Mygoldie:

@OP, good question,
some men tend to label women as goldiggers because,these sort of men are so poor and frightened that they might loose their women because of their inability to take care of their women's needs,that is why they jump to conclusion and see women as goldiggers.

I repeat,any man who calls a woman a goldigger,when she haven't even ask anything from him, is a POOR wretched man who's too scared to admit that he's insufficient. Fact!!

Ermm she is referring to the players and aristos here that use that term not the ordinary working man. In other words this is a phrase coined by the bad boys.
You know what My Goldie, Nigeria is still very much a male dominated country. Frankly a young girl with such a gold-digging attitude would just end up being used abused and spat out.

SA Lady:

Shame I see confusion and anger is creeping in. Its @Atreides, you and this Big Man of yours shall see to finish. eeerrrr! about Cock's reply men with little or no money will be quick to label girls gold diggers, simple. They are very very angry too and this is where it gets complicated. Watch that space.

Rubbish and shows that you don't have any idea what you're talking about since its not money per se that is used to pursue these types of good time schoolgirls but the players swagger his game and the appearance of wealth.
Frankly a naive schoolgirl does not have a cat in hell's chance of beating the players at their game.

tensor777:

Ermm she is referring to the players and aristos here that use that term not the ordinary working man. In other words this is a phrase coined by the bad boys.
You know what My Goldie, Nigeria is still very much a male dominated country. Frankly a young girl with such a gold-digging attitude would just end up being used abused and spat out.

You don't get it,do you?
is it wrong for a man to take care of his girl's needs?

It is only a poverty striken greedy man,who would go ''my girl is a goldigger'' after all they've gone through,whilst in the relationship.

Mygoldie:




You don't get it,do you?
is it wrong for a man to take care of his girl's needs?

It is only a poverty striken greedy man,who would go ''my girl is a goldigger'' after all they've gone through,whilst in the relationship.

Loool. . He's not gonna get it so don't bother. Trust me,i tried. Lmao @ "poverty stricken man". . Hehe

Atreides:

Lol. . But bad boys are sooo much fun! Nice guys are boring. . Don't worry,i hear ya. In fact,not only will i not look at bad boys,i will not look at any boy at all-except the ones you bring for me. .

This is a quote from a schoolgirl that seemingly has already started sleeping around and appears fascinated with bad guys not knowing that this fascination was caused by the evil linkage which came about when she gave up her virginity to a player.
It happens all the time in Lagos as a matter of fact.

T^^^

The young girl say make una leave her alone

You be pedo-phile?

tensor777:

This is a quote from a schoolgirl that seemingly has already started sleeping around and appears fascinated with bad guys not knowing that this fascination was caused by the evil linkage which came about when she gave up her virginity to a player.
It happens all the time in Lagos as a matter of fact.

Dude you must be smoking the wrong weed. . How does me saying i like bad boys equal sleeping around? Seriously? Smh. .  Y'know i wanted to pissed by your mule-headedness,the way you keep on seeing only what you want to see,but then i went through your post and i just had to laugh. 'fascinated with bad boys'? 'Evil linkage?' That one cracked me up real good. . Stop Nl stalking me dude.

Mygoldie:

You don't get it,do you?
is it wrong for a man to take care of his girl's needs?
It is only a poverty striken greedy man,who would go ''my girl is a goldigger'' after all they've gone through,whilst in the relationship.

Absolute twisted rubbish. Frankly the girl that would provoke any man to come up with such a derogatory phrase is nothing but a harlot or a concubine.
Fine everyone has needs but that's why we need to work for a living and not leech off others.

fstranger1:

T^^^

The young girl say make una leave her alone

You be pedo-phile?

I really really wanted to be angry but when i saw 'evil linkage' i just had to laugh. . His life must be seriously devoid of anything fun/exciting for him to get his kicks from stalking me up and down. At first i shrugged it off but now it's getting kinda creepy. P.s-How be? How ya doin my baaad yoruba boi? Wait lemme not call you bad boy again oh,since apparently liking bad boys/thinking they're fun means i sleep around. Double P.s-Have you seen I.d lately?

