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Here is the truth: you can NEVER marry a good wife until you become a great husband.

You need a good wife, but you must be a great husband.

Who is a great husband? A great husband is a man who has mastered the below 3 skills + 5 extra personality traits.

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

5 Extra Traits

1. Honesty
2. Humorous
3. Mysterious (unpredictable)
4. Understanding (communication)
5. In control, but not controlling (principle)

Now, let's assume you have the above skills and this has put you in a position to choose a good wife.

You'll need skill 1 to choose that woman. If you don't have skill 1, trust me, your marriage will NEVER last — if it does last, if means you'll need to compromise with so many bad behaviors your woman will exhibit during courtship and during marriage.

Real men don't compromise with bad behaviors from women — it's either she corrects it NOW and forever or keeps it and gets friendzoned by the man or become friends with benefits while the real man moves on to the next woman.

Real men don't just fall in love until they're done accessing the woman to their tastes. They only fall in like. When everything has been accessed and approved and it's time for proposal, they'll finally fall in love.

After the proposal or marriage and she feels she's now "madam the madam," and it's time to misbehave, the real man will politely speak with her to amend to the lady he used to know.

If this behavior continues for the third time, it's over and no apology — even from Heaven will make him change his mind. Real men give you time to amend, but they don't give you time to apologize for the 3rd time.

For a real man, attraction is a choice, but for women and weak men, attraction is not a choice.

If you're a man reading this, have it in mind that women have two hearts and if you can't handle these two hearts, you'll regret.

1. Emotional heart
2. Vaginal heart

This is to say, if men don't want to
suffer, they need to handle women. Handling women is not by watching porn and seeing all the outrageous styles.


To handle a woman, you need to handle her
two hearts. The first heart of a woman is her emotional heart and the second heart of a woman is her vaginal heart.

Any man who doesn't want to suffer
must satisfy these two hearts or beg God to remove women from this world for peace to reign.

The best
way to satisfy a woman's two hearts is
through her vagina (great sex) and the way you communicate/treat her (emotion).

Sadly, men think satisfying a woman —
i.e. making her happy, is by money, so they focus only on making money and ignore the two hearts (emotional and vaginal heart).

Unfortunately for these men, despite
how much they spend on women, these women still frustrate them and make them suffer.

I know what is going through some angry men's minds. Some of them are saying, "So, a man needs to do all these rubbish you listed just to keep a woman, then what does the woman bring to the table apart from her smelly p*ssy to keep the man? What does she have to offer?"

Young man, calm down — it's not a fight. A woman has a lot to bring to the table and 10 of them, out of the many, are

1. Faithfulness/forgiveness
2. Great cook
3. Calming and great advice
4. Raising kids in a Godly way
5. Prayerful
6. Humble/kindness
7. Dressing sexy and clean for you
8. Great sex the man can't get anywhere (not a log of wood waiting to be pounded every time without making any efforts)
9. Fear/respect
10. Sense of humor

Bonus: You can teach her the rest — especially how to make money from home.

The above are what she'll bring to the table, but if she can't bring them, she's not worth it — pick another girl — don't let stupid love cloud your reasoning.

Real men don't love easily, they like first and after screening, they can finally love at last.

Weak men love easily and after the marriage has hit a rock, they'll now realize how stupid they were in ignoring red flags just because he's beautiful, intelligent, lightskined (most Nigerian men's weakness and that's why our innocent women are bleaching up their skins to meet the demand), from a Godly home, etc.

Some women from Godly homes have bad character despite how their parents have tried — peer pressure damaged them. Leave them alone to remain damaged like that and look for a girl with a good character, not one you'll start repairing her character from scratch.

How will you feel after buying an expensive phone, the seller tells you to repair the buttons and screen before you can use it? If you're wise, won't you dump the phone and purchase a new one you won't need to repair before use?

There are some characters a woman will possess that you should try to repair like: not being as prayerful as she used to be, not exercising, and a few other minor ones.

But if it's cheating and anger issues, run run run and never look back except you want to die untimely through infection or through nagging. If you ignore this, then you've invited hypertension or untimely death.

Never in your life allow a cheat or a nag come into your life as a wife or even a girlfriend — it's better never to marry just to please your family members who are pressuring you than do that.

When your marriage crashes because you stubbornly married a cheat or a constant nag with anger issue, those who pressured you to marry her will laugh at you behind your back on how you're not man enough to keep your wife on check and control your family like a real man — the blame will be on you for being a weak man.

Sadly, achieving this in this generation is close to impossible, but there is a way out and that is mastering those three skills I mentioned earlier and satisfying those 2 hearts women possess.

