So something happened this afternoon
My house girl of 14 years old was having sex with my bro in-laws son of 8years I caught them in my kitchen store was looking at them for almost 5 minutes without them noticing.
If you see the way the girl was trying to level down with the boy Ehn cos she is a bit taller than him, she hasn't even started menstruating She was carried away and trying to feel every bit of it. God i Was speechless. She is definitely going back after the lock down
After so many interrogation, the boy said it's their second time and he was lured.
But really do parents with little kids need househelp because of this kind of exposure.

You stood for 5 mins enjoying teen porn. Don't send that girl away

OP..... Whether you send her away to the village, it will not stop her from still having sex....


But assuming this was your daughter..... will you disown her?


Whatever you will do to your daughter, do it to her.... coach her and let her be more closer to God and be her father at this moment......

OP, for you to feel comfortable to observe minors having sex for 5 minutes is a clear indication that you may be into voyeurism which is a form of paraphilia (sexual disorder).

Galactico4ever:
You stood for 5 mins enjoying teen porn. Don't send that girl away

was so shocked confused of even what to do, if I should beat them, they will need to visit the hospital and there is lockdown

babasade:
was so shocked confused of even what to do, if I should beat them, they will need to visit the hospital and there is lockdown

Shocked for 5 mins? Bros no make person laugh!

yanabasee:
OP..... Whether you send her away to the village, it will not stop her from still having sex....


But assuming this was your daughter..... will you disown her?


Whatever you will do to your daughter, do it to her.... coach her and let her be more closer to God and be her father at this moment......

Who go spoil go spoil.
Plus the Op should remove temptation from her before any nonsense talk. Daughter or no daughter, no be who motor jam dey pick number. Her parents are not dead, so they should talk to their daughter.

Op try and isolate your kid from her during this period. And return her asap after lockdown.

Op has tried enough, if it's some ladies, the housegirl would be dead, burnt, or roasted with permanent damages by now.

Mindlog:


Shocked for 5 mins? Bros no make person laugh!

Too Late. Laughter wan kee me here.

babasade:
So something happened this afternoon
My house girl of 14 years old was having sex with my bro in-laws son of 8years But really do parents with little kids need househelp because of this kind of exposure.

Househelps are essential especially if the parents are not always home early but you should always try and check up on them

Op did you mean to write 18years old boy or its really an 8years old child? Kindly respond to this.

Secondly thereispossibilityyouwillabusethegirltoosinceyouenjoyedwatchingthemandprobablyhadahardon

cynhamscakes:
Op did you mean to write 18years old boy or its really an 8years old child? Kindly respond to this.

Secondly thereispossibilityyouwillabusethegirltoosinceyouenjoyedwatchingthemandprobablyhadahardon

I think you have issues thinking with your thinking faculty, everyone can't be as silly as you.

Employ adults you can pay. That way you can fire or prosecute then when they default their employment conditions or molest any of your children

This is very sad.

Child labor and child porn both relished and encouraged by an adult. OP, you’ve failed those children.

doitforyou:
This is very sad.

Child labor and child porn both relished and encouraged by an adult. OP, you’ve failed those children.

the question is should the househelp leave or be counselled cos the parents are really facing hard times that was why she was brought in atleast to assist them take the burden. The parents are sad and begging. How did I fail them am I expected to teach them sex education 8yrs old that just came over to stay for a while. Beating them with anger will lead to expenses with this restricted movement remember they aren't my kids. so it confusing

Too many stories with househelps.
How do people feel comfortable using other peoples kids as househelps?
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I prefer employing someone mature who would come by the house and do chores. Cleaning, laundry and errands and at the end of the day, closes and goes back to their house. Bringing in minors in the name of househelp is just slavery to me.

babasade:
the question is should the househelp leave or be counselled cos the parents are really facing hard times that was why she was brought in atleast to assist them take the burden. The parents are sad and begging. How did I fail them am I expected to teach them sex education 8yrs old that just came over to stay for a while. Beating them with anger will lead to expenses with this restricted movement remember they aren't my kids. so it confusing

It’s sadder that you don’t see anything wrong with watching an 8 year old boy getting sexually abused by another child. It’s even worse that you think it’s okay to type this on a forum and expect not to get called out.

That child shouldn’t be working and be exploited, she should be in school and live a normal life like her peers.

