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Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by StubbornGENIUS: 8:43am On May 31, 2020 |
This is deep.OP university education no be beans oo.I hope you won't stop in the middle of the race. |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by Nobody: 9:57am On May 31, 2020 |
thesicilian: Jilu kwa nwayo oo. Dear poster, I am also that kind of sappy human who would be torn apart by the idea of helping one twin and leaving the other. But it’s all finally down to what you feel is right. |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by Nobody: 9:59am On May 31, 2020 |
bryanarchie: This might be a better option, especially if she is an adult. I was liking your idea but then I started reading the whole “helping your business” bit and I became confused. Then you acknowledged that people will misunderstand you. I don’t know why peoples’ misunderstanding would affect well-meaning and true intentions? And so I modified. |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by andyanders: 10:08am On May 31, 2020 |
StubbornGENIUS:Do not discourage those willing to help others stand. You are not the one that came up with the issue. The poor girl found herself in that position 'cus of her situation. If God ministers to the heart op to help the poor girl, same God will provide the resouces to op to see the girl achieve her dream. Op comfirmed that the gir has been helpful to her home and where she works for her in her shop as a sales girl. She saved to take jamb and the woman found her worthy to assist her achieve her dream. Let op see her as her daughter and shall recieve favor God. It's left for the girl and her God if later forget those who helped her to the top. Do not pray you see yourself in a position you need assistance. Great Ambassador John Fashonu was abandoned by his father and was adopted by a forster parents. He became great and took care of his forster parents. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by halogate: 12:09pm On May 31, 2020 |
..hmmm...I normally don't comment on threads like this...but I'll make an exception today. ..I commend ur intentions to help the young lady in question. it's only God that rewards such an effort.. my honest advice.. Firstly..assist if and only if u are ready to go the distance..(I'm talking from experience) Secondly..dnt make the mistake of taking her in. Let her stay with her pple. ur business with her should only be academic and upkeep. Nothing more. Thirdly,..be prepared for the unknown. Cos this ur "good intention" today maybe seen as something else tomorrow. We are humans... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by halogate: 12:32pm On May 31, 2020 |
StubbornGENIUS:.. Absolutely reality OP.. University education is not like paying monthly salary oh. I know how much strain it was on my mum to train I and my 2 brothers in the uni at the same time. So u better be ready. Another advice. ...Since she's still a teenager. Sit her down and talk to her. Let her learn a skill or trade for two years. She can apply for part time studies during or after the apprenticeship..or full time studies after it. ..That way she already has a potential means of supporting herself financially. ..u can support her with allowances during the apprenticeship period. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by bryanarchie: 12:36pm On May 31, 2020 |
I have decided to clearly spell out my terms and condition to her and her family. I'm not rich but as long as I'm alive it will be possible. I will never abandon her except she goes contrary to our agreement. If she gets pregnant, I'll stop funding and count my loss. I'm not expecting anything from her but a First Class degree won't be bad. Thank you nairaland. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by bryanarchie: 12:39pm On May 31, 2020 |
halogate: Hmmmmmmmm.... |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by Belafonte(m): 12:45pm On May 31, 2020 |
bryanarchie: I see no reason why you can’t help her to help you as far as she will not be rendering sexual help. |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by Belafonte(m): 12:46pm On May 31, 2020 |
bryanarchie: How many men do you know named Bryan or Archie? |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by Belafonte(m): 12:50pm On May 31, 2020 |
andyanders: Maybe the problem people have with the OP is the use of the word help, which they assume must be rendered without expectation. But I am of the opinion that help can be reciprocal as far as the reciprocity is balanced. In my opinion, I think the OP’s terms are fair... I think |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by Belafonte(m): 12:53pm On May 31, 2020 |
bryanarchie: Attachment to a twin is silly talk. Any individual who has written SSCE is ready for higher institution. I still maintain that this young woman will benefit from this arrangement immensely, even more than you. I’m in support of your plan |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by heniford2: 1:22pm On May 31, 2020 |
thesicilian:it usually end in tears first marry her to avoid the word she used you woman can pretend to be good until the get what the want then she will unleash the demons in her be smart oh bros |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by Nobody: 2:58pm On May 31, 2020 |
bryanarchie: If this is how u really want it without any ulterior motive then u are one of the best. The Bible says that anyone who help the poor is lending to God. Modified. |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by omorttee4u(m): 4:22pm On May 31, 2020 |
Madam, if you truly want to help or have intention of helping her. Let her enrol in a beauty salon or any other skill she can acquire for the period of 6months, if she know what she's doing. She should have gather something that will keep her going in school. Meanwhile, she's still with you and then collect salary for those period. Don't complicate yourself by trying to separate her from anyone. Don't increase her salary out rightly,but open an account for her to save. She can do whatever she like with her money. You don't need to go beyond the girl you know. More over, it's better you create a path to success for her than to have full possession of her. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by drmikeadams(m): 6:00pm On May 31, 2020 |
bryanarchie: Provided u don't start disturbing her for toto weda now or in d future..... Ur doing well |
Re: How Do I Help My Sales Girl? by Nobody: 8:30pm On May 31, 2020 |
Please do the best you can to help her. Whosoever helps the poor, lends to the Lord, and He will repay. God bless you. bryanarchie: |
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