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Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by One4me: 2:47am On May 23, 2020 |
Ohizman73: What most people offering advice are discounting or treating lightly, is how this Uncle's wife request, will affect the family of the young man. "Do unto others, what you will want them to do unto you". How many of you women chanting it is our tradition, will allow your husband to impregnate this woman? The fact that he is married already, rules him out of performing this function. Having said that, what should have been done is to look for a man in the family, who has no wife (yet to marry, divorced, widowed) and let her marry him. I am not against her marrying from the family but l am against who she is focused on marrying. They should call a family meeting and sort it out. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by DMerciful(m): 2:50am On May 23, 2020 |
God killed him because he was sleeping with his brother's wife with the agreement to make her pregnant but doing withdrawal method and spilling the semen. He was banging her for nothing which is highly deceitful. Stop twisting the bible, are you not afraid of God? clintz: |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 3:11am On May 23, 2020 |
Modesthy: Mtcheeeeeeew |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by michlins(m): 3:36am On May 23, 2020 |
[quote author=Dorlarphor10 post=89854414][/quote] just ignore this conversation if Bible is your guide. We're talking serious stuff not some Jewish folklore |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Arkmanbuddy(m): 3:37am On May 23, 2020 |
kyng: What if the other family member is married, wouldn't that be adultery also? |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Reallv: 3:40am On May 23, 2020 |
Do you know what they called replace by birth.why all talking as if everything must be religion......una no get tradition?The woman is 100% right she did the right thing.The husband brother only need to tell the family the latest development in as much as that woman is not found wanting.They are free to go ahead. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 3:49am On May 23, 2020 |
Even if she is younger than you don't do it.I consider it a betrayal and ojukokoro. Thou shall not covet your neighbours wife,biko respect your uncle even in his grave. The reality is that God forbid same thing happens to you,would you be happy your nephew is doing same to your wife.One kid can bring forth a generation e.g Oga Atiku. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by jaxxy(m): 3:53am On May 23, 2020 |
Modesthy: Can she still have kids?? Why didn’t she have more with ur uncle then? How is this matter supposed to even be ur business? How old is ur single child? Seems ur uncle married late or something. Cos I don’t understand sm of the logic. Uncle not brother |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Parisian: 4:09am On May 23, 2020 |
You are the only hypocrite here. Firstly, there was no single Christian in the old testament. Secondly, God didn't kill him for not impregnating his brother's wife. clintz: |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Parisian: 4:13am On May 23, 2020 |
That it is in the Bible doesn't mean it is accepted. Murder, fornication, incest, homosexuality, pride, theft etc are all in the bible. It doesn't mean that it is accepted. michlins: |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by stonecoldcafe: 4:17am On May 23, 2020 |
michlins: Is op the only male in his family? Why must it be him? @Modesthy please flee from that woman and give her a clear NO for an answer. If she insists, let her go and call a meeting with the family men and not you or better still, let her remarry |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by sikywonder(m): 4:18am On May 23, 2020 |
There is no sin in her request, but your families, your wife must be aware and approved it. Take steps by informing elders in the family, they will handle it better. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by emmabucks: 4:23am On May 23, 2020 |
“And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the Lord: wherefore he slew him also. Then said Judah to Tamar his daughter in law, Remain a widow at thy father's house, till Shelah my son be grown: for he said, Lest peradventure he die also, as his brethren did. And Tamar went and dwelt in her father's house.” Genesis 38: 9-11KJV https://www.bible.com/1/gen.38.11.kjv Genesis 38:9-11KJV |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Chigold101(m): 4:27am On May 23, 2020 |
Modesthy:What she is asking you to do is in order according to my tradition. But the question should be are you the one who should play that part? So what you should do is to tell her to tell the family or you seek advise from elders of the family. It's not infidelity in my culture but it should be discussed if you are confused. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 4:29am On May 23, 2020 |
clintz:You guys are always good in quoting the Bible but full of devilish mind, Ka-Chineke mezie okwu 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by pendragon35(m): 4:33am On May 23, 2020 |
In igbo language, we call this "ikuchi nwanyi". The problem it will breed in the future would be more dangerous. Ask any sensible elder you know. Second, an educated and exposed person shouldn't give it a second thought, no matter the excuses |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Aboks(m): 4:33am On May 23, 2020 |
