Reasons Why Most Guys Delay In Marrying Their Girlfriend

If you've been dating a guy for more than a year and he's yet to show any sign of commitment or keep delaying things between the two of you, it might be as a result of one or two things...

It might be due to the girl's character. Probably she is only good in bed, but can't cook. When you keep asking your boo to take you out for lunch or buy your takeaway and you hardly make any attempt to cook for him, my dear you are already on the wrong bus.

Every guy desires a woman that can cook and make him lick his fingers after every meal. �. If you ain't good in the kitchen as a lady, OYO is your name. A girl I know once lost her boo to another girl, cos she prefer to eat out then cook at home. While the new girl can cook for Africa

And another reason might be due to financial issue. Lots of guys want to do society weddings (wed in a big way). They want to shake the town on their wedding day. And cos of this, they would like to gather enough funds so as to give their bride a befitting wedding... Every girl wants a big wedding. Even if the guy doesn't want such, his girlfriend might want to do her wedding in a big way so as to use it as a show off to both friends and foes...

The third reason, could be that your boyfriend is a coded player, who is only dating you cos of sex or other benefits he gets from you. And if you are dating such a guy, just be ready to keep playing the role of a wife without a wedding ring.

Another reason could be if the guy don't really love her as claimed. He will keep delaying marriage plans with her until he finds his desired woman. So that he can break up with his girlfriend and marry the woman he wants. Lots of girls are in such a relationship presently but they are not aware.

The last reason might be due to his siblings or family dislikeness for you. Even if his siblings or family always call you 'our wife' whenever they see you, my dear don't be deceived. They might even be the ones telling him not to marry you, simply cos they don't like you...family do play a big role in a man' marriage decision most times...though some ladies usually do their best to familiarize themselves with their boyfriend' family members. But that might not be enough to make them like you or want you as a wife for their son, brother or friend.

Once they don't fancy you, there is nothing you can do to change their perception about you. If you like, clean, wash and cook for the whole family everyday, it won't change anything.

My dear, if you' ve been dating your current main boo for more than a year, after reading this post, biko go and do the needful

You're quite right

Marriage is a needless adventure/entanglement/engagement (infact, add any description you like) for an ambitious Nigeria man.

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. Simple.

Nobod wants to delay anything except for financial reasons. no point delaying a marriage because she has bad habits. No one suddenly change their habit during Courtship.

Its either you are interested or not. Don't waste your time

Saintmary:
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. Simple.

This idiom is usually used to refer to men who don't want to get married, when they can get all the benefits of marriage without getting married.

But it's best to buy the cow so that it will ultimately belong to you...

Bro....No hurry in life Sha...but Delay is too dangerous as well