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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by zealadjay(m): 12:15am On Apr 15, 2020
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We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON


Trash......
Trash.........
Trash............


U nid beat
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Jamesayo: 12:21am On Apr 15, 2020
So sorry to read concerning your story. My simple advise from experience is THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS. Plan inexplicable success for your life and generation. I've experienced people determining on evil revenge, and it ended up destructively. Avoid such and move on . Let the drive of revenge propel you to succeed no matter what.
God sees all your effort, and he'll bless your good heart.
Forgive yourself, forgive her, and forgive your generation!
Shalom!!!

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Lastmankc(m): 12:26am On Apr 15, 2020
This guy nah mumu.I met one lady like that,she was heart broken and I console her during that period.As a badt guy,I them utilized the opportunities to smash her punna mercilessly. When the ex came begging, I advice her to go to her ex.she was really mad at me.wetin cosign me,I don chop clean mouth.

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Native101: 12:28am On Apr 15, 2020
Lmao. Did the OP create the thread to transfer aggression on other guys with opinions? See outpouring of agression.

Grow up, Descorts, or what in fvck's name are you called. Until you pack on some dose of maturity you will continue to suffer from these girls. And trust me, someone will pull out your teeth soon for messing with their daughter or sister if you let blind rage fuel you.

You came here to pour out your heart. Instead of showing civility you are now barking like a chihuahua. Funny creature.

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by bigplayerz(m): 12:35am On Apr 15, 2020
I gave her my shoulders to lean on. Why didn't you add and a D**k to ride on. OP this your story watery gan.
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Govo4me2u(m): 12:40am On Apr 15, 2020
Egungun is heading to a 6 lane newly tired express.
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Lonelyloner: 12:43am On Apr 15, 2020
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We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON

See, indifference is the only payback.
Imagine if she knew she was the reason you never was happy again.
The reason you were dealing with other girls.
The reason you are miserable.
The reason you came to nairaland to cry.
The reason you crying inaudibly.

Dude, she has finished you.
She will continue to have power over you.

You're here killing your hating her. She's still controlling. Ruining your life in absentia.

The best thing you do for yourself is to delete her memories.
Delete her and everything that points to her in your life.

Let this go on for 1 month or more.
You'll come back to nairaland with shame and delete this post.

LET ME ASK YOU.
IF YOU FIND A GIRL DEALING WITH OTHER GUYS BECAUSE YOU BROKE HER HEART, WON'T YOU BE FEELING POWERFUL?
NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS YOU'LL STILL KNOW UNDERNEATH SHE LIKES YOU.

Face it, she has power over you because she can change your mood if she likes.

If this girl wants to make you sad, she has to do is appear before you.

Can you make her sad by doing that?
Face, you're her bitch. Her beta.

You'll win this by defeating her memories in your mind.
Not by this nonsense you're saying.

Before now, did you have such plans?
You letting a girl control you.

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by emmiem(f): 12:45am On Apr 15, 2020
So make we clap for you now na as you don turn to monster���... No be your fault at all. Mtcchhheewww

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Nobody: 12:55am On Apr 15, 2020
TheKingIsHere:


It is so obvious that he spent a lot on her without pounding the pus'sy, that's why the op is pained
u right plus its also obvious he spent heavily while being used as a rebound nigga
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Filmdirect: 12:58am On Apr 15, 2020
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We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON

The girl loved you, she just wasn’t in love with you. She loved you as a friend and honestly tried, that’s why she bought you gifts and tried to reciprocate your love. She knew that’s what you wanted. But honestly she wasn’t in love with you. There is no way she could have told you because you only wanted one thing and she knew it and she didn’t want to lose your friendship.

Secondly, she was not fully recovered from her ex. It’s not that easy to get over someone who’s been in our lives for years.

Honestly you both just handled a vulnerable situation the wrong way. She wanted to move on from her ex and gave you a chance. You felt you could show her something different and that would be enough. No one in this equation considered there is the intangible variable called love for an ex; a heart issue that can’t be tossed aside without adequate time. It is not anyone’s place to tell someone who to love. If it is unhealthy she needs to learn for herself.

Now turning into a monster: I know someone who was once heart broken and later they met someone else. They determined to not allow the old hurt influence their present, after all isn’t that giving the other person control? This new relationship has been beautiful, stressless, and much better than the past. Question: what if they had become a monster? They would have ended up hurting and losing their best.

