Girls grow up to treat their husbands the same way their mothers treated their fathers.

That's was why I didn't marry my ex in 2012.

Smart girl. Works with one of the leading banks in Nigeria.

Slim-thick, chocolate, tall and strong muscular legs

Just how I like it

We were destined for the alter decided to see her parents.

until I

We drove to her parents house in the villa. Coming into the compound I no ticed a semi-paralyzed man at the corner of the house with sadness all over him.

No one paid attention to him and his clothes were dirty.

I felt he was a madman or something but was distracted by my girl's mum and siblings circling around me with salutations.

We got into the house and as a solid Igbo guy, 1 brought one carton of omega schnapps for the father like tradition dictates.

On asking for the father to present the drink, I was told dismissively that he was the man outside and the mum wanted to accept the drink on his behalf.

I was shocked!

What??

I asked my babe and she said it was a long story.

ignored her and went to the man.

Introduced myself and gave him my present.

When the man told me his story, I wept. Brethren, pray that you marry a good wife.

To cut long story short, I confronted the woman and she was more interested in my bank account and how I will assist with their building project.

Suddenly some of my babe's aggressive behaviors begins to make sense. Then we grew apart cos I refuse to do whatever the mother says.

Ladies, don't let your toxic mum lead you astray.

Sources: CodedHits

wen a gentle by nature man married a beautiful higher killer as a wife wat do u expect happy endin or a calamity

Unfortunately love is blind.

He who fights and run, na fear de catch am.

For both men and women, when intending to get married observe how the guy's father treats the guy's mother while men should observe how the lady's mother treats the father because behaviours tends to be learnt, consciously and unconsciously. Irrational behaviours of parents tend to be normalized and children take such scripts into relationships and ultimately, marriage except for some who intentionally recognize those behaviours, challenge them and set motions for intentional change.

He dodged a bullet, M16 bullet.

Is CodedHits a sister company of CodedRuns?

Hmmm

bukatyne:
Is CodedHits a sister company of CodedRuns?

How did you know about codedruns?

Plead:


How did you know about codedruns?

Don't get ahead of yourself

Nairaland has buzzwords; one time, it was CodedRuns.

bukatyne:


Don't get ahead of yourself

Nairaland has buzzwords; one time, it was CodedRuns.

You don spoil

I thought there was a long story that needed to be cut short

Mindlog:
For both men and women, when intending to get married observe how the guy's father treats the guy's mother while men should observe how the lady's mother treats the father because behaviours tends to be learnt, consciously and unconsciously. Irrational behaviours of parents tend to be normalized and children take such scripts into relationships and ultimately, marriage except for some who intentionally recognize those behaviours, challenge them and set motions for intentional change.

you can train yourself to correct this notion

Plead:


You don spoil

Toor.

southniyikaye:
you can train yourself to correct this notion

Which notion?

The man is innocent because he told his own side of the story.

Maybe he treated his family like the man in this thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/5827261/how-win-wifes-heart-back

After they've been sucked dry by mistresses, they'll now bring their broken pieces back and expect to be given royal treatment. If you see any aged man neglected or mistreated by his wife and kids, ask about how he treated his family during his hayday. By the time you get the full story, any ounce of sympathy you initially had for him will automatically fly out the window. Not saying they're no bad wives but our society was designed in a way that men get away with a lot in marriage which a woman ideally wouldn't.

Right, one's mother's toxicity can have an effect on one... One just has to be careful.... It could lead one astray OP, you're right. So right.

SweetCunt97:
Unfortunately love is blind.

..
Marriage is an eye opener..

@op, you did the right thing.

Thank God I have a good mother
My daddy got 3 wives and my mum still stood by him
My mum is the 1st wife though

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Girls grow up to treat their husbands the same way their mothers treated their fathers.

That's was why I didn't marry my ex in 2012.

Smart girl. Works with one of the leading banks in Nigeria.

Slim-thick, chocolate, tall and strong muscular legs

Just how I like it

We were destined for the alter decided to see her parents.

until I

We drove to her parents house in the villa. Coming into the compound I no ticed a semi-paralyzed man at the corner of the house with sadness all over him.

No one paid attention to him and his clothes were dirty.

I felt he was a madman or something but was distracted by my girl's mum and siblings circling around me with salutations.

We got into the house and as a solid Igbo guy, 1 brought one carton of omega schnapps for the father like tradition dictates.

On asking for the father to present the drink, I was told dismissively that he was the man outside and the mum wanted to accept the drink on his behalf.

I was shocked!

What??

I asked my babe and she said it was a long story.

ignored her and went to the man.

Introduced myself and gave him my present.

When the man told me his story, I wept. Brethren, pray that you marry a good wife.

To cut long story short, I confronted the woman and she was more interested in my bank account and how I will assist with their building project.

Suddenly some of my babe's aggressive behaviors begins to make sense. Then we grew apart cos I refuse to do whatever the mother says.

Ladies, don't let your toxic mum lead you astray.

Sources: CodedHits

If this is true then you have done well

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Ladies, don't let your toxic mum lead you astray.

IMPOSSICANT!