I hv bn suspecting my wife of haviing an affair for somethme now and my suspicious became reality when i decided to hack into her phone lately. Alas what i discovered was shoking & revealing. I mean d texts sent to her by her boss confirmed dat dey hv bn dating more dan 3yrs plus. One of d text read, i wish i hv a taste of pudding everyday because u r sweeter dan my wife. Pls do ensure u get rid of d pregnancy so he does not suspect and many more absurd text msgs. I am presently confused and down casted. Can somebody in d house help me out of dis mess. Your honest views wil b appreciated.

You lost her sorry.

You need to move on.

Use the text msgs as proof and get a divorce.

guy this happens all the time especially in naija. most of the time the boss will threaten ladies with sack if they dont comply. take heart man

Do you really need anyone to tell you what do at this point?


Its game over man.

badesco:

I hv bn suspecting my wife of haviing an affair for somethme now and my suspicious became reality when i decided to hack into her phone lately. Alas what i discovered was shoking & revealing. I mean d texts sent to her by her boss confirmed dat dey hv bn dating more dan 3yrs plus. One of d text read, i wish i hv a taste of pudding everyday because u r sweeter dan my wife. Pls do ensure u get rid of d pregnancy so he does not suspect and many more absurd text msgs. I am presently confused and down casted. Can somebody in d house help me out of dis mess. Your honest views wil b appreciated.

So painful.What a sinful world.But do not be dragged into committing murder or paying evil with evil because you will just end up being the same monster they are.Let her go, that is life we can't just provide answer to many 'why' in it.Or why could she have done this never to be heard evil to your home?I believe you have no answer than to laugh it off and open another page of life.

Pls just let her go

Why are you still calling her your wife?

Oh wow, sorry this had to happen to you .

Dat must b a tough one on u

taste of pudding?. . . 

@violent why
@poster sorry, accept my sympathy, but this your wife is very wicked oo. 3years is a long time. Please call for a family meeting ASAP

Chei. This is some serious oppression. That boss of hers is evil. But then again who no like good ting? Even the woman herself loves other dikk.

What a world. It's hard to cast blame on this party or that because you don't know the day you may find your own self in that situation.

The key to all this may be to ease up on fidelity requirements between partners. This societal overemphasis on fidelity is contrary to natural law in my view. This is why so-called 'cheating' happens so frequently.

pls let her go immediately, no need for family meeting or whatsoever.

This pure wickedness.

ROSSIKE:

Chei. This is some serious oppression. That boss of hers is evil. But then again who no like good ting? Even the woman herself loves other dikk.

What a world. It's hard to cast blame on this party or that because you don't know the day you may find your own self in that situation.

The key to all this may be to ease up on fidelity requirements between partners. This societal overemphasis on fidelity is contrary to natural law in my view. This is why so-called 'cheating' happens so frequently.

So by this statement your wife would be free to give herself to any man comes her way.Kudos.

Eyah!op its a pity,please accept my heartfelt sympathy,what your wife did is very mean and evil,pregnant 4 another man in your house and is planning to abort, just let her go i pray God heals your wound quickly.BTW how long have you two been married?

OP abeg go get M12 or ammo rifle(joking), Seriously u ought nt to be askin such nasty and foolish question xori to say.I hope u nt given her da fone? U knw wat? In the name of da Almighty,dnt accept any apology watsoever frm anybodi send herd to her doom right away(plz no harm on anyone) continue wit life shit happens, ALL THE BEST

busygirl:

@violent why
@poster sorry, accept my sympathy, but this your wife is very wicked oo. 3years is a long time. Please call for a family meeting ASAP

let her go If she can get pregnant for her boss, she can also get infected with sti/hiv and pass it unto you.

I FEEL THIS IS A COOKED UP STORY. NO MARRIED WOMAN HAVING AN AFFAIR WILL KEEP INCRIMINATING TEXT MESSAGES OF THE AFFAIR IN HER PHONE FOR UP TO 3 YEARS. ITS EITHER YOUR WIFE DELIBERATELY WANTS YOU TO FIND OUT OR YOU ARE JUST JOKING. HEAR HIM " i wish i hv a taste of pudding everyday because u r sweeter dan my wife. Pls do ensure u get rid of d pregnancy so he does not suspect and many more absurd text msgs."

kwende:

I FEEL THIS IS A COOKED UP STORY. NO MARRIED WOMAN HAVING AN AFFAIR WILL KEEP INCRIMINATING TEXT MESSAGES OF THE AFFAIR IN HER PHONE FOR UP TO 3 YEARS. ITS EITHER YOUR WIFE DELIBERATELY WANTS YOU TO FIND OUT OR YOU ARE JUST JOKING. HEAR HIM " i wish i hv a taste of pudding everyday because u r sweeter dan my wife. Pls do ensure u get rid of d pregnancy so he does not suspect and many more absurd text msgs."

Thank you. I dont believe the story either.A cheat cant be stupid to leave such msg on her fone.

At the same time, if the story is true, the text may be recent and they might have started dating her boss even be4 she got married.Any the poster might have been suspecting even be4 they got married

@kwende & nikkykay. D story is not a cooked up one as alleged by u both but a true story dat wil likely break a home. As 4 msgs, dis was neatly passworded wit her date of birth inside her Nokia Phone. I discovered it by going to Organiser -> wallet & afta many attempts, i finally cracked d code at around 2.am midnight. There i discovered the incriminating msgs. So it is real.

^^^^ Super Story.

@badesco,i feel your pain.my first advise is take the man's number or seize her phone,go show her family members (father) hv a meeting with him and tell him exactly what you feel (do you have kids?)definately the marriage is over but my candid advise is that dnt spill blood in any way cos you will regret your actions. we hv too much of pressure out there now and bad enuff your wife fell for this one.take heart man and move on.

OP.
Give your wife to lions for the breakfast . . . . .

oh! what a pity

@Poster

This is the disadvantage of working class women. This kinda thing is more common that people care to admit.

@Married guys to working class ladies on NL

Believe it or not, if you have been married for at 5-8 years, there's a great possibility that your wife/wives have been romantically involved at least thrice and had sexXx with someone else at least once! ! !

Nuff said!

3 years
This is serious
This calls for a family meeting

Date the wife of her boss too

apoti:

Date the wife of her boss too

Supported. And make sure you start screwing other girls too, and if she makes noise, confront her with the texts. QED!

Well i would suggest you leave everything to God, { Watch and see as the Law of Kama is set in motion} she would not go scot free,

Oh my God,dis is pure evil.women,nawa o.