sisisioge:


No nau...same way someone was arrested recently for insulting the president, sometimes, we like to stop and look them in the face and say "really!". That's all what this is about. Take that dasvas boy for instance...he's known to be begging a naija girl for alms upandan and in the same vain insulting same. Isn't it worth the " really!" ? Believe me, there are several like him.

So let me get this straight, because this Davash guy received 5k from ONE female, means that he should suddenly stop insulting (your words) ALL females?

Was it ALL females that gave him 5k?

Feminists:
Why is the female gender always insulted in Nairaland ? It has become a norm, I see some topics on FP I don't click on it cause I already know what the comments are. The mods keeps pushing a lot of misogynists threads to FP where men would have a field day insulting women, especially Nigerian women.
Don't they know some naive people/teens use nairaland and swallow every thing they see online.
Why is every thread an opportunity to insult women, Nigerian women especially ? Is it to get numerous likes, to sound woke or what ?

Nairaland is actually dominated by males and males with the f on their monicker. It's quite sad really, especially on romance section

Must you female folks complain about everything?

Men are insulted by females everytime on this forum but I’ve never seen any thread like this created by a man.

sisisioge:




Oga you and your lovey should carry una self comot here jor. We aren't fighting here....just airing opinions.

Ishilove:

He is being singled out because he is very vocal about how 'useless' Nigerian women are, but that didn't stop him from collecting money from one. That's double standards.

@Acidosis, so you even collected money from one of us.

zmpp:



@Acidosis, so you even collected money from one of us.

This your style is stale na. Trying to get some facts about Acidosis by asking the females here (those you think I've met or dated) 'some kain' indirectly questions won't work na. Lol


Don't stress yourself o, you won't get any 'positive' response trust me

Biancah:
I think you and Acidosis have a crush on each other

Crush ke. I am happily married.

Acidosis:



This your style is stale na. Trying to get some facts about Acidosis by asking the females here (those you think I've met or dated) 'some kain' indirectly questions won't work na. Lol


Don't stress yourself o, you won't get any 'positive' response trust me

Truth hurts, so I understand.

zmpp:


Truth hurts, so I understand.

I need to understand your pain let's talk about it

mrblessed:
Yes, nairaland is a space where abuse reigns supreme. Maybe it is because of the toga of "anonymity" it confers on members, so some people are irresponsible and careless with their comments. Or because the raging gender war makes objectivity very difficult. For example, some ladies will always defend their kind even if she is wrong, all in the name of protecting the "sister code." Ditto guys.

It is very wrong to state that women are unfairly targeted in this forum. All genders are routinely shamed and abused, perhaps it is the emotional aspect of you ladies that make you think it is lopsided. No, it is not, even though it shouldn't happen in the first place. In fact, some members --men and women alike -- are notorious for "genderised" outlook. Although these negative words, sometimes, are not directly used to putdown anyone, but to portray what obtains in the society. Some people take umbrage and become irrational when some of the inadequacies of their gender are pointed out. I believe this constitutes as "abuse" against women to you.

There is another kind of abuse the Op did not noticed. It is what I call "intragender" abuse. For instance, women who have divergent views that challenge or deviate from the mainstream expectations, are chided, derided, and called derogatory names. Men who show "too" much love and devotion to a woman are upbraided as being effeminate and emotional.

This is the worst kind of abuse.

Christ, anyone active on health section about 4 years ago would know who I am talking about.

Ishilove:

Jesus

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Plead:
Must you female folks complain about everything?

Men are insulted by females everytime on this forum but I’ve never seen any thread like this created by a man.

I'm surprised dude. From how you attacked Buka in that infamous thread, one would've thought you were the ultimate defender of the female folk and their childish tantrums.

crackland:

So let me get this straight, because this Davash guy received 5k from ONE female, means that he should suddenly stop insulting (your words) ALL females?

Was it ALL females that gave him 5k?

He generalizes naija women in his insults, streamlined it to Nland females....so yes, he should put his mouth where his money is. How does he in one minute call them failures and in the next ask them for alms? It doesn't follow. By the way, he begs generally.... Only one came through for him.

wisdomiskey:


I'm surprised dude. From how you attacked Buka in that infamous thread, one would've thought you were the ultimate defender of the female folk and their childish tantrums.