THIS IS SUPERSTORY, A LIFE OF STRIFE AND SORROW, THIS IS SUPERSTORY OF GOOD FOOD AND HOUSING, FOR THE FISHES DROWN AND EVEN DIE OF THIRST , THIS IS SUPER STORY A LIFE OF PRECIOUS STONES AND GOOD TASTE , THIS IS SUPERSTORY THIS IS SUPERSTORY EEE EEAHH! THIS IS SUPERSTORY, THIS IS SUPERSTORY , STORY |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Vulcan24(m): 4:34am On May 23, 2020 |
if your story is true.... enough if this nonsense tradition trying to create convinience where none is affordable? mehn!!! one child is ok, wetin concern u and the woman naaa. this is lust excusable. guy u don't and u must not. anybody wey loose husband should remarry not start fucking relatives in whatever guise. sick tradition traction |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by ibabz(m): 4:35am On May 23, 2020 |
Can you tell me where tithe was paid in the new testament? Who paid and to whom? femi4: |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by emmabucks: 4:36am On May 23, 2020 |
Read Genesis 38 Chapter 38 Judah and Tamar 1 And it came about at that time, that Judah 1departed from his brothers and 2visited a certain aAdullamite, whose name was Hirah. 2 Judah saw there a daughter of a certain Canaanite whose name was aShua; and he took her and went in to her. 3 So she conceived and bore a son and he named him aEr. 4 Then she conceived again and bore a son and named him aOnan. 5 She bore still another son and named him aShelah; and it was at Chezib 1that she bore him. 6 Now Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. 7 But aEr, Judah’s firstborn, was evil in the sight of the Lord, so the Lord took his life. 8 Then Judah said to Onan, “aGo in to your brother’s wife, and perform your duty as a brother-in-law to her, and raise up 1offspring for your brother.” 9 Onan knew that the 1aoffspring would not be his; so when he went in to his brother’s wife, he 2wasted his seed on the ground in order not to give 1offspring to his brother. 10 But what he did was displeasing in the sight of the Lord; so He atook his life also. 11 Then Judah said to his daughter-in-law Tamar, “aRemain a widow in your father’s house until my son Shelah grows up”; for he 1thought, “I am afraid that he too may die like his brothers.” So Tamar went and lived in her father’s house. 12 Now 1after a considerable time Shua’s daughter, the wife of Judah, died; and when 2the time of mourning was ended, Judah went up to his sheepshearers at aTimnah, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite. 13 It was told to Tamar, “1Behold, your father-in-law is going up to aTimnah to shear his sheep.” |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Seaneverdries1(m): 4:48am On May 23, 2020 |
femi4: Jeremiah 23:16 [This is what the LORD Almighty says: “Do not listen to what the prophets are prophesying to you; they fill you with false hopes. They speak visions from their own minds, not from the mouth of the LORD.] Timothy 4:3-4 [For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. 4 They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths.] |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by trutht828: 4:48am On May 23, 2020 |
Bola146: Madam wannabe feminist, women also seek same kind of "advice" here. So, it isn't a"men" thing. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by igbowoman: 4:49am On May 23, 2020 |
Modesthy: So you are actually seeking advice on what to do? |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by nurusystem(m): 4:50am On May 23, 2020 |
THAT is d beauty of ISLAM where such problem is solve. the guided religion. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by igbowoman: 4:54am On May 23, 2020 |
nurusystem: Sleeping with your aunty to produce kids is beauty? |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by AFONJACOW(m): 4:58am On May 23, 2020 |
As custom demands you are on noble cause fulfill your uncle's dream give her children nothing wrong in it |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by chidiebere123(m): 5:07am On May 23, 2020 |
Ask your wife then together with ur uncle wife ask the family , if there give u a positive answers then go ahead. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 5:08am On May 23, 2020 |
Ohizman73: The only person who seems to understand African Customs and Traditions. It even happen in the old testament. But we will never speak of it in church and I do not understand why. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by vikithor(m): 5:12am On May 23, 2020 |
fulaniHERDSman: Thank you for this super life saving statement. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 5:13am On May 23, 2020 |
Modesthy: It is common place in Igbo tradition. Call your umuna and I will suggest you discuss it with your parents first before going to the entire umuna. Also discuss with your wife's kindred. It is the proper thing to do. Let's not forget our customs and traditions, our generations to come will become salves if they do not know their history. A part of the United States still practices polygamy till tomorrow. I seldom wonder why those law never caught up with them. Our customs and traditions are who we are as a people. The Muslims still holds on to theirs, why not Christains? ABI na only go go heaven? I doubt, because God is not even a Christian. Any way, what do I know? |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Lexusgs430: 5:13am On May 23, 2020 |
Modesthy: If you have finished having your kids, go for a vasectomy...... Keep enjoying her hot pot of soup, safe in the knowledge that........ Noting go hapin....... |
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