which is the gospel of Christ and Christ crucified. This gospel is the only gospel that can can save, and continue to save us from all our troubles till we depart this world. This gospel is hated by Satan and he works tirelessly to hide this gospel not only from the lost but also from those who are already saved. Because on hearing who Christ is, the price he paid for us to have life and peace in this world God impacts faith in our hearts to believe. And at that moment when Jesus is magnified in your heart and you really see what he has done for you and how much he is willing to show you grace you would be delivered. Its by faith, and the just shall live by faith. The more you see Jesus, the more grace you receive from God. Listen to gospel of grace preachers on YouTube like Joseph Prince, John MacArthur, John Piper. Especially Joseph Prince. Listen to his sermons on the gospel of grace. Harken and God would give you faith to trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. Don't know Jesus Christ the way the average person knows Him, know His power and be saved and continue to be saved. There are very few ministers that preach the gospel of grace, because the wicked one is working tirelessly and blinding eyes. 1 Like |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by luvmijeje(f): 3:47pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli: Going by what you have said, let'd list the reasons you are tired of life. 1. Rejected by the world. 2. Inability to socialise 3. Lost of control 4. Low energy 5. Loneliness And all these stem from 1 factor. Unemployment. In other words, you are suicidal because 1. You have been rejected severally by the job market 2. All your friends are gainfully employed why you are not 3. All your dream are turning to ashes due to lack of funds 4. You are so much beaten down that you are tired of been disappointed 5. And because you are tired of hearing others talking of how their life is far better than yours, you prefer being alone even if it is not what you truly want. My Advice : I welcome you to the real world. As someone earlier said, we have all been there one way or the other. It is one of life phases. It is a phase you want to give up on life. It is a phase you just can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is a phase you stop believing in the existence of God. It is a phase you give up in your ability to make a difference. It is a phase of extreme loneliness because everyone around you is moving while you are at a standstill. You are going to face oppositions worst that these in life. If you survive this phase, then you can survive anything. Be patient, it will pass. 1 Like |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
mayor02: You're right .. Let him play Naira Marley's songs....they help relieve all those feeling...and let him try learning the dance moves....pls no drugs just natural hype |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 4:15pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
I wish I could pour the right words for you guys here..... Op you said ur family is F'ed up..... Have you tried solving the problems in your family.... |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 4:15pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
biGDhAp:Hi |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Xavfra:hi |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 4:30pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
biGDhAp: Sorry...but I understand what you're going through.....it's normal whether we like it or not just dat not everyone shows it out.... You don't need to kill you full self... What u need to kill is your attitudes or behaviors or principles.... The secret to survive in this world is the a ability to shape shift and still remain firm or pure like water cos no matter how dirty water is, it still reserves its contents..... I would love to say more..... |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 5:08pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Xavfra:thanks. I wasn't planning on killing myself though. I think this should be directed to the op |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 5:09pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
biGDhAp: Oohh.. Sorry... It's alright |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 5:12pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Xavfra:..thanks |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 8:46pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Xavfra:when i cant solve mine? Let the sleeping dogs lye 1 Like |
| Re: Why I Wish I Was Never Born. by Nobody: 9:06pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Blakewilli: We all have family problems but at least get a partner in your family..... |
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