You’re wrong. I defend whoever I feel is right ,male or female.

I owe no allegiance to a specific gender but to the truth.
Here comes my siggy “I’m gonna right all the wrongs in the world”

What's the essence of this topic actually??

No be for this same forum that your girls will be calling us broke ass niggas

Stop crying.... We're just here to catch Fun

sisisioge:

He generalizes naija women in his insults, streamlined it to Nland females....so yes, he should put his mouth where his money is. How does he in one minute call them failures and in the next ask them for alms? It doesn't follow. By the way, he begs generally.... Only one came through for him.

You keep typing 'them'
How many?

Well I'm not going to make conversation out of someone else's financial need or how being needy should stop anyone from expressing opinions in the 21st century.
That's akin to saying that the beggar you pass by on the streets should NEVER have an opinion about people because he gets his sustenance from people.

If an opinion (or insult) doesn't reflect your reality, why would it be offensive to you?
Is everybody supposed to put you on a pedestal?

Mstick:
True! met TWO of them actually sometime last year in Portharcourt. They're are students at NOUN, I was inside the taxi when they entered and they shouldn't be older than 23.

You need to see the way one of them was typing agressively am sure he was posting a "Savage" comment.

I actually chuckled, so this are the people I've been arguing with back and forth?

The other one still stays with his parents with his wife which he has turned to punching bag even after she just had a baby, his parents asked her to kneel down and beg him after beating her up mercilessly after all he's her husband, he's even a druggie and he has 0 naira to cater for his pregnant wife even after she gave birth NOTHING I mean NOTHING!

He's always here and romance section talking about how women are bad.

Stop lying to Push your agenda

Mstick:
True! met TWO of them actually sometime last year in Portharcourt. They're are students at NOUN, I was inside the taxi when they entered and they shouldn't be older than 23.

You need to see the way one of them was typing agressively am sure he was posting a "Savage" comment.

I actually chuckled, so this are the people I've been arguing with back and forth?

The other one still stays with his parents with his wife which he has turned to punching bag even after she just had a baby, his parents asked her to kneel down and beg him after beating her up mercilessly after all he's her husband, he's even a druggie and he has 0 naira to cater for his pregnant wife even after she gave birth NOTHING I mean NOTHING!

He's always here and romance section talking about how women are bad.

I am SCREAMING

crackland:

You keep typing 'them'
How many?

Well I'm not going to make conversation out of someone else's financial need or how being needy should stop anyone from expressing opinions in the 21st century.
That's akin to saying that the beggar you pass by on the streets should NEVER have an opinion about people because he gets his sustenance from people.

If an opinion (or insult) doesn't reflect your reality, why would it be offensive to you?
Is everybody supposed to put you on a pedestal?

Apparently you still dont get. If I start attacking you with foe language now( yes, he does direct targeting too), would we say its my entitled opinion because its not your true state? Why then do people get arrested for hate speech or insults on offices? Why is there a legal term called libels(hope I spelt that correctly) or defamation of characters? Let me let you enjoy your day...it gets tiring going round a circle. Cheers.

Mstick:
Of course he's very rich, very, very rich in nonsense. Yes he did! 5K not in dollars oh but naira.

Feminists:
Why is the female gender always insulted in Nairaland? It has become a norm, I see some topics on FP I don't click on it cause I already know what the comments are. The mods keeps pushing a lot of misogynists threads to FP where men would have a field day insulting women, especially Nigerian women.

Hmm..

@ bold, is that the problem?

If it is, I believe most males here have been bruised by a female one way or the other. Emotionally, physically, financially.

Some haven't actually been bruised but their behaviour could be through conformity, especially when they hear stories of how some women 'eat' a man's money, drain him and dump him. You know, that kind of stuff.

Considering the abundance of over-dependent women in our society, is another factor.

Aside the sexual insults, most insults are usually hurled towards the 'entitlement mentality' of some women.

Two factors are certain here; Bad egging and conformity to victims of bad egging.

Together, they form generalization.

Not a Nairaland issue alone, it's all over the internet.

Don't they know some naive people/teens use nairaland and swallow every thing they see online.

That's when the conformity factor comes in.