If you can't do it, then she'll surely cheat on you (even while pretending to be a decent woman from a Godly family) and nag you to death.

I have warned you, so be wise and take action to avoid committing suicide just like the one I saw on front page today because of depression and frustration caused by the woman you married or wanted to marry.

If you're a man, I know your question will probably be, "How do I achieve all these?"

The answer is: we have books that explained everything from A to Z.

To some people, they are bigger than reading books and this is why they say, "To hide something from a black man, put it inside a book."

The reason a white man made this statement is because a black man is too busy chasing money while neglecting wisdom contained in books, so he can use the money to impress woman and sleep around with as many as he wants, then comes back to brag to his friends about his conquest.

Please, be a black man, but don't think like one — think outside the box and be the boss.

You have 3 options

1. Do the above and be a happy man in your relationship or marriage
2. Ignore the above and be a sad man in your relationship or marriage
3. Never get married and live your life like MGTOW

The choice is yours — I'm only a messenger.

Written by Jóe Cléf — Bestselling author on sex, marriage, and dating issues for men.

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If you can't give explicit example from your personal life as regards this matter, who is going to take your write up serious.

Hint: Not me.

Finally...second to comment. Boss if u hv shower me Rch card abeg...

xcabczyxabczzzz:
If you can't give explicit example from your personal life as regards this matter, who is going to take your write up serious.

Hint: Not me.

Read first and comment later.

iLegendd:
Read first and comment later.

Bros I have read it, you did not mention anything personally related to your marriage life.

Is this what women bring into a marriage?


1. Faithfulness/forgiveness
2. Great cook
3. Calming and great advice
4. Raising kids in a Godly way
5. Prayerful
6. Humble/kindness
7. Dressing sexy and clean for you
8. Great sex the man can't get anywhere (not a log of wood waiting to be pounded every time without making any efforts)
9. Fear/respect
10. Sense of humor

There nothing special up there.

Hmmm.. So true.

I cant read that its too long

xcabczyxabczzzz:
Bros I have read it, you did not mention anything personally related to your marriage life.

Is this what women bring into a marriage?


1. Faithfulness/forgiveness
2. Great cook
3. Calming and great advice
4. Raising kids in a Godly way
5. Prayerful
6. Humble/kindness
7. Dressing sexy and clean for you
8. Great sex the man can't get anywhere (not a log of wood waiting to be pounded every time without making any efforts)
9. Fear/respect
10. Sense of humor

There nothing special up there.

Okay.

Aboks:
I cant read that its too long

But if I turn it to a book, give it a cool name, and sell it for 10k, you'll buy.

It's a known fact that people hate free info that seem long.

The discovery's never ends.

Legend, na correct guy when Sabi!

I hail!!!

What's the name of the book.. that's the reason for the thread.

duality:
Legend, na correct guy when Sabi!

I hail!!!

What's the name of the book.. that's the reason for the thread.

Sadly, the thread wasn't created to sell any book, but I do mention we have books on those things I talked about.

There is no one single book for everything. Naturally lasting longer in bed for hours without drugs has its own book. Conversation skill has its own book, chatting has, making money has its books, etc. So, there is no single book I'm promoting in this post — just here to share secrets to those who care to listen.

gift2xl:
The discovery's never ends.

Such is life — just the same way progress in life never ends.

iLegendd:
Sadly, the thread wasn't created to sell any book, but I do mention we have books on those things I talked about.

There is no one single book for everything. Naturally lasting longer in bed for hours without drugs has its own book. Conversation skill has its own book, chatting has, making money has its books, etc. So, there is no single book I'm promoting in this post — just here to share secrets to those who care to listen.

Okay, I thought you released a new book.

Anyway.. I'm following closely. I'm leaning fast

More importantly, I've known you to be forthright.

hmmmm Oluwo should have read this

illicit:
hmmmm Oluwo should have read this

He really should have. Anyway, it's never too late for the rest of the world.

This guy you’re doing well see below sha

Following the link to this thread wasn't a waste after all,,, Nice one

If you like this post, you'll surely love this one below. It's about money making and management technique 99% of the world's population doesn't know about. Read it and stay ahead of your peers.

Link: https://www.nairaland.com/5856501/

guy I went through your write up and I really learnt a lot , it spoke to me directly. Every budding and even matured men need this as a life guard manual .if all men know this we will have lesser miserable men dying prematurely. Never marry or even date a nagging and unfaithful woman, those are the two signs that spells it loud that a woman doesn't love you .