I met her few months ago, we started as friends and I later fell in love with her so deeply that I can't go a day without seeing or talking to her. She is everything I want in a woman, but the hand. My mum has seen her with me and she does not like the idea of me dating or marrying her. He reason is that she would be a liability to me. I thought about it too. But I still love her so much and I wish I have the money to take care of her,as she
may need assistance most of the time because of her disability. Please I need advice

Disability is not dis-ability.

Brother go for her , so long your heart heart for her, most of our girls with both hands can hardly fend for themselves without involving a man.. so long she get Sense and has feature goals and DOING WELL MARY HER

Brother go for her , so long your heart beat for her, most of our girls with both hands can hardly fend for themselves without involving a man.. so long say she get Sense and has feature goals and DOING WELL grin MARY HER cool

ifykris22:
Brother go for her , so long your heart heart for her, most of our girls with both hands can hardly fend for themselves without involving a man.. so long she get Sense and has feature goals and DOING WELL MARY HER

Egbola944:
I met her few months ago, we started as friends and I later fell in love with her so deeply that I can't go a day without seeing or talking to her. She is everything I want in a woman, but the hand. My mum has seen her with me and she does not like the idea of me dating or marrying her. He reason is that she would be a liability to me. I thought about it too. But I still love her so much and I wish I have the money to take care of her,as she
may need assistance most of the time because of her disability. Please I need advice

Are you assisting her right now?
I'm sure she has adapted very well and can do all her needs, with one hand.
Are you sure you love her abi you're just in love with the idea of being the 'hero' who married someone with a disability?

You don't love her the way you claimed

I Love Her So Much But She Is An Amputee With One Hand

If you love her so much I assume you’ll naturally overlook her disability. If you’re not ready hit the highway let a serious suitor come her way.

Marry her
She won't break ur heart

Love is a beautiful thing, aren't you supposed to be happy that you have met your kind of woman? Go ahead if you love her, don't you see people who marry someone on wheelchair? Your gals situation is far better. She can get an artificial hand in future and be wearing, but it depends on where she was amputated.

No biggie in marrying an amputee. With a good prosthesis, no one would even know. In my years of experience as a Prosthetist, I've come to understand that hands and legs are just accessories,without them, we'd still function well via adaptation. I make functional, pocketfriendly artificial limbs sha, don't fail to hit me up to learn more about your options.

Egbola944:
I met her few months ago, we started as friends and I later fell in love with her so deeply that I can't go a day without seeing or talking to her. She is everything I want in a woman, but the hand. My mum has seen her with me and she does not like the idea of me dating or marrying her. He reason is that she would be a liability to me. I thought about it too. But I still love her so much and I wish I have the money to take care of her,as she
may need assistance most of the time because of her disability. Please I need advice

Many people got two hands but are worse than handicapped people bro. She can pound yam with one hand, turn soup with one, load washing machine with one, change diaper with one, carry baby with one hand, even give ya bj with one hand! Common whatcha thinking! No one is perfect

Erediauwa:
Bros, dem nor dey shame for love...


If you really love her, you wouldn't mind assisting her irrespective of her condition.


I wouldn't mind dating one though.

OH you are lucky. I have only one eye... Interested?

Please follow your mind, if you love her, go for her. Your mother can't dictate whom to marry for you

who told u

Tomiwa69:
Marry her
She won't break ur heart

SweetCunt97:
OH you are lucky. I have only one eye... Interested?

If you're well-mannered,


No problem.

Erediauwa:
If you're well-mannered,


No problem.

Offcourse I'm well mannered.

You can get her a good cosmetic prosthetic hand

Believe me few months into that marriage, love will clear from your eyes.

But since you said you love her, suit yourself

SweetCunt97:
Offcourse I'm well mannered.

Very well then.

Love conquer all.

24kmagic:
Believe me few months into that marriage, love will clear from your eyes.

But since you said you love her, suit yourself

Bitter truth.

It is well...we are all scared of the physically impaired folks. But what if our complete spouses get into accidents and become impaired later in on nko?


This reminds me of some 4-5 yrs ago when my friend's husband got in an accident. We had heard that some people survived while others were burnt beyond recognition. Even though I have a huge dislike for hospitals, I had no choice but to accompany her to the hospital to verify if her husband was one of the LUCKY ones who escaped with various degree of serious injuries. Alas, he wasn't lucky enough to escape with injuries, rather, he was one of those that went to join the angels. The one thing that remained vivid with me till date was when she broke down in front of me while pointing to a guy on a wheel chair with bloodied bandaged head saying "I wish he escaped with broken legs and head, I would have taken care of him".

May God help us all.

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ifykris22:
Brother go for her , so long your heart heart for her, most of our girls with both hands can hardly fend for themselves without involving a man.. so long she get Sense and has feature goals and DOING WELL MARY HER

op you are advising him to marry her.....it is ur type dat will see people like her and run away

It's Asif you're not seeing the I LOVE HER PART MUGU!

Mavinsoladele:
op you are advising him to marry her.....it is ur type dat will see people like her and run away

I just don't understand why your mom will decide who you should marry. Save the lady the future stress and abuse since you are likely not going to defend her when need be.

Egbola944:
I met her few months ago, we started as friends and I later fell in love with her so deeply that I can't go a day without seeing or talking to her. She is everything I want in a woman, but the hand. My mum has seen her with me and she does not like the idea of me dating or marrying her. He reason is that she would be a liability to me. I thought about it too. But I still love her so much and I wish I have the money to take care of her,as she
may need assistance most of the time because of her disability. Please I need advice

This one But don dey enter the tori.

If you are not comfortable with her, can be easily influenced by external voices and cannot look past her disability, leave her.

She requires a man who is ready to love her and look past her disability.

Your love for her is conditional.

Real, authentic love is UNCONDITIONAL.

Please don't go and marry someone's daughter out of pity and later you will start maltreating her.
If you genuinely love her then by all means go ahead.

If you really love her as you claim. Then we should not be advising you on what step to take. What you have for that damsel is LUST. So pack well Bros.

I don't see her condition as any problem,there is always a way out.