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Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by Corporate2020: 4:34pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Wumnaf: Go get your freedom Mrs. go get it. The man is at fault. Let his just get several cucumbines. No need of disturbing a woman who does not want to be married. You too can get several boyfriends, let's see who regrets last. Nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by Wumnaf(f): 4:53pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Corporate2020: hmmm interesting |
Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by Corporate2020: 5:39pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Wumnaf: Yes, it's going to be very interesting when we see you on dating sites looking for husband after a reasonable well brought up woman must have taken your husband from you. |
Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by doitforyou(f): 5:57pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Ignore the threats of a side chick. Submissive housewives are also cheated on constantly. Some men have babies, side pieces etc on ‘good’ wives too. Some couples have also been able to work out a healthy long distance marriage without cheating. If your husband is going to cheat, he’s doing so because he’s a cheater, period. Don’t be freaked into making a decision that would put you in a worse situation than you were before. Why do you want to stay close to your family? Do they help with child care? You have a very valid reason to worry about the financial implication of your move to Lagos, before you move, secure a job in Lagos. 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by Ayotemide(f): 7:05pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
I understand your fears of moving to Lagos for the first time (I myself want to run away from it) and possibly loosing your source of income. My good friend had left Lagos for ibadan as a newly wed and resigned her employment here; it has not been a particularly rewarding move to be dependent on her husband and I would advise against it to another friend. He must be a muslim who considers non-islamic banking haram; he might oppose to your continued working in that system once you are here. Think it through and consider if the sacrifice is worth it . Many families stay apart with occasional visits and heaven did not fall. If it compromises your job security I would advise you to not make a rushed move. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by realtalk19: 8:49pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Wumnaf: Which is more important between your family and your marriage? You need to reach a compromise and make up your mind about your home. Lagos is very interesting,you will adjust with time. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by Nobody: 10:12am On Apr 24, 2020 |
anibi9674:Because a lot of us prefer wedding to marriage. |
Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by cococandy(f): 10:18am On Apr 24, 2020 |
OP all you need is in this post. Unless you’re looking for people to tell you to go ahead and do whatever you like regarding the move. you have to be willing to listen if you actually came here for solution and not validation ibkayee: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by chitheo(f): 10:20am On Apr 24, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Insist I Must Relocate To Lagos Because Of My Family by Wetlink: 10:29am On Apr 24, 2020 |
chiddyok: Or maybe to escape societal pressure. More like just get married so 'they' can leave you the heck alone but then live your life as if you were single. OP, on a normal day I would advice you relocate and live with your husband cos I think that's the ideal thing to do but on a second thought... I read some deeper meanings to your post. e. g I want to stay close to my family, He is a religious bigot, He can't take care of me etc. These are pointers that all may not be well and because I don't know the whole story, I would say, think it through and do what you consider the best for you, your child and your young family. 1 Like |
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