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Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by abimic(m): 10:43am On Apr 21, 2020 |
As a father, you have to learn how to instill discipline in your home, you condone lots of things in your home, reason you are looked down on by your wife, better understand that loving someone doesn't mean you would be belittled. Train your children the way they should grow. As you're laughing with them, teach them the way of the Lord, teach them to be good wives, teach them what godly wives do with scriptural backing. Your home is far from the Lord, marry women whose hearts draw closer to the Lord, pray together, do devotion together, share scripture together, and teach the children together. As a man, take charge of your home as been a loving, caring father isn't enough, you have to lead your home in all spheres of life. That your children disobey you means you're not in charge, and you have not taught them well. Bringing a child up involves both parties so as to make the training balanced, and both should train them in the way of Lord. You both should have a church you attend where you take marriage counseling, so contact your church pastor or someone she respects, but big time, you've passed much of the buck of your fatherly role to your wife. You're leading from back while your wife Is in charge. Husbands and wives should learn to understand their place in the homes. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by ashjay001(m): 11:43am On Apr 21, 2020 |
IfysWorld2: Those that are not abusing their kids, how has it helped them? To each his own. I haven't manhandled any of my kids in 3yrs, but they understand boundaries! For as long as I'm responsible for you, you can't outrightly disrespect me! Dem never born you. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by ThatFairGuy: 12:45pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Ironic: You have spoken well. Oga paul8000, this is viable advice for you. Do has he said. Trust me, I understand what you're going through but your CHILDREN WILL REALIZE THE TRUTH ONCE THEY'RE OF AGE.(I can attest to this kinda story) Just keep up your fatherly role to them. Once again, do as he advised |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by warrrrr: 12:46pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Triniti(m): 2:02pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Gather all your kids together when your wife is not around and drive them to a remote location, sit each and everyone of them down and have a heart to heart talk with them, let them know you are the only father they have and nothing on earth can change you from being their father. You really need to stamp your authority at home with your words and actions, get someone your wife respect to mediate between you two. You need to take charge of your home |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Chisaedhor: 2:51pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Timileyin1234:Ur words is'nt helping d issue broh, subdue does ur side chick to undergo d stress of bearing 5 children nd see if u will stil cal dem "side chick" Mtcheew |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by dickt(m): 3:53pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
DominusPrime:You are such an awful person to talk to in times of distress, God forbid!! Just put yourself in his shoes and see how nasty you are. SMH |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Morizo(m): 4:05pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
bukatyne: Oga take this advise seriously. She has summarised the solutions like a professional counsellor with a string African upbringing touch. Thanks for this advise. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Morizo(m): 4:09pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Olunmercy56: My sister some women are unforgiving when it comes to cheating. They just cant take the image off their minds even after u guy resolve it. I know what am saying. 10.years later and they are still bittered about it despite having kids for u in between the period the cheating occured. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Dande55: Kudos to this. She that has ears let her hear. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by ebenezer95(m): 6:59pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
A hot slap will change ur wife behavious to you and the children will also act normal |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Parisian: 9:26pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Beating that will only make them resent you more. Shey you go still beat when they're grown adults and have left your house. Either ways it's a lose lose situation for you and all those thinking in this pattern. Timileyin1234: |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by OgaTheTop2: 9:50pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Ironic:That's just it... You said it all! |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by brainfordetails: 11:15pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
God will help you |
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Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ardenikeh: Hey? |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by 2buffagain(m): 2:31pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
RealEzee: Liberia is like that because it was effectively colonized by akata, who did exactly if not worse than what white people did. The lost can only lead you to being lost too. |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by RealEzee(m): 3:28pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
2buffagain:lol they were not colonized btw, just the Congo people mixing up the indigenes and absurbing power |
Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by HRHQueenPhil(f): 9:48am On Sep 18, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by Exceed15: 4:49am On Apr 17 |
She think she's getting at you . She's just raising bittered children and it will bounce back on her. I pity the men the daughters will marry to. |
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