Dottore:
Our parents still achieved near perfect marital union compare to the present era where despite the many "God's directives, leading, revelations and the likes" spinsters and bachelors' program, singles summit and many others there are still very high rate of marital failures.

How to make your marriage work and last forever:
1. Stop listening to feminist inspired messages and campaigns.
2. Don't hear evil about your husband but stylishly poke him when necessary to make unterstand that you know his escapades but choose to make peace. In that way he will respect you forever with guilty conscience.
3. Understand that some men cheat because they love their wives. If they don't cheat they will keep seeing every of your shortfalls.
4. That men have beans (wife) on fire doesn't mean you can't quickly have meat pie (sidechick) and still wait for the beans to cook.
5. Don't try to impress your feminist friends. They have bitter pains in their heart and most want you to fail.
6. Remember that marriage is not competition.
7.Most great man in the Bible had side chicks yet God still loved them. David had 8 wives and was still a man after God's heart. Jacob had 2 sisters, Solomon oh King Solo my man (smh).
If your man is not cheating then he's not a great man.
8. If you bother about him cheating with one gal, imagine the pains of moslem women who always have in mind that their husband can come back any day with a new wife and probably send the any of the old one away with or without notice.

No matter how spiritual you want to twist it you can't force a lion to eat grass. It's simply not his food.

Don't call for my head no be my fault. It remains like this until people stop counting sex rounds with the man's ejaculattion.

danilmo:


Take it from me, her husband will most likely not embarrass her ..

Who does that to a reasonable wife?, few.

Moreover, my dad once beat my mum once in their early days , then we were young , just once..if she has divorced my dad cox of beer parlor analysis of domestic violence, she will b somewhere else I can't fathom. Today she's happily celebrating 30years in marriage and thanking God for how far the've gone with Joy + healthy promising children/grandchildren to show for it..

Ladies of today, make una calm down, Social theories and marriage are two different thing.. ask ur mum. she's ur best teacher.

FuckThaMod:
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And you are a dust already..
How much them pay you?
Get out kid!

Incandescent:


What if your mum had died in the process of the beating. Just maybe your dad would have remarried and life would go on while your mum would be resting in peace.

Morale of my analysis: learn to consider issues from every side not just from your limited lense of experience

danilmo:


Anyway, ure right sha , I'm just talking base on what I read from social media ladies who are bent on divorce at slight provocation, meanwhile most of the workable marriage today, none of them is perfect, I just to give my own parent into it. meanwhile most problem is from men , our wahala too much, if not aggression it ll b cheat, it is on d woman's discretion to make it work, u divorce him on discretion , within a month another Lady is in ,Who is doing who?

watch out , we ll have so many single mums in few years time compare to single dad..

lastly if u can't tolerate Man's wahala, don't marry man. Marry something else or stay single instead all this divorce.

LifeMapEmpire:
I tell people "FORGIVENESS" is key in the success of any marriage... Been married for about 10years now and I can say without mincing words that "NOTHING IS A DEAL BREAKER FOR ME".


I have forgiven in advance for the things my spouse will still do!

zingywingy:
Big wedding can not last.. quote me anywhere.. the bigger the wedding, the lesser the blessings.
Do it moderate or low-key and enjoy happy after.

Dupalmer:

My sister it's more glorious for a man or woman to be married and stay married. There's nothing in life that comes easy. Even roses have thorns. The same sun that illuminates the world still hurts the eye and burns the skin.

Meanwhile when marriage fails, she surfers it most. It's easier for a man to remmary several times than for a lady to marry once.

Amumaigwe:


Hope the mentality of Kim Kardashian serves your generation well.

Saintmary:

There are more single moms than single dads because custody of kids naturally fall to mothers. For every single Mom, a single dad is lurking somewhere, or did they manufacture the babies on their own?

