MJBOLT:

what about the girl that's pregnant for you?

cassidyjosh:
OK Hi guys I been trying to get a job for the past few years but all my effort was fruitless not until now that i was able to get one. Before I can start the job fully I will have to go through a six month intensive training, during training I met this lady from katsina state she is hausa, very nice to me although she was older than me but I liked her and we became very close it got to and extent that I started developing feelings for her and I told her, she then asked me series of questions about why I choose her, do I know she is older? She went further and told me her life story how she had been married once, how she struggled with her marriage, how she suffered from her now ex husband's infidelity, she also told me that she has a child and he is four years old. She said she is currently dating a guy who is also unfaithful and had caused her emotional trauma, she asked me if I had someone and I said no which was a lie infact my girl is giving birth next month. She finally accepted and we started dating it was a smooth ride until someone came into the picture another trainee who came to me and confessed that she loves me, this other trainee is from same state with me, same tribe very young the problem is the first lady said we should keep it on a low that she doesn't want anyone to know and this new one calls her mother because we are all in the same squad. I told her no that I have somebody already so she went to the Hausa lady to plead with her to talk to me because she saw we were close infact she even asked her if she knew the girl I was dating maybe I might have told her but she said no and that she will talk to me on her behalf. now she is jealous and feels like I gave this new girl the opportunity to come close to me. Because of this we have had series of problems and its just so frustrating knowing that I dont intend to even settle with any of them and this was not how i wanted all this to be now I told her that the person she has been calling mother is the person I was dating because the older lady requested that I should tell her. she said she couldnt bear the jealousy any longer. Now everything is out and they both sick and are not on talking terms even though they must sleep in the same dormitory all because of me" I know I messed up but how can I make this right please matured advise please.

cassidyjosh:
omo na she i want to wife oh, the thing is no be so I want all this to be, I been just want somebody wey I fit hang with while on training, it's five months already and I have never been intimate with any of them self.

BestAccessories:


Ayam here just to read comments.

Because the OP, is sick and confused human being who doesn't really know what he want.

You have a pregnant gf, developed feeling for another, one is loving up and you want to play cool.

Why did you asked the Hausa lady out when you have a gf, why did you deny your pregnant gf when she open up to you, why did you lied?

Oga, stop wasting these ladies time, go tell them your decision, you have a pregnant gf and 2 idiots are currently fighting themselves on a fool. (pardon my french)

according to your post,you told the hausa girl that you have no girlfriend

cassidyjosh:
nigga try and understand before you start spilling shit out your mouth, I dint deny my pregnant gf

cassidyjosh:
nigga try and understand before you start spilling shit out your mouth, I dint deny my pregnant gf