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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by luluosas(m): 5:27am On May 13, 2020 |
Very true |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by toffyz(m): 5:29am On May 13, 2020 |
Dude is right oo |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Wantedmiller: 5:30am On May 13, 2020 |
The funny part is that our senators always know what is right but putting it to work..............is matter of what I do know exactly...... |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 5:33am On May 13, 2020 |
Wantedmiller:Not all know the RIGHT THING. Don't use one reasonable senator to judge other stupid ones. In a CLASS of 100 students, some people must come top of the class while some others remain at the bottom.... That doesn't make all reasonable 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Kobicove(m): 5:37am On May 13, 2020 |
What the man said is true...people should stop deceiving themselves! 6 Likes |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 5:39am On May 13, 2020 |
101% Truth. (Marriage is for NONSTOP SEX and PROCREATION of CHILDREN) Just marry and maybe your wife is unable to have kids, then you will know if you married her for Love or procreation. Genesis 9:7 "Be fruitful then and multiply, teem over the earth and subdue it!" Genesis 9:1 "God blessed Noah and his sons and said to them, 'Breed, multiply and fill the earth." Genesis 1:27-28 [27]"God created man in the image of himself, in the image of God he created him, male and female he created them. [28]God blessed them, saying to them, 'Be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth and subdue it. Be masters of the fish of the sea, the birds of heaven and all the living creatures that move on earth." 2 Likes |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by mmsen: 5:43am On May 13, 2020 |
EVILFOREST: Even worse none of those countries has a population that has doubled in 30 years like Nigeria. And even now Nigerian women refuse to embrace family planning. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by mmsen: 5:46am On May 13, 2020 |
stevmatt15: The earth is already full of people and Africans do a bad job of taking care of kids. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 5:49am On May 13, 2020 |
mmsen:Yes that is where we got it wrong Bad child nurturing and up bringing. 4 Likes |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 5:50am On May 13, 2020 |
i concur |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by fabian063: 5:59am On May 13, 2020 |
After seeing the topic I'ld wanted to admonish him, but after reading the content, I saw that he was making a whole lot of sense 1 Like |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Grandmeister(m): 6:04am On May 13, 2020 |
olaztek:And what about the divorce rate in the West?? Can it be compared to Africans? When a 30 years old woman has gone through 2 divorces already in the West..statistics proves your comment false. 8 Likes |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 6:13am On May 13, 2020 |
mmsen:PROBLEM dey Naija ooooo The POPULATION is too much. .... and most people belonging to this population are ANGRY.... terribly angry. Unplanned KIDS with Unplanned Future 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by brownemmanuel43(m): 6:18am On May 13, 2020 |
Mr. Senator is absolutely right. There is no love in Africa, an average African marry all bcs of offspring. Once a man got married, the next thing people around will be looking at is the wife's belle and they will start counting 9 months time for her 11 Likes |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by queengift(f): 6:25am On May 13, 2020 |
This is the bitter truth. 3 Likes |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by sassiemyk: 6:26am On May 13, 2020 |
He Speaks The Truth. Love Is Nothing To A Nigerian Woman. Money And Children Are The Major Motives Driving Marriages In Nigerian That Is Why Problems With Marriages Are Rife. 1 Like |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 6:29am On May 13, 2020 |
So I am speaking from experience and I know how it pains that you have made a choice and you discover that the choice can’t work. Because in Africa, we marry for children, we don’t marry for love.” At this point, Senate President Ahmad Lawan interrupted, saying: “Senator Chukwuka Utazi, I think you should be speaking for yourself.” Hahahahaha my brothers in the northern part no go like that part, because I don't see anything called love from those who harboured more than 5 wife. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by riczy(m): 6:40am On May 13, 2020 |
The kind of bill they sponsor in d house is laughable, this is nt a bill in a senile climes, its d needful. So we we ve nt been doing it because its nt enshrine in d law? , its truly owewerising dt dis is comn now! Now we are waking up. |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by abysirius(m): 6:43am On May 13, 2020 |
opribo:It will be wrong to conclude this as the onle reason people get married. What about companionship?? ...especially in Ur old age. People marry for diverse reasons and maybe to some children might be considered as one of the major reasons.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by malcom1X: 6:43am On May 13, 2020 |
mmsen: What's wrong with having 5 to 6 kids? Just asking. |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by abat4real37(f): 6:46am On May 13, 2020 |
He's right to an extent, you will see some men and mother in law's disturbing the wife after few months of marriage because of pregnancy |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Xclusiveanalyst: 6:51am On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Eniolakiite(f): 6:53am On May 13, 2020 |
You’re right Amotolongbo: 1 Like |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by ZeroShenanigan(m): 6:57am On May 13, 2020 |
He is actually refer to healthy children.. He is trying to say, one the reasons we married is children, so why can't the children be healthy? 1 Like |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by sylve11: 6:58am On May 13, 2020 |
Lol @ Utazi |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by TruthSpeaker: 7:00am On May 13, 2020 |
Speak for yourself |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Menesh: 7:03am On May 13, 2020 |
malcom1X: Raising 5 to 6 children with this level of poverty here and now is not moimoi. Unless you want to train them our old ways. By and large, during our childbearing years, we dream so much of a future successful grownups ( Male and female), who will support us when we are old, forgeting so easily what it takes raising them, and the overwhelming toll it will take on us physically and mentally. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Lawmak: 7:04am On May 13, 2020 |
So Sam Egwu still dey Senate. Na wa oo |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by liveyourlife007(m): 7:09am On May 13, 2020 |
Thats true. the book IN DEPENDENCE by sarah manyika. emphasis this point. Ty and Vanessa never ended up together . ..pick_up_your sandal and shit like that 1 Like |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by roseb1(f): 7:13am On May 13, 2020 |
Macsjebs:Explorer doesn't advertise his thread. You should take a cue from him. We know you are trying though, U don't need to advertise it. Allow the thread to speak for itself capishe? I hope I spoke kindly? |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 7:16am On May 13, 2020 |
Islie: I think this post should be for the northern Nigeria, because what I see going on here is very very pathetic |
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by InvertedHammer: 7:17am On May 13, 2020 |
/ Once you marry, awon womb watchers will show. After two years of no pregnancy, the question will be about offsprings not happiness (nor love). By the way...who asked the senator? \ 1 Like |
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