Note, I just tipped in my opinion @ the bold. Just the bold text.

sisisioge:

Apparently you still dont get. If I start attacking you with foe language now( yes, he does direct targeting too), would we say its my entitled opinion because its not your true state? Why then do people get arrested for hate speech or insults on offices? Why is there a legal term called libels(hope I spelt that correctly) or defamation of characters? Let me let you enjoy your day...it gets tiring going round a circle. Cheers.

For direct targeting on your person, sure you have every reason to be offended na

But targeting a gender that has over 5000 members on Nairaland, and then YOU take it personal...what does it say about you?

Lol, cheers..

crackland:

For direct targeting on your person, sure you have every reason to be offended na

But targeting a gender that has over 5000 members on Nairaland, and then YOU take it personal...what does it say about you?

Lol, cheers..

The guy target female folks directly! You want me to type it in Spanish?

For instance, I once opened a thread looking for an apartment... Chai! You would think I stole something ni or know the guys directly. Its appalling

Mstick:
True! met TWO of them actually sometime last year in Portharcourt. They're are students at NOUN, I was inside the taxi when they entered and they shouldn't be older than 23.

You need to see the way one of them was typing agressively am sure he was posting a "Savage" comment.

I actually chuckled, so this are the people I've been arguing with back and forth?

The other one still stays with his parents with his wife which he has turned to punching bag even after she just had a baby, his parents asked her to kneel down and beg him after beating her up mercilessly after all he's her husband, he's even a druggie and he has 0 naira to cater for his pregnant wife even after she gave birth NOTHING I mean NOTHING!

He's always here and romance section talking about how women are bad.

I smell lies sha....

funmisticqueen2:
Nairaland is actually dominated by males and males with the f on their monicker. It's quite sad really, especially on romance section

Except you chose to see things from women alonr perspectives alone,most males you tag women bashers have shared their own truths of the female gender and complained about their dealings with them.
With dande 55,sexy lassie, you funmi that broke sham guys, ri ele etc ,y baby, eye ness, lil miss favvy, shuga vee and several monikers,I will conclude there are men and women who have conflating views of the opposite sex just that men are more here so it seems more pronounced.

anyone who sees nothing wrong in calling men broke and sees everything wrong in calling ladies hoes is being dishonest

Plead:


I smell lies sha....

Anything to push their agenda na

I noticed this trend too

I don't blame the men though because I believe they are only expressing themselves through perceived ideology,most of the men who comment don't talk from experience but through public perception of the feminist.

Personally I'm a ardent fan of the old definitive feminist unlike what is obtainable today.

sisisioge:


The guy target female folks directly! You want me to type it in Spanish?

For instance, I once opened a thread looking for an apartment... Chai! You would think I stole something ni or know the guys directly. Its appalling

Only you one are female folks.. abi

If someone targets females generally and not you specifically, what makes it personal to you? Should I ask it in Latin?

On your thread, if you're attacked then you should be offended.
Your offense still shouldn't stop them from offending you though, since offending you is not a crime under any law.

Kingarthur21:

Except you chose to see things from women alonr perspectives alone,most males you tag women bashers have shared their own truths of the female gender and complained about their dealings with them.
With dande 55,sexy lassie, you funmi that broke sham guys, ri ele etc ,y baby, eye ness, lil miss favvy, shuga vee and several monikers,I will conclude there are men and women who have conflating views of the opposite sex just that men are more here so it seems more pronounced.

anyone who sees nothing wrong in calling men broke and sees everything wrong in calling ladies hoes is being dishonest

i agree.

I have now decided to choose my battles.

cococandy:
Is Nairaland anti-women . Yes. Obviously. To anyone with even a smidge of a brain. If someone says otherwise, they are biased. QED.

On the other hand, you people shouldn’t broke shame specific individuals by name.

I actually love how he's being called out. There's nothing bad about being broke, it's not a constant state. There's also nothing bad in seeking for help.
However, you saw how quick he was to forget the act. I won't be surprised if he still goes ahead to say things like 'Nigerian women are lazy, they can't do this, they can't do that etc.'

How many Nigerian families can depend solely on the man's salaries? I even remember one thread in which some guys stated 'Nigerian women watch Telemundo all day. '
In which world?

You and poco are just too nice. Lord knows how many times these guys have picked up on you, yet you still help them. It's really admirable, but I could never. I'd rather use my olosho feminist ass money to uplift other women by helping them.