The girl is obviously a street wise teenager taking advantage of that small boy. Sex education come in stages depending on the age of kids. At 8, a boy should know no one should play with his penis, and build a good relationship with his parents to be able to voice out. but no! We love to live in denial.
Whether you chase the maid or not will change little to nothing, the boy has been imprinted. And this experience will live with him for a long time, since he now knows how to have sex, I advice you start teaching him about it the right way, else he would build on this experience and it will not turn out good.
I wonder how 8 years old get erection sef. God should save us, no be today.

doitforyou:

It’s sadder that you don’t see anything wrong with watching an 8 year old boy getting sexually abused by another child. It’s even worse that you think it’s okay to type this on a forum and expect not to get called out.

That child shouldn’t be working and be exploited, she should be in school and live a normal life like her peers.

there is lockdown. She attends a school, called the parents of both spoken extensively to both children, families should do away with househelp if they have younger kids that the main reason that story is there

babasade:
So something happened this afternoon
My house girl of 14 years old was having sex with my bro in-laws son of 8years I caught them in my kitchen store was looking at them for almost 5 minutes without them noticing.
If you see the way the girl was trying to level down with the boy Ehn cos she is a bit taller than him, she hasn't even started menstruating She was carried away and trying to feel every bit of it. God i Was speechless. She is definitely going back after the lock down
After so many interrogation, the boy said it's their second time and he was lured.
But really do parents with little kids need househelp because of this kind of exposure.

Standing for 5mins ke?

And they were not having sex.

The maid (underaged) was abusing your nephew.

babasade:
there is lockdown. She attends a school, called the parents of both spoken extensively to both children, families should do away with househelp if they have younger kids that the main reason that story is there

A 14 year old child shouldn’t be involved with ‘paid’ labor, period.

No, your post shows adults in Nigeria don’t take children’s rights and sexual abuse of children more seriously.

If this story is true, I trust your wife. She will make life unbearable for the girl. The girl will be the one begging to go back. Her useless parents are not even concern about giving out minor as househelp. This lock down, where was your wife? How are you sure your kids are safe?

I smell lie.

U are one big fat liar. 5 minutes of what kind of shock exactly?
We should applaud you for watching child porn. See how he even explained what the girl was doing in detail.

Tell us another story. Ain't wasting my energy on this.

bukatyne:


Standing for 5mins ke?

And they were not having sex.

The maid (underaged) was abusing your nephew.

And he was watching them for 5 minutes
If i put egg for fire, e never done

Nairaland have some types of crazy people with weird fetish that they tend to exhibit under the guise of anonymity.

sassysure:

And he was watching them for 5 minutes
If i put egg for fire, e never done

Nairaland have some types of crazy people with weird fetish that they tend to exhibit under the guise of anonymity.

Hahahahahahaha!

People dey NL which in reality is a reflection of the society.

Sick OP! How can you be so shocked for FIVE MINUTES!
The fact that educated Nigerians still use kids as helps is very disgusting and wicked.

I am just laughing as I reading posts about 'child abuse/maid/rights' in Nigeria.

I wonder when we would learn to solve our problems with our own methods.

There are many poverty strike families that their child becoming a 'househelp' gives that child more hope than staying with their parents.

So many families that there is no hope for schooling, shelter or clothing and going to work for a family gives them basic needs.

Go to public schools and children grateful that it is one Uncle or Aunty sponsoring them there.

So when people complain of children hawking: several NLers have said that they Hawked at a point to augment their family income or fend for themselves through school.

Let us learn to analyse our peculiar situation and solve it with methods that work for us.

This post is a lie. How can you say u were watching for five minutes. You were enjoying it. This post is a lie. If you actually watch up to 5 minutes,you are worse than those kids

babasade:
I think you have issues thinking with your thinking faculty, everyone can't be as silly as you.

What were you expecting me to say? Thank you for watching a 14years old teen sexually molest an 8 years old child for good 5 minutes and you saw the whole disgusting act and even gave details of how the girl posed for the sex?

Ewwwww. It's nauseating and disturbing trying to imagine it.

Read your thread and see the responses from others. Mine ain't different so don't get mad at me.

Why do you have a 14 year old as an employee in the 1st place ?.

If I complain about having househelp nah, people will call me hypocrite,if you want to use a helping hand at your house, do so with a very mature person that you will be paying not a child not because you want to help the innocent child.

sassysure:

And he was watching them for 5 minutes
If i put egg for fire, e never done

Nairaland have some types of crazy people with weird fetish that they tend to exhibit under the guise of anonymity.

Lol, this story being false or not, does it discredit the fact that little boys are being abused by maids, aunties, older female cousins, and family friends?

@babasade, next time don't watch for 5mins.
Your househelp can be arrested and prosecuted by law. She won't be charged with rape though but will be charged with defilement.