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RAPE: Who Should Be Blamed? Men, Women Or Mothers? by etcsines: 12:42pm On Jun 02, 2020
Parents have a lot of roles to play in curbing rape. How you are nurturing your male children tells a lot about them when they grow up.
A child can have everything while growing up and still have a bad upbringing. Many parents have failed in their duties of training their male children to be responsible for women.

Many parents are (indirectly) training their male children to intimidate and not respect women because a man is the ‘head of the family’ and they must not subject themselves in any form to women, which is wrong.

There are a lot of traits a male child will show while growing up that will give his parents clue that this child will like women or be a womanizer when he grows up. How do parents handle such a kid? They mostly applaud them and make them feel like it is a normal thing to like women too much. Gradually, such a kid will start teaching himself how to dominate women, this leads to the use of force with women and progressively to rape.

Some men are rapists because nobody told them the lengths not to go with women (girls) when they were growing up, while some do it to satisfy themselves, which is outright wrong.

Rape is a brutal issue that needs everyone’s unity to curb. Always remember, the men who rape were given birth to and nurtured by women.

Instead of focusing on blaming the men, let us all join forces together to stop this act right before boys become men.

Written by: Adeyinka Oluwamayowa

Source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2020/06/rape-who-should-be-blamed-men-women-or.html

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Re: RAPE: Who Should Be Blamed? Men, Women Or Mothers? by Ussycool: 12:49pm On Jun 02, 2020
Wait...
Yes, this is quite true. Some fathers train their sons to be violent and disrespectful to the women including there own mum. Imagine, telling your wife to stop your son from doing domestic chores because it is a women things. He will grow wing and become baaad.
Let's train our sons to value and respect women even if she is just a girl.

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Re: RAPE: Who Should Be Blamed? Men, Women Or Mothers? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jun 02, 2020
Op stop this joke.
Re: RAPE: Who Should Be Blamed? Men, Women Or Mothers? by LordIsaac(m): 1:08pm On Jun 02, 2020
I shall speak from the angle of victim precipitation theory. All these unnecessary sexually stimulating acts done publicly, particularly tweaking, must stop! And ladies must learn decency and avoid placing themselves in situations that can at best be described as "looking for trouble". And men as well as women must understand that people have right to their bodies and this must not be violated. Men and women must learn to practice self control!

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Re: RAPE: Who Should Be Blamed? Men, Women Or Mothers? by bigiyaro(m): 1:30pm On Jun 02, 2020
am sure Adam did not train Cain to kill, but Cain still killed Abel, where did he that from?man is just naturally evil and self-centered, rapists are especially mentally sick just like serial killers.

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