EVILFOREST:
I Made Sure I kept My WIFE where she belongs.
..... and that was All

EVILFOREST:
I Made Sure I kept My WIFE where she belongs.
..... and that was All

AllforJesus7:

Where did she belong?

NextD18:
Any marriage without a son is statistically proven unsuccessful.

Acidosis:
In whatever you do or read, please note that the very fact that a man and a woman live together as husband and wife doesn't necessarily mean their marriage is "successful". Being together for one, two or three decades is not a true test of marital success. You can't be tolerating your spouse or threatening divorce and tell me your marriage is successful.

This thread to the best of my knowledge is not for homes where tolerance and endurance are the main ingredients. Love is supposed to rule, not tolerance and endurance for rubbish. Please take note OP. You can't be enduring rubbish and tell me you're successful.

NextD18:
Any marriage without a son is statistically proven unsuccessful.

AllforJesus7:
This thread is targeted at MARRIED COUPLES whose marriages have been a SUCCESS.


kindly come in here and summarize what has worked for you so in your marriage and give a brief advice to aspiring couples.

We need just brief and summary points.

The AIM of this thread is to encourage the single ones like me who still BELIEVE in LOVE and MARRIAGE despite the many stories of woes and doom flying about.

By SHARING on this thread you would be doing a SELFLESS act to HUMANITY and contributing your quota towards the hope of successful marriages in the 21st century.

Thanks in advance.

Acidosis:
In whatever you do or read, please note that the very fact that a man and a woman live together as husband and wife doesn't necessarily mean their marriage is "successful". Being together for one, two or three decades is not a true test of marital success. You can't be tolerating your spouse or threatening divorce and tell me your marriage is successful.

This thread to the best of my knowledge is not for homes where tolerance and endurance are the main ingredients. Love is supposed to rule, not tolerance and endurance for rubbish. Please take note OP. You can't be enduring rubbish and tell me you're successful.

Acidosis:
In whatever you do or read, please note that the very fact that a man and a woman live together as husband and wife doesn't necessarily mean their marriage is "successful". Being together for one, two or three decades is not a true test of marital success. You can't be tolerating your spouse or threatening divorce and tell me your marriage is successful.

This thread to the best of my knowledge is not for homes where tolerance and endurance are the main ingredients. Love is supposed to rule, not tolerance and endurance for rubbish. Please take note OP. You can't be enduring rubbish and tell me you're successful.

bukatyne:




Who vex you this afternoon?

You are right though.

We often confuse longevity of marriage with success.

Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured.

NextD18:
Any marriage without a son is statistically proven unsuccessful.

Chiebunigom1:

Forgiveness has always been my watchword.
Tolerance, selflessness, not taking advantage of the vulnerable side of my spouse.
Loving my husband's family from afar, because before marriage, I learned that over familiarity breeds contempt.
Minding my business also has helped me a lot, not trying to please anyone, but doing what is right.
I also love serving people in the extended family settings, but I don't stretch my limits. I know when to call it quits and turn a deaf ear and blind eyes to issues that drain both physically and emotionally.

And lastly, my husband cannot make me change my principles both financially, spiritually and otherwise. I will never cheat on my spouse.
I am enjoying my marriage though we have our uproar moments.
The moment my marriage becomes life threatening, I am going to call it quits.

Acidosis:
In whatever you do or read, please note that the very fact that a man and a woman live together as husband and wife doesn't necessarily mean their marriage is "successful". Being together for one, two or three decades is not a true test of marital success. You can't be tolerating your spouse or threatening divorce and tell me your marriage is successful.

This thread to the best of my knowledge is not for homes where tolerance and endurance are the main ingredients. Love is supposed to rule, not tolerance and endurance for rubbish. Please take note OP. You can't be enduring rubbish and tell me you're successful.

Ibechris2:
Marrying ur friend is the beginning of a happy home...and every other thing shall be added to it.

Acidosis:
In whatever you do or read, please note that the very fact that a man and a woman live together as husband and wife doesn't necessarily mean their marriage is "successful". Being together for one, two or three decades is not a true test of marital success. You can't be tolerating your spouse or threatening divorce and tell me your marriage is successful.

This thread to the best of my knowledge is not for homes where tolerance and endurance are the main ingredients. Love is supposed to rule, not tolerance and endurance for rubbish. Please take note OP. You can't be enduring rubbish and tell me you're successful.

Mindlog:


So you haven't seen separated/divorced couples with sons?

Titi03:


..or even those who stay together but are miserable asf.

I've seen cases where male children;
- become extremely wayward, violent and difficult to control,
- leave the house at an early age to pursue contumatious lifestyles,
- or start taking sides with the mother against the father when marital crisis arises, thus leading to total breakdown of the home. Then in the future, turn against the mother when they eventually grow up and realise how manipulative she probably was in the situation.

These are things I've seen repeated in many families. Male children don't guarantee anything other than the immediate gratification you get when you give birth to one.