My Husband's Father Saw Me Half Dressed In the bedroom and still stayed

I live wih my husband and his parents in their family house and they still treat him like a young boy and Since we got married the parents doesn't respect our privacy.

I am Feeling ashamed right now after my husband's father walked into our bedroom and saw me half dressed but instead of walking away he ignored me as if I am her little daughter.

It happened that I was laying on the bed half dressed becaus I was about to sleep after my husband has slept off, and just then out of nowhere, no knock or anything my husband's father just walked into the bedroom. I had expected him to be like "oh sorry" then leave. but he didn't. He still walked up to the bed and tried to wake my husband up for a family discussion.

I was caught off guard and so ashamed even minutes after he left the room.

I don't understand why he continued in the bedroom when I was still half dressed.

I don't know how to handle this because his parents treats us as their little children of which such issues doesn't disturb them but I think they should at least knock each time they wants to come into our bedroom considering that we are married.

My husband wasn't aware of this as he was still feeling sleepy.

I don't know if I should express my displeasure with his father's attitude to him or forget about it.

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In his own house
Wh didn't u lock d door?

Be very careful in that house if he fails to respect you by going out for you to do what you were doing. Egungun be careful

U better pretend as if nothing happen if u want ur husband to continue loving u nd if u want to enjoy ur stay in d house, always lock doors anytime u going nude around d house

My dear, take precautions. Learn to lock your door when you're in your bedroom so that whoever is trying to come in will knock and if your husband raise an eyebrow over, kindly explain to him the reason for that or better still carry him along. Play wisely!

U got no case here, as far as it is his house, he has 100% ryt, the only way to checkmate it is always lock ur door when inside wt ur husband or alone, let me ask, what's ur husband still doing living with his parent, abi them force u on him?

nrexzy:
In his own house
Wh didn't u lock d door?

seriously, so because it's his house he shouldn't respect people's privacy and opinion. You try!

He was taking ur body count analysis and visibility studies of ur body...using ur curves and edges as measuring tools.

helen4:
seriously, so because it's his house he shouldn't respect people's privacy and opinion. You try!

A very simple solution to the problem is lock your room door...

Don't worry, he ll soon burst into you guyz while doing the doing, until you learn how to put the lock into good use.

Dont know what to call this, laziness or what?
Pls shift you have no complain at all.

And never go pressure your hubby to move out when he's not ready yet.

Seems this days once you are married and any small thing . . .

lock your door, the man is not even seeing you.

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Hmmm

Don't complain you guys permitted it



Simply solution



Do what the Bible said



A man should leave his father and mother and Clive to his wife

So you and your husband should pack out ASAP

Even it its self contain move...... You'll have more peace


Or else prepare for more wahala

I got kids, my own kids ooo, in my own house ooo, I tought them how to knock before entering my room but I still lock my door any time am naked.

If this is his first, no cause for alarm. It only points to your weakness by opening the door at night in a family house full of siblings and relatives. So, further prevent your self and marriage from uninvited troubles by closing the door.

Its dangerous reporting father-in-law to your husband. Don't set his heart against his dad and family. You'll regret it if you do so. It's a warning! Be instantly accomodative in good and bad seasons.

Pack the Bleep out of the house. Tell ur husband that u guys should move. What NONSENSE.

Discuss it with your husband. If possible, stop staying in the family house.

God help you(your family) sort it out

Almost everything now is fabricated stories.

You may be the one getting yourself work up and worried over nothing. As long as he has never made any sexual advances towards you since you moved into the house, it may just be that he sees you as his child like you said he treats both you and your husband as children.
I think you should forget about it and if you can't, well talk to your husband about it with wisdom and don't make him start hating his father or seeing you as the one who wants to scatter his relationship with his family.
I think you should let go and forget about it.
Besides you can actually lock the door when you are going to be naked or sleep at night. It may not happen again if you always lock your room door.

My dear your nakeness means nothing to him. So he sees u as that little girl that got married to his little boy. Pls dont beat urself abt it. Just like everyone has said, learn to lock ur door

Best solution, tell your husband to get an apartment for both of you

SpyAC:
U got no case here, as far as it is his house, he has 100% ryt, the only way to checkmate it is always lock ur door when inside wt ur husband or alone, let me ask, what's ur husband still doing living with his parent, abi them force u on him?

She does have a case.

Yes it's his house. But as an elderly man who should be full of wisdom, he should know that his son is married and he needs to respect their privacy. It's common sense.

ImaIma1:


She does have a case.

Yes it's his house. But as an elderly man who should be full of wisdom, he should know that his son is married and he needs to respect their privacy. It's common sense.

I dnt see any common sence here,

nrexzy:


A very simple solution to the problem is lock your room door...

Everyone is covering up the man's fault with "lock your door". He is very wrong to enter his son's room without knocking. A wise father will know better. It's either he has no regard for his DIL or he lacks discretion and wisdom

ImaIma1:


Everyone is covering up the man's fault with "lock your door". He is very wrong to enter his son's room without knocking. A wise father will know better. It is either he has no regard for his DIL or he la is discretion and wisdom

In his own house??
If it was the mother now u would be ok with it

nrexzy:


In his own house??
If it was the mother now u would be ok with it

Mother o, father o, whoever. You need to knock. It's common sense.

When we visited my MIL in her house, she knocked before entering our room...no matter what time of the day. That's wisdom. It's not rocket science or something advanced. It's the basic sense that a couple needs privacy.

SpyAC:
I dnt see any common sence here,

Means when you have a son that happens to be under your roof even for holidays, you will badge into the room he shares with his wife without knocking because it's your house. Ok

ImaIma1:


Mother o, father o, whoever. You need to knock. It's common sense.

When we visited my MIL in her house, she knocks before she enters our room...no matter what time of the day. That's wisdom. It's not rocket science or something advanced. It's the basic sense that a couple need privacy.

OK.. No wahala