[size=15pt]Hello Nairalanders,
I have this question in my mind which i would like to share and get perfect and superb answers to it.

What and how would you react . . . . When discovering your ''Girlfriend/Wife to be''  is a confirmed Barren!

What type of love you have for you spouse?

What do you think about this thought . . . . . .''Marriage is not mostly meant for having children but  meant for the couple to enjoy the brightness and the illutriousness of their lives ommited from Children![/size]

with God all things are possible

will still love her the same way NO MATTER WHAT

^^^Thank you for the soft contribution!
But what are the steps to be taken . . . . .After accepting it as a portion?

you only accept things like that when you don't knw God

Nice 1. . . . THANKS

Am married and wifey is not barren so no comment.


Am waiting for your reply D-sense.

You must be the impotent then . . .One of you must exhibit it

Plz man y children are homeless and hoping to be adopted in Nigeria.

Do your part and adopt. Dont let the news of barrenness stop you.

D-sense:

You must be the impotent then . . .One of you must exhibit it

Should I show you a picture of my son?

I would move on, unless she would allow me to sleep with other women so that I can have children. As the eldest son, my bloodline will not end with me.

Simply adopt

You can adopt and as someone already said wiv God all things are possible,ever heard of hannah,sarah,elizabeth etc in the bible?

I guess love isn't blind after all if a man would leave his LOVE because she is barren. And they call me EVIL. Hmmm.

Awwww my boo done started his FIRST THREAD! Strike a pose! Let mama take pictures! Hit that vogue suga!

If I see that she's truely the one for me, I'll marry her then go for adoption.

there is noting wrong going 4 an adoption.except u want to do it the juju way!
if i truly luv her,i get married and adopt kids.no harm.

Ileke-IdI:

Plz man y children are homeless and hoping to be adopted in Nigeria.

Do your part and adopt. Dont let the news of barrenness stop you.

Ileke has just killed me pata pata , , ,I'm not an impotent neither she's barren . . .You know me well!

Osama10:

Should I show you a picture of my son?

Pictures full internet . . .You can easile copy and paste . . . .You be impotent jor

@Dyt . . I've always known you are a barren . . .You didn't even think, you just cast the answer straight

just as a woman might not be able to give birth a man might have weak swimmers too so i would love her regardless and adoption will probably be our option

Dsense,

You didn't have to tell them my business. I shared that to you in confident. Now you go created a post juking about barren after I confided in you. You hurt me so!

@Inked . . . . .Surrogate?    , .  . . . .Love is dead!

@Freecasava . . .  . . . .Thanks for the contribu!

@Eve sweetie . . . .  . .

@Phat head . . .Sometimes you multitask

@Rasaky sorry Ranosky    . . . . . . Nice one!

@Chinbewa . . . .We never said adoption is wrong,We said nothing like that!

@Kay paddy . , .  .Nice 1 . . Keep it rolling!

@Omega , . .That's is right and should be like that!

@Eve sweetie . . . .They don't know i'm referring to you . . . . . Don't shout pls

Luckily for me, I'm not barren through the grace and mercy of God. Although I'm not a man, I would like to add my two cents worth. I do understand for a man that carrying on his name IS very important to most men. But in some cases when you find out down the line a woman/man is barren (yes, some men can be impotent too) and you have invested ones self into the relationship then what do you do? This is the same person, unfortunately they can not bare a child. I would hope people would choose to stay and consider "other alternatives" that will remain morally sound in the relationship or even adopting. Any "fool" can bare a child. But it takes a real man/woman to actually raise and parent a child. Just because you were able to birth a child does not necessarily mean that you are any better than any body else who isn't able to bare a child. To me, I can actually highly respect someone who is able to give a homeless child a home and raise them. But I think that if a woman/man being "barren" is a deal breaker for you, then I think you should end the relationship instead of stepping out on that person. That is why the bible says that you choose to love, honor and obey through sickness and in health, through bad times and good times until death do you part.

^^You should be a writter
Nice contribu!

Sadly many can't comprehend nor read.

^^^You are just one of them

One of them who Dsense? Are you calling me a bitch?

I don't and will never . . .Cause i love bosoms

Oh okay I was gon pull out my catwoman outfit and claw yo arse to death. But, I could never hurt my boo! Come here which side you want? Left or right?

D-sense:


Pictures full internet . . .You can easile copy and paste . . . .You be impotent jor

I see say your kolo don strong oh, try make you reach Rumuigbo quick.

Mrs, Eve:

Oh okay I was gon pull out my catwoman outfit and claw yo arse to death. But, I could never hurt my boo! Come here which side you want? Left or right?

LOOL , , .
I want both!

@Osama,
**Sighs**

^^
Get a room guys!