Saintmary:

So, if a man doesn't have a punching bag, his wife should stand in abi

Saintmary:

Abi o. Instead of him to go into therapy for the trauma of witnessing domestic violence at such a tender age, he is here glorifying Stockholm syndrome.

danilmo:


If my Mum was my dad punching bag, I'm very sure she ll want the same punching bag in her next life..

That old punching bag of 20+years ago is now the the wife of a Great Public Speaker where special honour and preference is always accustom to her in any occasion dad speaks..U think those things comes without sacrifice abi..Show me one sucxesful family where the Man isnt agrresive or chest in the early days of marriage..

moreover
That old punching bag of then has helped her puncher to nurture Doctor(s), Engineer, pharmacist, and co-graduate.


what we are saying is unrepentant domestic assault. not wen hubby does that once or twice even beg on top , and the next thing in ur mind is divorce. baba.. those early period are one of Men weakest point where he needs the wife to be with him.. Go and divorce na, we have enough court, and ready to redivorce in case of another one in ur new marriage.

All this ajebo ladies self thinking with their buttocks.

Saintmary:

Interesting, I hope you know that success is not sexually transmitted.

tammie24:
so until dem pay you before you get sense eh

If they don't pay you
You should not have respect or courtesy abi?

Ode!

Saintmary:

Interesting, I hope you know that success is not sexually transmitted.

lalasticlala:
OAP Toolz Oniru removes her husband’s name from her Instagram bio. This has sparked reactions on social media as many are insinuating that there is serious crisis in the marriage.

Toolz got married to Captain Tunde Demuren in a star-studded wedding in Dubai in 2016 and they currently have a son after she lost her first pregnancy.

Toolz now trends on social media after she edited her Instagram bio to remove her husband's name.

LaytonBenton:
Smh. A bunch of entitled fvcks who can't mind their business! She doesn't owe you guys any explanation

danilmo:


Whatever u mean by trauma, ure on ur own, I shaa know we went back home to celebrate my parent 30years in marriage graced with different academic professionals. They do this every 5years. If this is what trauma of domestic violence has brought to my family, I think I ll love to b in my same family in my next life. In fact my mum ll marry my Dad 100times in her next life..


I'm sure ure a teenager hovering around the fantasy of social Media

Saintmary:

Ahhhhh, I remember, everyone is a teenager once they don't agree with your opinion.

danilmo:


An average educationalist can analyse u with ur online comment. Divorce at slight provocation most be a comment from a social Media teenager. Im sorry U might b matured in age but ur comment is underage.

Davash222:
Automatically, she’s now a Nigerian feminist!

Nairaland feminists, welcome your new recruit.

Saintmary:

When in any of my posts did I ask women to 'divorce at the slightest provocation'?
When did beating up a woman become 'slightest provocation'?
Mr social media adult, Mr adult comment, face your life and stop fouling up my mentions with your disgusting mindset.

Ogaonos:
only omotola marriage have tested d test of time.mercy own is still young too say such.

victorian:








Omotola 's marriage lasted this long, cos they are both cheating on each other discreetly and with far away lovers who reside abroad.
I guess maybe to relieve marriage stress and they both have a defined focus, their extra lives outside must not affect the home ,no. Matter what.

She and her husband are determined to stay married and keep their children focused and grounded. Because Las Las, Na the children success in life go make them happy and at peace when they become old and wrinkled .

So yes they cheat on each other but they do it with respect and in coded ways.

Women who break up from their cheating husbands, do so because the women don't want to cheat. They want to stay faithful and expect their husband to stay same as well.

It's a pity but most men cheat, the earlier women realise it. The better for them.

Do Tit for Tat. And everyone comes home happy and relaxed.

Mrpsly247:

So in other words u gonna support an open relationship in your marriage...

LifeMapEmpire:
I tell people "FORGIVENESS" is key in the success of any marriage... Been married for about 10years now and I can say without mincing words that "NOTHING IS A DEAL BREAKER FOR ME".


I have forgiven in advance for the things my spouse will still do!