I've been in a relationship with this guy for 5 years, we're planning to get married this year October, our relationship has always been a long distance one, and even now, I work in Lagos ad he works in Ibadan, we hardly have time for each other because of the nature of his job (he's a medical doctor). Lately, we've been quarreling a lot because he doesnt call often enough and he hardly even has time to visit. I've been craving for more masculine attention recently, and I'm beginning to fall in love with a colleague of mine. This colleague of mine is always showing me so much attention and care, I put up some resistance at first, but now, I'm beginning to really like him. I dont know what to do anymore, Pls advice

the harvoc distance causes in a relationship cannot be quantitfied, but u know dt d devil u know is better than d angel u dont know, so i'll advice u call ur bf n u guys shld sit down n talk about it cuz its posible he mite also wnt out of d relatnship but does nt know ow to say it,

my dear i advice you settle down with the first guy,forget all this stories, what happens if the colleague of yours is been posted out of lagos some day to port-harcourt? will you begin to search for another colleague? its not easy but try.

distance has always been known as one of the factors that make so many relationship go sour.
my advice to you is that you shud know what you really want.
you cannot possibly love two people at the same time.i strongly disagree with you.
for the medical doctor guy if he is the one you really want then you have to let him know how you feel about him not been around and you guys can reach a compromise or something.you can make it work if you want to.
i have observed that ladies always love anyone that makes them, happy feel loved whenever their man is not around or faraway.
may i add that if the new guy in question is not your colleague and you do not get to see him everyday,but he showers all this care and stuff on you,you'll still feel the way you feel.
i almost lost my woman to not been around her too so i am talking from experience.
please know that most new guys will always make you feel like you are their all in all but with time when you are so close and all they'll probably be like you doctor man.
i strongly advice that you sit your medical doctor man down and talk to him reach and agreement with him and i know ALL WILL BE WELL.I wish you well.takia, olufola.

In as much as I don't place much weight on number of years as much as the substance of value added within those years,I still think five years is a lot of time to throw away ESPECIALLY you ladies with all your Tick Tock Tiger Battery In The Clock Mindset.It's too late for buyers remorse now because you should have considered your "male around" craving before you jumped into the relationship except the shift just happened.

I'd suggest you be calm and fliter this new found feeling through sound reasoning.
Are you truly in love with this guy or are your feelings just a function of your immediate and maybe intense desire to be around a guy. You know how susceptible you ladies are to your hormones.So sit down and think it through.Besides the grass might be greener on the other side but the water bill might be higher too.Considering your boyfriend,what happens if he's suddenly posted to lagos or wherever it is that you stay.Then you'll be in a major quandry.

 You are speaking about your self don' t you think the distance is also affecting him too,You ladies always want to see yourselves at the center of everything.Relationships are bound to have hiccups just take this as one of yours and water it out since you still love him.Have a meet and discuss and in lending yourselves  to some degree of constructive compromise,you could find a way to be happy again.All the best.

Whoooosh, That was long!No be say them dey pay person.

fall in love with him, fffuck him, wear your pant, go home, smile to your man. simple.

Follow ur heart.

Whether far or near, I believe you should always give ur 100% in every relationship.

You are not in love with two people at the same time, you are just tired of your long distance relationship.

You should really make a decision now and not waste anyone's time.

@poster
whether you fall in love with the new guy or not is irrelevant but you should be honest with yourself and the people in your life. so pls don not waste time and if what you want is that new guy then let bobo #1 know where your relationship stands so he doesnt wish for the stars that aint there.

I don't think you are in love with your colleague at all. It's just your need for attention and also it's probably time you moved on from your boyfriend, and don't jump into another relationship fast.







p.s
dont know why some women need men to fulfil them?

Ma_J_Blige: fall in love with him, fffuck him, wear your pant, go home, smile to your man. simple.

hahahahhahahhhah best answer of the year!!!!

Olufola: I've been in a relationship with this guy for 5 years, we're planning to get married this year October, our relationship has always been a long distance one, and even now, I work in Lagos ad he works in Ibadan, we hardly have time for each other because of the nature of his job (he's a medical doctor). Lately, we've been quarreling a lot because he doesnt call often enough and he hardly even has time to visit. I've been craving for more masculine attention recently, and I'm beginning to fall in love with a colleague of mine. This colleague of mine is always showing me so much attention and care, I put up some resistance at first, but now, I'm beginning to really like him. I dont know what to do anymore, Pls advice

There's really nothing you can do. Your fate is SEALED...except the second guy fúcks up .

MaJBlige:
fall in love with him, fffuck him, wear your pant, go home, smile to your man. simple.

exactly what she needs at the moment...killing two birds with one pusy

iice:
Humans. Always greedy. Never satisfied. And forever selfish.

especially females...

hottottie:
I don't think you are in love with your colleague at all. It's just your need for attention and also it's probably time you moved on from your boyfriend, and don't jump into another relationship fast.







p.s
dont know why some women need men to fulfil them?

you all cant do without sex

Love doesn't have plan b