Atreides:

Dude you must be smoking the wrong weed. . How does me saying i like bad boys equal sleeping around? Seriously? Smh. .  Y'know i wanted to pissed by your mule-headedness,the way you keep on seeing only what you want to see,but then i went through your post and i just had to laugh. 'fascinated with bad boys'? 'Evil linkage?' That one cracked me up real good. . Stop Nl stalking me dude.

It does as a matter of fact. How does a school girl get to know about all these things if she has not been playing way way out of her league. From your male classmates?
Don't make me laugh.
The fact is those players you are going after are extremely unlikely to be satisfied with merely holding your hands.

tensor777:

Absolute twisted rubbish. Frankly the girl that would provoke any man to come up with such a derogatory phrase is nothing but a harlot or a concubine.
Fine everyone has needs but that's why we need to work for a living and not leech off others.

You are the one who's getting it twisted here,just because your poor doesn't mean you won't care for your girl,mind you,i'm not asking you to buy her heaven and earth NO.you can do little things like buying her stuffs like cream,hand bag,tops,trousers etc. it doesn't mean she's a goldigger.it doesn't mean she cannot care for her needs,it doesn't mean she can't be independent. but the fact that some men label their women as a goldigger,just cause she asked for maybe money or so,is not just right atall.

tensor777:

It does as a matter of fact. How does a school girl get to know about all these things if she has not been playing way way out of her league. From your male classmates?
Don't make me laugh.
The fact is those players you are going after are extremely unlikely to be satisfied with merely holding your hands.

Stop obsessing over sex. I know this is prolly pretty hard for you to grasp,but not everybody's doing it. In any case,no matter what i say,you'll still see what you want to see and you'll still believe what you wanna believe. So here's a newsflash-believe what you want to believe,kay? You have my permission to think what you like-i honestly don't care. Just please,in the name of everything that makes sense in this world,please stop Nl stalking me. Abeg,fi mi le. Just stop Nl stalking me. I know it's hard,but please try ehn?

Only thing I know sha is I cant have some arguments with a 17 yr old. Life is too short to get harassed over such.

Men refer to women who are only in the relationship for material things as gold diggers. Doesnt mean a woman should date a poor guy but more of love the guy for himself and not his cash/dough.

Still sha aint ever gonna argue with a 17 yr old!!

@Druss,i don't want to argue with you either! Matter of fact,i don't want to argue with anyone-it's just there are some things you can't ignore. And i like the fact that you said 'doesn't mean a girl should date a poor guy'. And i also agree that she shouldn't be with him more because of the money than because of the guy himself,because at the end of the day money can't buy happiness.

The reason why I said I aint ever gonna argue is simple

- At 17 to 20, the human child feels they know everything. They have read wide, they have seen some of the world. They are getting to the adult age.
- It is hard enough arguing with a woman but with a 17 yr old one!! GOD FORBID!! I am almost twice that age, I have a wife and lawd knows high blood pressure is real and is a biaatcch!!
- I would rather wait till you experience more of life then this would make more sense. Till then , I aint gonna yarn nada!!

Druss:

The reason why I said I aint ever gonna argue is simple

- At 17 to 20, the human child feels they know everything. They have read wide, they have seen some of the world. They are getting to the adult age.
- It is hard enough arguing with a woman but with a 17 yr old one!! GOD FORBID!! I am almost twice that age, I have a wife and lawd knows high blood pressure is real and is a biaatcch!!
- I would rather wait till you experience more of life then this would make more sense. Till then , I aint gonna yarn nada!!

Lwkmd. . Funny guy. . High blood pressure ehn? Oh well. You know what they say-Never argue with a girl cos she'll always win. . P.s-I like how even though you obviously don't agree with me,you weren't rude about it. And don't worry,you don't need to say nuthin. Better safe than sorry,eh?

@Atreides
Hey lil sis just leave the kid to his delusions don't get yourself in a tizzy over someone who clearly has no interest in truth or wisdom.

Lord_Reed:

@Atreides
Hey lil sis just leave the kid to his delusions don't get yourself in a tizzy over someone who clearly has no interest in truth or wisdom.

