I'm 25 old and I just graduated from one of dis northern university av been dating dis two girls for awhile nw but I wnt to b serious nw cos I b going to service very soon...d first babe I like her we get along so much and we av been in dis relationship for 5yrs nw cos we met when were both doing our ND back den yea she love me so much DAT she once fought with all her frds cos of me...but I once caught her cheating on me though I av forgiving her nw i still feel d pain up till nw...after I found out about d cheating das where d second babe com in d second babe she luv me though but she is too introvert,Churchy type,very playful just like ma mum and she is faithful to d relationship...so yesterday I call d first babe told her DAT if she is not serious am breaking up with her cos she is not serious plus I think she still cheating on me cos she is in uni nw... thus she started calling as she used to do b4....so guys pls help me to decide among d two.

I stopped reading when I see *I just graduated and going for service*
Go for ur NYSC bros, don't take ur relationship serious for now
When u get job please come back and ask us this question

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Go with the churchy one.

You dey craze!!

You're cheating and you expect your first girl to be loyal to you?

Go ahead and propose to both of them. Something tells me one will say no and don't go and propose in public save yourself the stress it's not worth it. The one that says yes fine. If both says yes then it's an old school polygamy something damn it. Lol

Eddie360:
I'm 25 old and I just graduated from one of dis northern university av been dating dis two girls for awhile nw but I wnt to b serious nw cos I b going to service very soon...d first babe I like her we get along so much and we av been in dis relationship for 5yrs nw cos we met when were both doing our ND back den yea she love me so much DAT she once fought with all her frds cos of me...but I once caught her cheating on me though I av forgiving her nw i still feel d pain up till nw...after I found out about d cheating das where d second babe com in d second babe she luv me though but she is too introvert,Churchy type,very playful just like ma mum and she is faithful to d relationship...so yesterday I call d first babe told her DAT if she is not serious am breaking up with her cos she is not serious plus I think she still cheating on me cos she is in uni nw... thus she started calling as she used to do b4....so guys pls help me to decide among d two.

Sir, are you sure you are a graduate?
Anyways follow your mind...

You can marry the both of them. During our father's time all these things no be issue.

We can bring back the old days.


Guy, go and hustle and face your life. Naija ain't easy.

No NYSC 33k day confuse you?
Finish service and further a job be able to take care of yourself before thinking of serious relationship.

namiji2598:

I stopped reading when I see *I just graduated and going for service* Go for ur NYSC bros, don't take ur relationship serious for now When u get job please come back and ask us this question

I just av to start planning ahead to avoid other issues

proclinician:
Go ahead and propose to both of them. Something tells me one will say no and don't go and propose in public save yourself the stress it's not worth it. The one that says yes fine. If both says yes then it's an old school polygamy something damn it. Lol

lol...thankz anyway

Mrshape:
No NYSC 33k day confuse you?
Finish service and further a job be able to take care of yourself before thinking of serious relationship.

bro am working already so I av seen money more than dis

Eddie360:
I'm 25 old and I just graduated from one of dis northern university av been dating dis two girls for awhile nw but I wnt to b serious nw cos I b going to service very soon...d first babe I like her we get along so much and we av been in dis relationship for 5yrs nw cos we met when were both doing our ND back den yea she love me so much DAT she once fought with all her frds cos of me...but I once caught her cheating on me though I av forgiving her nw i still feel d pain up till nw...after I found out about d cheating das where d second babe com in d second babe she luv me though but she is too introvert,Churchy type,very playful just like ma mum and she is faithful to d relationship...so yesterday I call d first babe told her DAT if she is not serious am breaking up with her cos she is not serious plus I think she still cheating on me cos she is in uni nw... thus she started calling as she used to do b4....so guys pls help me to decide among d two.

You don't sound like you're ready for a serious relationship talkless of marrige.

Get your life, your finances, and priorities right first.

yomi007k:
You can marry the both of them. During our father's time all these things no be issue.

We can bring back the old days.


Guy, go and hustle and face your life. Naija ain't easy.

lol thankz man

Eddie360:
I just av to start planning ahead to avoid other issues

the biggest issue ahead of u should be life after service brother..... E no easy at all

Eddie360:
bro am working already so I av seen money more than dis

OK sir

Eddie360:
I'm 25 old and I just graduated from one of dis northern university av been dating dis two girls for awhile nw but I wnt to b serious nw cos I b going to service very soon...d first babe I like her we get along so much and we av been in dis relationship for 5yrs nw cos we met when were both doing our ND back den yea she love me so much DAT she once fought with all her frds cos of me...but I once caught her cheating on me though I av forgiving her nw i still feel d pain up till nw...after I found out about d cheating das where d second babe com in d second babe she luv me though but she is too introvert,Churchy type,very playful just like ma mum and she is faithful to d relationship...so yesterday I call d first babe told her DAT if she is not serious am breaking up with her cos she is not serious plus I think she still cheating on me cos she is in uni nw... thus she started calling as she used to do b4....so guys pls help me to decide among d two.

How can Nairaland people help you choose your life-partner?

How do you want people to know what you need exactly when you don't know what you want?

If you stop trusting the first babe because she cheat on you, why do you still continue with the relationship?

Now, you are also cheating on her (first babe) by getting yourself involved in a relationship with the second babe?

What would the second babe think of you when she found out about the first babe?

When the first babe found out about the second babe, she considered both of you even? You're both a cheat.

We know you gonna meet another babe during your service year, which would likely be the third babe you would start dating?

The fourth babe would show face when you start working and earn money.

So please, stop disturbing our peace with avoidable mistakes like this.