The strength of a human is revealed when they face crisis. There is nothing new under the sun.

Bottom line: learn from this and be truthful with yourself. You have and had no right to expect this girl to love you. She didn’t ask you to be her knight in shinny armor, you decided that. If you truly loved her you would let her with her free will. This can show you that you have a giving heart. Now wait to give it to the right person. And learn when a relationship should stay in the friend zone only.

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Prolificdeman: 1:02am On Apr 15, 2020
Bro you're a good writer per se.

I find myself commenting on relationship post these days...dont know why.

But here's the catch.

When a girl is heart broken, theres high chance she will find a backup plan to forget her temporary sorrows.

But then..if the guy comes back for her..bro forget she won't hesitate to accept back.

Do you know how they started? Bond they shared before Mr. uncertainty came through

Bro forget, you're just a victim of circumstance. No hard feelings.

Don't mete the same punishment on an innocent girl. Your own bae sure will come...

Girls shall...

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Chpstcks(m): 1:25am On Apr 15, 2020
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I am weak? Just cuz I wanted to help a friend through emotional trauma, you call that weak? You must be a kid. I'm not having this conversation with you, you've not seen life.
Dont mention me again please

This comment suggests you are matured but your post suggests otherwise
Imagine where you meet a worse woman. We hope you update us sha.
My advise, be you and dont change for nobody. Just be smart about it.
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Henrygood: 1:28am On Apr 15, 2020
Erediauwa:
The Op is hell bent on carrying out his plans and won't listen to anyone...


Check his violent replies.



If the lady at my profile picture mistakenly shake her boobs in front of the Op, the nigga will stop all his ranting.
Eriduawa,ya breast I must confess, is well created .God I tnk u for our nairaland fine breast.���
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Nobody: 1:34am On Apr 15, 2020
Zendinho:
This is happening real.....my ex just reunited with me.... after 2yrs.
God forbid me going back to my ex's, non of them get good record
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Henrygood: 1:38am On Apr 15, 2020
Zendinho:
This is happening real.....my ex just reunited with me.... afternoonc 2yrs.
could it be dsm lady dt scattered our guy's life
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Lightangel65: 1:40am On Apr 15, 2020
Ladiva:


Especially if that lady is your sister lipsrsealed

And yours too
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Nobody: 1:45am On Apr 15, 2020
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I'm not listening... what I want to do, i do it .

Then you are a fool. Go and do whatever you like. Na people still get time dey console you. Una dey reason. As if God no give una brain. Are you the first person to be heart broken? Why are you crying as of something spectacular happened to you. If you like Go and toilet with Anybody emotions. That's your Palava. You self go born daughters one day na. Make una leave this idiot. When you are done toiling
. Them go give you award you hear . Werey. No go marry.

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Nobody: 1:50am On Apr 15, 2020
Ishilove:

You dey craze. This is what happens when someone dates on rebound. She hadn't organised herself emotionally when you eagerly offered yourself as substitute boyfriend.

Gerrawayu make person see road.

Aunty Ishi, you better don't lose your respect.

That boy is more rude than 'rude'. grin grin He can insult you and your whole neighbourhood will be feeling heat.... grin grin grin

I wanted to say something too but seeing his comments... I just face front grin grin
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Toks2008(m): 2:21am On Apr 15, 2020
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We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON

She used you as a part time lover as well as a get back lover.

The guy will leave her again and she will find a way to come back to you. Don't be a fool.
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by sheriffindy(m): 2:35am On Apr 15, 2020
musa234:
You Could have carried out this mission quietly without letting us know.. Good luck bro
we need a mission to save the earth from Coronavirus wahala... I tire for that guy and his rantings
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by sheriffindy(m): 2:37am On Apr 15, 2020
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that is if driven by an apprentice... I'm master in this game, forget say I just fell into this hole now even the mighty can fall.
I will come out strong.. I was always a heartless person who no send girls, I will rise and become far worse... a monster
..use this anger and passion.. Direct it to making money.. Stop disturbing us please