Hey. . How ya doin? I think i'll ignore him now. P.s-i can't find the second dune book anymore. The site that had it took it off because of copyright infringement or something and i can't find it anywhere else. Any ideas?

Am good. Send me an email I'll reply and attach a copy.
Howz u doin?

I'm okay. Pretty bored but okay. . Your email's hidden on your profile. So how we gon' do it? P.s-are your copies in .pdf or .jar format?

Lord_Reed:

@Atreides
Hey lil sis just leave the kid to his delusions don't get yourself in a tizzy over someone who clearly has no interest in truth or wisdom.

Seriously Reed Smoker how come you have yet to come up with a sensible post thus far? In almost 10 pages, no reflection, no insight, just banal comments?
You need to do much better than this as I know you are not a schoolboy!

@tensor777
You neither respond to issues raised intelligently or coherently and you are too uncouth for me to discuss with so this is the last time I'll respond to you until you are ready to discuss maturely.

Till then Adios Amigo.
@Atreides
On my profile? Anyway here: darthmaximusreed@yahoo.com. The books come in .txt, .pdf and .doc formats.
School's not in yet?

Lord_Reed:

@tensor777
You neither respond to issues raised intelligently or coherently and you are too uncouth for me to discuss with so this is the last time I'll respond to you until you are ready to discuss maturely.

Till then Adios Amigo.
@Atreides
On my profile? Anyway here: darthmaximusreed@yahoo.com. The books come in .txt, .pdf and .doc formats.
School's not in yet?

Okay. . I'll go with .pdf. I have microsoft office/quickword on my phone-can it open the .doc file? And nah,Uniben hasn't resumed. Current 100 level jus started exams so it looks like i'll have to wait a bit before they call us for clearance. Lemme go mail you now.

Atreides:

@Druss,i don't want to argue with you either! Matter of fact,i don't want to argue with anyone-it's just there are some things you can't ignore. And i like the fact that you said 'doesn't mean a girl should date a poor guy'. And i also agree that she shouldn't be with him more because of the money than because of the guy himself,because at the end of the day money can't buy happiness.

You should not even be at the stage of assessing a guy's income let alone dating him. Seriously I just don't get the fascination. You have not even started uni and yet you're already obsessed with obtaining material things from a guy when you should be facing up to your own career development and studies.
Just stick with your mates if you are into socialising, but you have a long way to go before you are ready for a stable long-term relationship.

Lord_Reed:

@tensor777
You neither respond to issues raised intelligently or coherently and you are too uncouth for me to discuss with so this is the last time I'll respond to you until you are ready to discuss maturely.

@Atreides and @Lord_Reed guys I dont know how you kept this up!!!

tensor777:

Rubbish and shows that you don't have any idea what you're talking about since its not money per se that is used to pursue these types of good time schoolgirls but the players swagger his game and the appearance of wealth.
Frankly a naive schoolgirl does not have a cat in hell's chance of beating the players at their game.

This was my reply to you South African Lady so your one-liner does not quite cut it

tensor777:

This was my reply to you South African Lady so your one-liner does not quite cut it

Ok fine @tensor777 what do you want?

SA Lady:



@Atreides and @Lord_Reid guys I dont know how you kept this up!!!

Matter of fact,i don't know how i kept it up either! Don't  worry;i have seen the light. I shall engageth him in discussion no more.

Atreides:

Matter of fact,i don't know how i kept it up either! Don't worry;i have seen the light. I shall engageth him in discussion no more.

Good for you girl

We have school girls here who are inexplicably fascinated with bad guys and even thinks they're fun.
Okay  why then open a thread whining and bitching ,when these same guys call you a gold-digging LovePeddler. What were you expecting?

@SA Lady
I rather hoped he'd respond intelligently enuff for discuss alas  

It is because of confused mixed-up teenagers like Asterides that there are laws aganst under-age sex in Western Countries.
What is even more pathetic is that such a wayward girl thinks her lifestyle and the mentality that goes with it is desirable when she is merely being used and exploited.