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Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 1:42pm On Mar 26, 2020
Of course most ladies are brave enough to take the bull by the horn and ask you straight @ your face "WILL YOU MARRY ME"?

Guys, you cant be dating that lady for many years and keep raising her hopes, thinking u think of her as a wife material or if u even have plans of ur future with her.

I actually admire ladies who shows courage by proposing to the guys in their lives.

Guys of nowadays are not ready to propose... I think it's about time the tables turned!

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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by Davash222(m): 1:44pm On Mar 26, 2020
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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by chiiraq802(m): 1:56pm On Mar 26, 2020
I will boldly JAPA.... grin
Don't want a scenario where i will be relegated to HouseHusband....

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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by KaideeGee(m): 1:56pm On Mar 26, 2020
Am still trying to figure out what might have triggered this question...
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by coolestofall(m): 2:07pm On Mar 26, 2020
If a lady proposes when a guy is not finacially ready, that means shes ready to foot the bills.

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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 2:20pm On Mar 26, 2020
coolestofall:
If a lady proposes when a guy is not finacially ready, that means shes ready to foot the bills.
grin
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by Kylekent59: 2:27pm On Mar 26, 2020
When this eventually happens, then know that she just found out she is getting older.


If I were the one, I would accept immediately. Remember, no one is going to be young forever.

We need someone to take care of us when we are getting old.

I go marry her, we go born like 3.


All these niggas doing fine boy on the street, fine boy is not forever, time is going,and don't be surprised the day you will start seeing white hair on your head, beard and private part.

Marriage is all about your children/ child. They are the ones to continue from where you stop.



Use your time well
by Kylekent

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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by bluefilm: 2:27pm On Mar 26, 2020
One hot slap will follow that request.
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 2:31pm On Mar 26, 2020
bluefilm:
One hot slap will follow that request.
lol
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by bluefilm: 2:34pm On Mar 26, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
lol

You know dat kain slap that can restore her senses her default setting one time!? grin
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 2:35pm On Mar 26, 2020
bluefilm:


You know dat kain slap that can restore her senses her default setting one time!? grin
you harsh o
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 2:36pm On Mar 26, 2020
bluefilm:


You know dat kain slap that can restore her senses her default setting one time!? grin
u harsh O !
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by snitchbitch: 2:48pm On Mar 26, 2020
I am very sure it can't happen in Nigeria
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by Jacqueline22(f): 2:51pm On Mar 26, 2020
Hi
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by snitchbitch: 2:52pm On Mar 26, 2020
Some Nigerian ladies will rather prefer to form, and be lonely till they die than ask any man to marry them.

Its because you are not a woman, that is why you don't know the gravity of those words. Even a prostitu.the in a hotel won't even dare ask you such words. She will still be forming, pretending and still be giving you green lights till Jesus comes. They prefer to stay single than propose.

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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by zchigozie: 3:00pm On Mar 26, 2020
THAT is not new to me, I hear that almost every time i approach a girl for relationship after few weeks of the relationship the next thing is "Baby are we getting married" i will have to think fast to provide a suitable answer to that question

But the truth is that not all relationship will lead to marriage, ladies have to put it on their head.
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by Omar09(m): 3:46pm On Mar 26, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
Of course most ladies are brave enough to take the bull by the horn and ask you straight @ your face "WILL YOU MARRY ME"?

Guys, you cant be dating that lady for many years and keep raising her hopes, thinking u think of her as a wife material or if u even have plans of ur future with her.

I actually admire ladies who shows courage by proposing to the guys in their lives.

Guys of nowadays are not ready to propose... I think it's about time the tables turned!

I would love such scenario where I would use the popular “let me pray about it and ask my pastor too”. I'd love the thrill.
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by Boxer007(m): 3:48pm On Mar 26, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
Of course most ladies are brave enough to take the bull by the horn and ask you straight @ your face "WILL YOU MARRY ME"?

Guys, you cant be dating that lady for many years and keep raising her hopes, thinking u think of her as a wife material or if u even have plans of ur future with her.

I actually admire ladies who shows courage by proposing to the guys in their lives.

Guys of nowadays are not ready to propose... I think it's about time the tables turned!


Tell her you happier being gay sir. Preach!
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 4:11pm On Mar 26, 2020
Boxer007:


Tell her you happier being gay sir. Preach!

Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 4:11pm On Mar 26, 2020
Omar09:


I would love such scenario where I would use the popular “let me pray about it and ask my pastor too”. I'd love the thrill.
grin
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by Leezah(f): 4:13pm On Mar 26, 2020
It would be a game changer according to most of the cultures around the world, but, yes, a woman can ask a man to marry her, why not!

Let’s pretend to say not because;

- It’s usually done by a man, and now you’re deviating from the norm. Don’t be scared though, you’ll be allright!
-This is quite a harsh point to make but; the man in question is maybe not worthy of a marriage because he’s not asking, so why should you ask? I do believe that if you feel this man having sincere feelings, and you feel confident in yourself that you can help that man express his feelings. Do the groundwork!


Let’s pretend to say YES because;

*Hell yes, you’re an amazing woman who just likes to get what she wants.
*Bleep standards. Screw culture too.
*You’re going to make your life amazing, and doing this is your first step.
*You have caught yourself a fine specimen of male species and would like to keep it.


I don’t see why not . I have known of two women who have asked for their husband to marry them . And they did . So far they are both living happily ever after. Both couples had known each other and were very good friends. When they finally got together I think they have both stated that it was easy to decide to marry .

As far as being proper I do not believe that it is improper to suggest or inquire about marriage . Generally it is not done in public . So I think I could not say it is not proper as it is usually an intimate time with just two people . You may be mixing improper with tradition

Finally yes technically it is probably considered improper as women were trained to wait for a man to ask for their hand in marriage after he asked her father . Mini skirts were also considered improper at one time and still are in certain situations. That doesn’t mean there cannot be the exception to every rule.

I have to add that most men do go after what they want in their own way . There are not that many men who would fall in love with someone and at the proper time and be to shy to find a way to ask a woman to marry them. Eventually they usually get around to it . The way they do it and when they do it realy depends upon their personality and view on dating and marriage .

Traditonally a man had to find his way in the world and be able to support a woman and a family . He often was expected to own some property , land or a house and have established his career first . Then he would come back for the woman being prepared for marriage . They may be promised to each other but that is why the man would always be asking the woman to marry and not the reverse. At least that’s how it began . Woman had much work to do that is now taken care of more easily with modern life today . With our lifestyles today the rules can be bent out of tradition. Back then a woman even with servants was very busy with running a household , food, garden , children, and social standing. Today with electricity , and machines at home tradition is nice but not necessary .

On a serious note, in all cases it depends on who you are as a personality, and who the man is. I strongly believe, anything in this world is possible, and rules are there to break. So if you feel that this is your moment to shine, don’t hesitate, and don’t have regrets.

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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by Boxer007(m): 4:21pm On Mar 26, 2020
[quote author=MadeINchenzen2 post=87787700][/quote]


Brother,why you act like u dislike watching gay porn..are u s racist? Brother be nice.
Can I get to know u so we can take shower together after a dinner date sir?
Be nice
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by AfroKnight: 4:55pm On Mar 26, 2020
If I had been planning to propose to her too, I’d say yes without any reservation and I’d defend her if any friend or family member says shît.

However, if I’d been managing her and not looking forward to spending even just one month quarantined with her, I’d say no. If it were a public proposal, I could say yes then tell her to take it slow in private.

But most women are so egoistic they won’t risk it. They’d rather wait 10 years for a proposal that won’t come.

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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 2:53pm On May 23, 2020
AfroKnight:
If I had been planning to propose to her too, I’d say yes without any reservation and I’d defend her if any friend or family member says shît.

However, if I’d been managing her and not looking forward to spending even just one month quarantined with her, I’d say no. If it were a public proposal, I could say yes then tell her to take it slow in private.

But most women are so egoistic they won’t risk it. They’d rather wait 10 years for a proposal that won’t come.
classic man

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Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by Blackmoran(m): 3:07pm On May 23, 2020
I would simply ask her why she want to ruin a good time... I simply know after marriage the sex will reduce, she will balloon up, and her true nature will surface...
Re: Guys, What Would U Do If She Tells You To Marry Her? by MadeINchenzen2: 4:43pm On Jul 05, 2020
Blackmoran:
I would simply ask her why she want to ruin a good time... I simply know after marriage the sex will reduce, she will balloon up, and her true nature will surface...
lol

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