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Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 6:03am On May 31, 2020
I need practical answers with experiences pls. The biggest problem a man has is lust. How can we successfully tame this beast.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by Nobody: 6:42am On May 31, 2020
Marriage alone.


Fasting helps too
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by malvisguy212: 7:06am On May 31, 2020
If you follow the teaching of religion, you will always have problems with lust, rather follow the teaching of the Master, Jesus, He urge us to obey THE INTENT OF THE LAW, The religious ruling class was especially
susceptible to selective obedience of the law,
resulting in moral hypocrisy. Jesus explained that
the moral commandments were not to be followed merely to the letter of the law, but also to the intent of the law. So, it was not enough to abstain from adultery, but God required that one not even look on a woman with lust (Matthew 5:27-28).
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by malvisguy212: 7:10am On May 31, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Marriage alone.


Fasting helps too
this generation is adulterous, marriage cannot save you from lust.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by Dtruthspeaker: 7:13am On May 31, 2020
It is only by knowing (knowledge) and understanding, then acquisition of wisdom that you can prevail and Overcome.

Also, hope you are not under the Curse in Romans 1:24.

If clear, then Pray for the understanding to be given you to know and understand as far as Completely as possible, Proverbs 1, 2, 3, 4; then Proverbs 5 and 7 and 9 verses 13- 18, would stand securely in your soul forever!

If you Perfect the knowing and Doing of these things, then would you overcome most sins including lust.

As a start it is a good to you that you know you lust (confession of the Truth in your soul like the woman of Samaria)
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by Exmilitant(m): 7:15am On May 31, 2020
If your eyes dey like to look woman nyash and brewst and dey watch blue film.. Blind the eye. If your preek dey like to stand when you see fine woman with big nyash... Cut the preek comot. Na jesus talkam o.... Metaphor!!!
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by Nobody: 7:30am On May 31, 2020
malvisguy212:
this generation is adulterous, marriage cannot save you from lust.
Ok o. Which kind of advice are you looking for again.


I think there's a medical procedure one can undergo to kill all those feelings.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 7:12pm On May 31, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Marriage alone.


Fasting helps too
great! But the problem is married men commit adultery, masturbate and so on....?
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 7:15pm On May 31, 2020
malvisguy212:
If you follow the teaching of religion, you will always have problems with lust, rather follow the teaching of the Master, Jesus, He urge us to obey THE INTENT OF THE LAW, The religious ruling class was especially
susceptible to selective obedience of the law,
resulting in moral hypocrisy. Jesus explained that
the moral commandments were not to be followed merely to the letter of the law, but also to the intent of the law. So, it was not enough to abstain from adultery, but God required that one not even look on a woman with lust (Matthew 5:27-28).
I need more explanation on INTENT OF THE LAW
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by Mdmelijah: 7:19pm On May 31, 2020
ayshacom:
I need practical answers with experiences pls. The biggest problem a man has is lust. How can we successfully tame this beast.
by loving people, giving them joyful. Actually caring and thinking them.

Imagine you see a very curvy pretty lady, and you think ah my sister and you treat her as such and see her as such. You care for her without demanding anything in return.
You tell yourself this lady is someone else's wife and if she ends up yours you have respected and valued her and will reap the reward.

Then you say, a seed on how I want men to treat my daughters.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by hakeem4(m): 7:41pm On May 31, 2020
Well there is nothing you can do than to pluck out your eye according to the bible according to Matthew 5:29

But to be serious, it is naturally ingrained in us by natural selection and there is nothing you can do
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 9:14pm On May 31, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:
It is only by knowing (knowledge) and understanding, then acquisition of wisdom that you can prevail and Overcome.

Also, hope you are not under the Curse in Romans 1:24.

If clear, then Pray for the understanding to be given you to know and understand as far as Completely as possible, Proverbs 1, 2, 3, 4; then Proverbs 5 and 7 and 9 verses 13- 18, would stand securely in your soul forever!

If you Perfect the knowing and Doing of these things, then would you overcome most sins including lust.

As a start it is a good to you that you know you lust (confession of the Truth in your soul like the woman of Samaria)
Good hope you overcame yours. Thumbs up!
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 9:18pm On May 31, 2020
Mdmelijah:
by loving people, giving them joyful. Actually caring and thinking them.

Imagine you see a very curvy pretty lady, and you think ah my sister and you treat her as such and see her as such. You care for her without demanding anything in return.
You tell yourself this lady is someone else's wife and if she ends up yours you have respected and valued her and will reap the reward.

