My marriage is four years old and blessed with a son. My husband and I live apart because of our jobs. He comes home once a month and does not want me to visit him in Abuja. My pleas fell on deaf ears. He claims that where he lives in the city is not comfortable. I try to make up for the lost time whenever he comes home by being very nice and romantic and very creative in bed, but he always claims to be tired or wants to go out. So we end up having sex once or twice and that is if he stays up to one week. He always complains about not having money. Although we are Christians, I think that he is having an affair in Abuja. What do I do?

from punch newspaper

if u av not seen any other things aparts frm what u stated,that does nt justify that he is aving an affair.just keep on being good and loyal to him as a wife.

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Abuja rawks

Why are u guys married if u can't visit him in Abuja no matter how bad the place he is staying is? I think he has a hidden agenda and does not want you to find out

Concerning his place of abode,he may be telling d truth. Not all of abuja is as fyn as d city center,dere are slums all around. With d huge cost of accomodation not many can afford 2 live in d city. He may be embarrassed about her coming 2 see where he stays. Tho i find dat absurd since she's his wife. Let her continue 2 support him & quit being paranoid.

MOBO444:

@ Poster, if your husband is still a young man, just relax and let him enjoy Abuja girls, also advice him to use condom,ok.

Ewu.

You beta go nd join him in ABJ

Abuja okay.

poor woman. .the man has been fed to the abuja sharks babes.

Topic should be " See what my husband has done to abuja babes".

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ABUJA!!

the place in nigeria where sugar daddying is legit,
that lady has lost her man to abuja gals and catfish,isi-ewu and beer

about the cat fish and isiewu, i know a good spot.

I know that when men are stressed especially about money it tends to affect their sex drive. If you have suspicions you must talk to him about it. Try not to talk in anger because that may cause him to get defensive which you don't want. Also pray and ask the Lord to show you what is going on. If his intent is to use, or abuse your trust in any way God will reveal it to you. Claim the promise of "No weapon formed against me shall prosper." Good luck my sister.