Dear all,

I would like to know which among these, is ideal for good relationship.

1. She visit you regularly and you guys kiss, romance, cook and eat together as well as having sex.

2. She visit you often, but no kiss, no romance, or love making, just cook, eat and gist.

3. She doesn't visit and insisted she can only know your place and living with you permanently after the wedding.

Pls I want to see people opinions especially ladies before I will reveal the one my girl is practicing with me.

Do you mean GOOD RELATIONSHIP or CHRISTIAN RELATIONSHIP...?

Na Jehovah witness qualities be dat...no girl like dat.

All of the above and none of the above.


If any of the listed works for you and your partner, go ahead and enjoy your relationship.

HenryThegreat1:
Dear all,

I would like to know which among these, is ideal for good relationship.

1. She visit you regularly and you guys kiss, romance, cook and eat together as well as having sex.

2. She visit you often, but no kiss, no romance, or love making, just cook, eat and gist.

3. She doesn't visit and insisted she can only know your place and living with you permanently after the wedding.

Pls I want to see people opinions especially ladies before I will reveal the one my girl is practicing with me.

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Acmepreneur:

2

. But she practicing no 3 on me which I'm not comfortable with that a woman I'm planning to marry don't want to know where I stay

HenryThegreat1:
. But she practicing no 3 on me which I'm not comfortable with that a woman I'm planning to marry don't want to know where I stay

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Talk to her about it

Acmepreneur:
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Talk to her about it

. I have done that for long o.
She said her mummy said no, that is not allow in deeper life.

What are you looking for. If she visits you often, there's tendency you'll want to have sex with her. Reason is not advisable as a Christian to visit a guy alone.

She can come and help you do a few things while you're away. Like cooking, and chores and leave before you get back.
Then you guys can meet in an open place.


If you can't date a Christian, look for your type. Simple!

Jewessgratitudd:
What are you looking for. If she visits you often, there's tendency you'll want to have sex with her. Reason is not advisable as a Christian to visit a guy alone.

She can come and help you do a few things while you're away. Like cooking, and chores and leave before you get back.
Then you guys can meet in an open place.


If you can't date a Christian, look for your type. Simple!

. I'm not a bad guy and I can never be one. Sometimes, we ask question to ascertain if what one's is doing is OK.

HenryThegreat1:
Dear all,

I would like to know which among these, is ideal for good relationship.

1. She visit you regularly and you guys kiss, romance, cook and eat together as well as having sex.

2. She visit you often, but no kiss, no romance, or love making, just cook, eat and gist.

3. She doesn't visit and insisted she can only know your place and living with you permanently after the wedding.

Pls I want to see people opinions especially ladies before I will reveal the one my girl is practicing with me.

No 1,helps to bound the relationship

No 2,the feeling's are not yet visible, still growing

No 3, is risky for women so that she won't complain of unsatisfactory sex after marriage

HenryThegreat1:
. I'm not a bad guy and I can never be one. Sometimes, we ask question to ascertain if what one's is doing is OK.

I never said you're a bad guy. But that does not rule out the fact that you're a human being with blood flowing in your veins and there's no way the desire to have a carnal knowledge of her will not come up one day if she begins to frequent your house unguarded. You too reason am na. Haba!

Just maintain that status quo like she told you or look for another.
Shalom.

Jewessgratitudd:


I never said you're a bad guy. But that does not rule out the fact that you're a human being with blood flowing in your veins and there's no way the desire to have a carnal knowledge of her will not come up one day if she begins to frequent your house unguarded. You too reason am na. Haba!

Just maintain that status quo like she told you or look for another.
Shalom.

. Thank very much

HenryThegreat1:
. Thank very much

You're welcome.

Don't come and lament here after the wedding and when you know her actual history or if you guys are incompatible.

HenryThegreat1:
. But she practicing no 3 on me which I'm not comfortable with that a woman I'm planning to marry don't want to know where I stay

Jewessgratitudd:
What are you looking for. If she visits you often, there's tendency you'll want to have sex with her. Reason is not advisable as a Christian to visit a guy alone.

She can come and help you do a few things while you're away. Like cooking, and chores and leave before you get back.
Then you guys can meet in an open place.


If you can't date a Christian, look for your type. Simple!

Sista I have shared a bed with a lady friend for months and we did nothing (just cuddling though)...no be every girl u fit bleep...if u hear some girls story(forget all this ones wey dey lie) ur preek no go gree rise....
I have never been desperate Abt having sex in all my life

Starz825:

Sista I have shared a bed with a lady friend for months and we did nothing (just cuddling though)...no be every girl u fit bleep...if u hear some girls story(forget all this ones wey dey lie) ur preek no go gree rise....
I have never been desperate Abt having sex in all my life

Your case is different. These ones are in a relationship so it is inevitable.

Cheers.

Starz825:

Sista I have shared a bed with a lady friend for months and we did nothing (just cuddling though)...no be every girl u fit bleep...if u hear some girls story(forget all this ones wey dey lie) ur preek no go gree rise....
I have never been desperate Abt having sex in all my life

for months and nothing happen, wow i hail you...

I trust myself Sha, maybe b4 b4, no be now wey my blood be hotting