Then you say, a seed on how I want men to treat my daughters.
I don't agree with you, that 'sister' something has cause more damage than any other thing.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 9:23pm On May 31, 2020
Exmilitant:
If your eyes dey like to look woman nyash and brewst and dey watch blue film.. Blind the eye. If your preek dey like to stand when you see fine woman with big nyash... Cut the preek comot. Na jesus talkam o.... Metaphor!!!
I think this is to show you how serious SIN is. Because in the end he said it is better to lose one of your body parts than to be thrown into hell fire which logically you know is better.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by DFAMEGUY11S(m): 9:58pm On May 31, 2020
Mdmelijah:
by loving people, giving them joyful. Actually caring and thinking them.

Imagine you see a very curvy pretty lady, and you think ah my sister and you treat her as such and see her as such. You care for her without demanding anything in return.
You tell yourself this lady is someone else's wife and if she ends up yours you have respected and valued her and will reap the reward.

Then you say, a seed on how I want men to treat my daughters.
you totally failed it when you try to do that you have cause morn problem, the best thing to do brother i to read bible always e dey happen to everybody, befor can stand and said you have not b lust over a girl or lady that you start church early and really devote or decate yourself to god , because is God can help you need to know your level in spiritual life , there is no drug for it drug for it is pray and keep on resist that spirit a time goes on you will over come it, is a devily seed hat devil have sold to every life of man and woman not only man e dey happen to both woman so my brother keep on praying against don't give in whenever it comes if it posible i due do it when you see fine girl or lady coming you will throw your face another direction thank you bro

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Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by davidinchrist(m): 10:51pm On May 31, 2020
ayshacom:
I need practical answers with experiences pls. The biggest problem a man has is lust. How can we successfully tame this beast.

Friend, the only way is the "Original" of total Surrender to Jesus.

I said original because many do claim that they've tried that many times but didn't work: so I knew it's the FAKE version.

I know because it worked and still works for me.

And I had a really terrible sexual immorality background "as very small kid". It's unspeakable.

The fear of God is Key here, not necessarily counselling, deliverance; in fact, not even prayer.

Yes, we should ask God for power in prayer, BUT we still got to CHOOSE whether to SIN OR NOT.

Solution: The fear of God: total surrender to Jesus to overcome and have Eternal life.

See this as well, IF you so wish:
https://www.nairaland.com/5787272/overcoming-fornication-

May Jesus Bless You.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 11:29pm On May 31, 2020
davidinchrist:


Friend, the only way is the "Original" of total Surrender to Jesus.

I said original because many do claim that they've tried that many times but didn't work: so I knew it's the FAKE version.

I know because it worked and still works for me.

And I had a really terrible sexual immorality background "as very small kid". It's unspeakable.

The fear of God is Key here, not necessarily counselling, deliverance; in fact, not even prayer.

Yes, we should ask God for power in prayer, BUT we still got to CHOOSE whether to SIN OR NOT.

Solution: The fear of God: total surrender to Jesus to overcome and have Eternal life.

See this as well, IF you so wish:
https://www.nairaland.com/5787272/overcoming-fornication-

May Jesus Bless You.
Thanks

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Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 11:32pm On May 31, 2020
DFAMEGUY11S:
you totally failed it when you try to do that you have cause morn problem, the best thing to do brother i to read bible always e dey happen to everybody, befor can stand and said you have not b lust over a girl or lady that you start church early and really devote or decate yourself to god , because is God can help you need to know your level in spiritual life , there is no drug for it drug for it is pray and keep on resist that spirit a time goes on you will over come it, is a devily seed hat devil have sold to every life of man and woman not only man e dey happen to both woman so my brother keep on praying against don't give in whenever it comes if it posible i due do it when you see fine girl or lady coming you will throw your face another direction thank you bro
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by judedwriter(m): 7:25am On Jun 01, 2020
ayshacom:
I need practical answers with experiences pls. The biggest problem a man has is lust. How can we successfully tame this beast.

The major way to tame lust is taming your flesh.

Spend more time to grow spiritually by Bible study, fasting and prayers.

When your spirit is stronger than your flesh, your lust for women will subside.

Also, deliverance is necessary. Some demons entice us into sexual sins, until these demons go out, people will continue in immorality.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by Dtruthspeaker: 7:25am On Jun 01, 2020
ayshacom:
Good hope you overcame yours. Thumbs up!

With the help from God and with all I said and more, am beating it, no single incident.

But the exam is still going on oh, but I know that as long I doing all that I have learnt, I will pass for they don't even tempt me like a statement I once heard "you can't threaten an old woman with pregnancy" cheesy

I found Sure Strengths in 1) I Love God So So Much and He is Indeed, Very Very Good, and so i Also Want to make Him Happy as He Has Done to Me!