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by sheriffindy(m): 2:41am On Apr 15, 2020
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lol nice try but I'm not a good boy, far from that. The reasons why this girl was into me then was because there's nothing a female can do that'll turn on my mumu button (that is if I even have any cuz I haven't figured) , she was always telling me I should soften up a little, this was while we were just friends. It was even me who made her do some wild things she never thought she'd do.
..PLEASE STAY AT HOME

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by sheriffindy(m): 2:42am On Apr 15, 2020
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then fvck off my thread!! Did I force you to read my post or even go further to comment?? Fvck off!!
..CRY CRY BABY
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Freelane33(m): 2:51am On Apr 15, 2020
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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Jossyfine(f): 2:55am On Apr 15, 2020
Hope you don't get stabbed by one of those daughters of jezebel by trampling on their emotions......

A word is enough for the undecided
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by tonididdy(m): 2:55am On Apr 15, 2020
... The ladies will avoid this space grin


Monster on rampage, so far no near my sister oh. I go Kee u

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by TLION(m): 2:56am On Apr 15, 2020
noxy1962:
I can imagine how she was moaning during the make up sex. Sorry bro.
. lmao..Guy you wicked!!!!

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Arkmanbuddy(m): 2:57am On Apr 15, 2020
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what are you saying? Did you read my post at all??
I'm no lover boy, but people like me fall for these scam once in our life time. I will handle this so well believe me

Then why rant about it online?
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by akinsmyk(m): 3:16am On Apr 15, 2020
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I am weak? Just cuz I wanted to help a friend through emotional trauma, you call that weak? You must be a kid. I'm not having this conversation with you, you've not seen life.
Dont mention me again please

This guy hasn't learn a thing. Things are not done in anger and the way you're going about it. Revenge is better executed when you calm, pretend as if nothing happened, plan and strategize your move. This one you're doing gra gra up and down, you will be trampled upon over and over again, sit your ass one place.

Instead of getting offended with what they're telling you, pick those useful to you. I can fetch one or two useful words from what some guys are saying. The rage in your eye and the angers of your heart won't let you see clearly.

If you say you're bad but this happens to you once in a while then you're just deceiving yourself. Admit it. Bad boys are never in the position you put yourself. They don't play the good boys or the shoulder for girls to lean on to get a woman. Your experience should have taught you that

Women likes bad boys but you're too docile and sissy for her, she saw you as that emotional support and that's how it is. You're not doing challenging things, you're too predictable, she's not kept on her toes coz she believes you can pull no stunt. Believe me, they loves the crazy, wild and egoistic men.

You said you want to revenge by treating other girls bad, what makes you think the next girl is not aiming for your heart too. Jungle don mature on both sides, if you put your heart on the floor, it will be kicked.

Calm down, seat you ass down and be humble

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Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by marshmonii: 3:24am On Apr 15, 2020
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you just displayed your stupidity here now... how did she use me? didn't you read the part where I said we only started dating after 2 months?
If one of my guys got into trouble or had a turbulent time I'd be there for him that's what friends are for so why should it be different when that friend is a girl? I wasn't wrong when I said you are just a foolish kid. Dont quote me again idiot.


Make you go ask eve wettin she do Adam make u learn, all those stunts you mention like being a monster, a deadlier monster is out there on street awaiting your arrival to send you early to your grave, less you forget, HIV, HEPITIATIS, GONOREA, SYPHILIS, all this sicknesses are rampant on the streets, guy move on and be a man, so many sweet babes are out there continue the search till u find the right one that's if atall right one even dey, we all na manage we de manage am like that.
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by Jabioro: 3:32am On Apr 15, 2020
Digmygold:


Back at his arms? Is he that cheap? When there are several stable and loyal women out there? Bro please this your advice lacks wisdom.
The line is clearly stated.You won't say you have never knew her because then she would be begging for what she misses..then she would be missing more because she will never get it back..She will cried and cried telll whoever care to listen how she threw good deeds man away..Calm down do not close your eyes for new angel is around..God bless you
Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by hardon1(m): 3:41am On Apr 15, 2020
shit happens though. unknown to you she was just using you as backup boyfriend. just learn your lesson in case of next time. but believe you me, if you are actually a caring and loving guy and did no wrong before she left you, she will come back with a puppy face to plead.

if if she does come back no try accept o. just pretend you have forgiven her, invite her in and FVCK hell out of her violently and throw her out.

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