People in long term relationships will someday get to the point where they need to ask themselves: Is this really the person I want to spend the rest of my life with? Is the woman by my side really the one?

We have compiled the most important and interesting results of these studies. If the woman by your side has these 14 qualities and behaviours, you know you have found the one.

1. She is smarter than you

When you are looking for a partner for life, make sure that she is smart. Ideally, she should be smarter than you.

2. She is honest

Everyone makes mistakes and bad decisions sometimes. This makes it even more important to have someone who can get you back on track and tell you when you are wrong.

3. She has a positive outlook

​Is your girlfriend the type of person who always sees the glass as half full? Could you sometimes even accuse her of naïve optimism? Then you might have found the woman of your dreams. Because look at it this way: Negative people are toxic and bad for our health in the long run.

This is because we tend to take on the negativity of people we spend the most time with.

4. She compromises

Life can’t always be a bed of roses and at some point in your relationship, you and your partner will disagree. It’s completely normal and even inevitable. But the relationship can only work if both partners are willing to compromise.

5. She laughs at your jokes

Of course we always want someone by our side who actually laughs at our jokes.

6. She has an open heart

Having a partner who shines in the public spotlight and can easily make herself heard in a group makes life a lot easier.

7. She supports your goals and pursues her own

And remember the advantages: A strong woman by your side will motivate you and won’t be dependent on you. You don’t need to worry about her and she won’t need your constant validation.

A weak person often tends to forget his or her own goals. These people don’t just prioritise the goals of their partners, they tend to co-opt them completely.

8. She has a good relationship with her parents

​If you want to know what your partner will be like in 30 years, look at their parents. If you want to know how they will treat you in 30 years, look at how they treat their parents now.

But, this doesn’t mean that her relationship with her parents always needs to be perfect.

9. She is kind

Science says that the keys to a long and happy relationship are kindness and generosity.

10. She remains calm in fights and calms you down too

Fights are an inevitability of all relationships. Never disagreeing is not a sign of a stable relationship. But the important thing is how you deal with disagreements and how you make up again after.

11. She does foolish things with you

Have you found a woman who does not hold it against you if you stayed out too long partying? In most cases because she was at the party with you? Then never let her go again.

12. She has a life of her own

Having your own space and privacy is even more important for your relationship than a good sex life.

13. She accepts your flaws

Too many relationships only seem to consist of one partner criticizing the other. Their ugly pants, their bad jokes, their annoying habit of chewing too loudly, you get the picture.

If you have found a woman who can just accept you, you should consider yourself lucky.

14. She does not bear grudges

If you found a woman who can forgive others, you will have her by your side for a long time.

But perhaps more importantly: Forgiveness is the foundation of a healthy relationship. People are not perfect and neither are you. There will be times when you inadvertently do something that hurts your partner. And then you will need her to be able to forgive you.

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If you have found a woman who has some or all of these qualities, treat her well and never let her go. Your life will be better for having her.

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https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/female-personality-traits-qualities-women-smart-honest-positive-kind-compromises-kind-a8174116.html?amp

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Please the quality of a woman is not how big her bumbum is inside leggings.

Good list!

4, 10, 13,14 are so important in conflict resolution and planning the growth in the union.

Especially during trying times when you need all the understanding that you can get from your partner.

However, you gotta be all these to her too. People fins it easier to show as much love as they're shown...and even more.

Very rare to find

lukui:
Very rare to find

I got married the moment I found these

This is the best post I've read on Nairaland this month.

Perfect perfect and perfect!

They are 5 in africa, . and none is in nigeria.

Juliusmomoh:
They are 5 in africa,
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and none is in nigeria.

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Perfect!


Only that they come handy for our Nigerian brothers

But some men will still all these qualities and much more in a woman and still japaa. Its well sha

Wow that's me above...

MJBOLT:

no woman has those 14 qualities

If you have found a woman who has some or all of these qualities, treat her well and never let her go. Your life will be better for having her.

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Clearly stated in the article. She must not have all but the qualities listed shows the traits of a special woman.

Tladybukky:
But some men will still all these qualities and much more in a woman and still japaa. Its well sha

The question is, how many of them do you have?

MJBOLT:

no woman has those 14 qualities

mr Bolt for ur mind right,,,,

My fiancee only has 2,3,4 and 12 but my plan chic got almost all of them.
I'm confuse sometimes. With the plan B chic, we can talk anything but my fiancee, nah.

Apparently no woman can have all those qualities, however, some qualities are more important to some men than others. Honesty, kindness, Compromise, Positive outlook, Not bearing grudges, should be at the top of the list for me.

I don't care so much if she doesn't laugh at my jokes or if she isn't smarter than me. Don't care for those.

I am only interested in a woman with number 1 and 2. I will be alright.

Best write up I've read today.

Tladybukky:
But some men will still all these qualities and much more in a woman and still japaa. Its well sha

Then he does not deserve you. No qualms.