2) I have seen the Destroyed End of All who Fall into Lust, Most, Never come up again from that Very Deeeep PiiiT! I came to the conclusion that it is better not to even go near the pit not to even talk of entering into it!

3) God Who Goodly has Given me my own good wife (a good wife who can find? I was Given mine). So in great appreciation to God and in further honour of her, I am very Happy walking this road and I did not know that it would be this Soo Sweeet!!

Men, if only you could learn to walk this road, meen it is very very very sweet with many many many good things, I tell you the Truth!

The 60 seconds, ok 30 minutes sweetness of Lust, No Reach this One! This One is sweet from morning to night, all day, all night, all week, all year, all years!

While lust after all its sweetness, COMES WITH GREAT PAIN, the Bitch Must become the The-Evil sent to Torment you and finally Destroy you, But on this Road, Blessings very plenty, increase in good things very plenty, your plans shall always work, Peace very plenty, Nothing and no one dey disturb you. And all the fine fine babes wey no dey give you eye, na so dem go dey greet you with Great Respect and Fear "Good morning Sir, how is your Wife!"

Man, this is Life!

Come on Over.

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Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by petra1(m): 9:35am On Jun 01, 2020
ayshacom:
I need practical answers with experiences pls. The biggest problem a man has is lust. How can we successfully tame this beast.

Solution depends on the source.

Firstly it's not true that every one have list problem. Just as you cant say everyone has slealing problem.

Secondly Lust has different origin . Exposure to pornography
Personal imagination
Demonic oppression
Sex

If it starts at one point in your life . You need to cut the source . Cut of the unhealthy habits , porn ,association that encourage such . Get your mind busy with Gods word and purpose .

There are spirits of lust that can come by any of the habits above , through sex,thought and pornography. Even if you stop the habit the spirit still torments the body . You need to cast the demon of lust out . Repent of every uncleanes first . Ask
The holy spirit to help you. Command the spirit to come out . Most probably it will go. And after the prayer keep yourself in the word of God and keep off from atmosphere of temptation . Satan can send some old girlfriend to look for you .
If for any reason you couldn't cast it out . Get an experienced minister to help you.
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 9:04pm On Jun 01, 2020
petra1:


Solution depends on the source.

Firstly it's not true that every one have list problem. Just as you cant say everyone has slealing problem.

Secondly Lust has different origin . Exposure to pornography
Personal imagination
Demonic oppression
Sex

If it starts at one point in your life . You need to cut the source . Cut of the unhealthy habits , porn ,association that encourage such . Get your mind busy with Gods word and purpose .

There are spirits of lust that can come by any of the habits above , through sex,thought and pornography. Even if you stop the habit the spirit still torments the body . You need to cast the demon of lust out . Repent of every uncleanes first . Ask
The holy spirit to help you. Command the spirit to come out . Most probably it will go. And after the prayer keep yourself in the word of God and keep off from atmosphere of temptation . Satan can send some old girlfriend to look for you .
If for any reason you couldn't cast it out . Get an experienced minister to help you.


thanks
Re: Help! How Can One Controlled Lust by ayshacom: 9:10pm On Jun 01, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:


With the help from God and with all I said and more, am beating it, no single incident.

But the exam is still going on oh, but I know that as long I doing all that I have learnt, I will pass for they don't even tempt me like a statement I once heard "you can't threaten an old woman with pregnancy" cheesy

I found Sure Strengths in 1) I Love God So So Much and He is Indeed, Very Very Good, and so i Also Want to make Him Happy as He Has Done to Me!

2) I have seen the Destroyed End of All who Fall into Lust, Most, Never come up again from that Very Deeeep PiiiT! I came to the conclusion that it is better not to even go near the pit not to even talk of entering into it!

3) God Who Goodly has Given me my own good wife (a good wife who can find? I was Given mine). So in great appreciation to God and in further honour of her, I am very Happy walking this road and I did not know that it would be this Soo Sweeet!!

Men, if only you could learn to walk this road, meen it is very very very sweet with many many many good things, I tell you the Truth!

The 60 seconds, ok 30 minutes sweetness of Lust, No Reach this One! This One is sweet from morning to night, all day, all night, all week, all year, all years!

While lust after all its sweetness, COMES WITH GREAT PAIN, the Bitch Must become the The-Evil sent to Torment you and finally Destroy you, But on this Road, Blessings very plenty, increase in good things very plenty, your plans shall always work, Peace very plenty, Nothing and no one dey disturb you. And all the fine fine babes wey no dey give you eye, na so dem go dey greet you with Great Respect and Fear "Good morning Sir, how is your Wife!"

Man, this is Life!

Come on Over.



I'm happy for you.

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